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Indecent proposal..perhaps

January 12 2012

I am a 30 sumthing woman, happily engaged to my dream man. While on a business trip with 3 colleges, one male and two other females, a random and sumwhat brief discussion, over wine after work in the hotel bar was raised...what do we think about a man or woman offering money for sex with another mans wife...opinions varied and not really taken serious at that time, topic changed. A couple of weeks later, Tom approached me and asked, how would I feel if He were to ask my man Greg, if he were to pay an amount to us which would allow him a week end away with us, with the intention of watching, joining in any form,serving and submitting,or anything we are both comfortable with? I told him, I may think about it, I am definately telling Greg, i dont know what we will decide, I personally am happy and have never thought about you in any form other than a work college, im kinda ofended and kinda flattered, i havent told Greg yet..its been 6hrs since Tom made his intentions to me...what do you think?

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RHP User

14 years ago

Seriously..... it is a fantasy of some to pay for sex. Yes they can go to a prostitute but that is really the unknown isnt it? I would definately be discussing it with your partner. Maybe he likes the idea that another man finds you so desireable he is prepared to pay for the priviledge of having sex with you. I can certainly understand that you would be both flattered and offended at the same time. Talk it over.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I find it all too creepy. I mean, it's fine when you're into that sort of thing... but money soils everything and puts expectations, and perhaps control, where it should not be. Also, it may not be real. Let's face it, how much do you trust this manipulating arsehole?HUgsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Just one more thing.... keep your work and your sex life completely seperate. It is soooo proven to raise nothing but trouble.HugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

One other thing....That's a clear cut case of sexual harrassment from a HR perspective.HugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

I dont know about this one..i dont hink mixing pleasure with work collegues is healthy..somewhere sometime someone will get hurt..i.e. talk out of school ..dont do it !!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Bad idea- what an arsehole! you should be offended darling. He has said to you..." we have established what you are, now we just need a price..."your fiance looks like he can handle himself- tell him...tell him now.......!!!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'Stalky_Studnuts'Just one more thing.... keep your work and your sex life completely seperate. It is soooo proven to raise nothing but trouble.HugsStalky I do try Stalky, honestly (flutters eyelashes innocent) muttering to self, keep it seperate keep it ohhhh never mind! And yes it is sexual harassment. So do not go there you will loose your credibility in the workplace. My boss years ago came to my house uninvited and said he would give me more shifts if I slept with him. I was a starving uni student then. His wife was a lovely woman and a good friend. I said no thanks and he got pretty aggressive and ended up dragging me into the bedroom, and threw me on the bed. I said ok ok, just roll over unzip and I will blow you. He rolled on his back a grin on his chops and as he unzipped I bolted for the door, yelling if you ever come back I will tell your wife. I worked for him for years,and he always was grabbing at me but I managed put some sharp objects through his hands. In my day when you were working, it was the norm to have bosses hands up your dress. When I was a stewardess it was then customers that went up for a touch of the puss. One guy even bit my nipple when I lent over to press off his call button The silver tray that hit his head made a lovely musical sound. His front dental plate also flew out, bought tears to my eyes, poor luv. I have to agree work is work, it all goes well till something happens then it hits the fan. Your partner could also get mad and hit the guy at such a proposal However, if that excites you then set up a meet on RHP after you talk to your partner and Get the guy to pay for a hotel and then leave a dollar on the side table Its like hooking, and its still them watching you with boyfriend or having you the excitement is still there I love it when I book into a hotel and they guy leaves the cost of the hotel in cash by the bed That way he can bugger off if he wants and I can stay and use the pool and spend the rest of the time in those great sheets reading and room service :) ahhh the after glow of a five-star hotel , nothing like it.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Indont have to many hard and fast rules, but don't screw the crew has served me well.. I've see to many people come to grief after the office romance has gone south. Once you add money into the mix, your opening up a whole new can of worms. The guy may feel he's entitled to do wat he wants cause he's paid u. if hes bitter at work then u have to deal with that, or perhaps he may form the opinion that your fair game any time he wants.. What if he told someone else that he paid u, you might get all sorts of offers.. DON'T SCREW THE CREW.

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RHP User

14 years ago

too close to home when screwing the work crew .. did it once, was great for a few months and then went very pear shaped and was very awkward for a long time. luckily for me she left and moved interstate, but i considered resigning as well just to get away from it all. AND if there were money involved, bloody hell it just screams disaster!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'Stalky_Studnuts'Just one more thing.... keep your work and your sex life completely seperate. It is soooo proven to raise nothing but trouble.HugsStalkyabsobloodylutely

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