M58
In the shit.
August 23 2013
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BrightBubbly
12 years ago
Are you ok ? What's happened ?Do you need a Scotch Fillet, a bottle of Red and a friend ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have you been Naughty again Blindman ? Love includes Pain so that Love can be felt more acutely . Love is Sacrifice . And White Lies are sometimes acceptable ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm guessing one of three: - You're drunk - You love speaking in riddles - You are expecting the person you deceived to read this and know what you mean. But you're expecting vengeance? Doesn't really sound like it was the healthiest relationship to start with in that case. I hope you explain more. And I'm sorry to hear you're hurting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
not all lies are bad lies,but when we lie to protect the other person from the hurt of what we have done,then it will surely hurt a thousand times more than the plain truth . There would be no need for vengeance as you are already suffering. The first rule of this game is to be open about how you play it, and then the other can decide whether or not they want to play.....and then if they develop an attachment for you, at least it is in the knowledge of who you are Blindman,and not an illusion. Because who you are ,not the illusion is loveable....we all are.xR
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's like this.....those that speak up about about what they want will find it. Those that don't won't. Until then live by the 3 F's. Find em. Fuck em. Forget they ever entered your life. :) this system will be sure to mitigate against said feelings you've adopted. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agrees with Mesmerised. And the need to share the riddle is a bit of a mystery. If I had to guess...... seeking attention and/or validation?? Time spent rectifying a wrongdoing rather than crafting a written analysis of it.... may be time better spent. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
like a pile of poo Blindman. Love/Pain .... Yin/Yang.We cannot appreciate one without knowing the other.(FFS I must stop watching Starwars)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I get your speel and know that your screwed by your own game.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's that expression, "you can hurt me with the truth but never comfort me with a lie"There is no predictor of love and yes it does turn up when you least expect it, but you can't pretend you don't see it, that too is a lie. And neither can you spare someone or yourself the truth, (see above) buy burying your head in the sand. You suffer and suffer and suffer or you spit it out and purge yourself, the thing is the longer you suffer for them, the harder they fall in the end. And the worse you feel.As paintme said it's ying and yang, one of those things that "just is."
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RHP User
12 years ago
You need to do some research into the concept of having witnesses to our lives. And stop being so bloody condescending and superior. Not everyone's motivations are advertising/attention-seeking/insert other DG label. Some people simply like to share. Others really value the opinions they get in return. Whether you're right or wrong in this instance, you sound mean-spirited either way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' It's like this.....those that speak up about about what they want will find it. Those that don't won't. Until then live by the 3 F's. Find em. Fuck em. Forget they ever entered your life. Sounds terribly lonely and completely unsatisfying.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does not cause PAIN.Peoples actions/behaviour is what causes the pain.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You use sex as a escape as an addiction no doubt. I would guess you have hedged your bets and come off second best. You will keep on hurting people I believe as you can not be truthful to yourself.I think it is you who you should pick to bare the cold hard truth too and accept the person you are. Romeo and Juliet arhhh.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just a few too many contradictions in what you have written. If you hurt someone you care about - than accept the responsibility and note/learn from what you did. If an apology is not something you can genuinely give - then don't give one and perhaps ask yourself if it really was love you were feeling.
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Coops27M
12 years ago
But... @paintme You like to watch starwars?!?!?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'slickz' Just a few too many contradictions in what you have written. If you hurt someone you care about - than accept the responsibility and note/learn from what you did. If an apology is not something you can genuinely give - then don't give one and perhaps ask yourself if it really was love you were feeling. Your dick needs its own post code.You say some smart things sometimes fella.and to the Opwe all fuck up , we all lie , even if its by omission , except of your Saint DG he never puts a foot wrong and he is the manly man and every girls thinking crumpet. In his own lunch box of course plus DG can take it on the chin, he gets more hate male than Micheal Jackson every did.any howwwwwww.I think we often damage each other, watch the movie CRASH the opening line is that people long so much to touch each other that they just crash into each other trying to get what they need.If you lead a life thats not true to who you are, and non of us do , then its a mine field to navigate around people.We compartmentalise our lives to protect ourselves and our desires, its natural to be selfish it is our self preservation to being happy.What makes you happy , may not make another person happy, no matter how much you love a person you will never condone every thing they do.We all have to sit on the judgement mat at times.We hurt people without meaning to and we hurt them on purpose, usually from a wounded place.One step in front of the other Blind man and find a shoulder to put your hand on to navigate you through this dark patchhugsLadyT
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry I have become so custom to typing my thoughts online I forget it is an open forum and people are not interested nor do they need to hear the details of ones fuck ups. Plus this forum does not allow for edit or removal so bashing on keys and hitting post can be a regret as well.Lovely forum people you are a great bunch of nut cases and today you get to see me cry because when you become a slut its not sex that you get its the weight of others pain you must carry. That pain is so fucken heavy at times.Ha ha ha ha never will I listen to my own advice.Thanks all. This is just a vent. I am sad, I have lost, and my fingers are plugged into my brain. Cant wait for this thread to disappear. Cringing Fuck and some of you were starting to think I was a nice guy.. LOL fixed that.And with all this crap I feel like being a sub. First time in all so long. Shame as Ill fucken floor anyone that tries to dom me. And tonight I hunt down a random fuck. Look out for this sub does not take any more shit.
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol @ LadyT.. I nearly spat my herbal tea laughing. thanks. I fuck up... as we all do from time to time.But I dont share my fuck ups with the world at large for discussion or response.I get on with it.... and fix them. QuietlyDeliberately.And with the minimum of fuss and attention.Blindman.... I hope you ride the waves of your troubles all the way to the shore, and leave them safely and happily behind you for a happier place. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
We all need to vent sometimes, we all need validation at times and really. Are there any people on the forums that cannot stand attention?Blindman, I hear you. Fix what you can, do what you need to do to look yourself in the mirror again. Sounds like the other person is in a bit of pain as well, probably from the sounds of things more than you are. Whatever you choose to do, try and be sensitive to that, I am sure you will.
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madotara69
12 years ago
You locked your keys in the car again? No matter how hard you look through the window, the spare set are still going to stay in the center console.What a fuck up. Keep a photo copy of that key in your wallet. who knows what will happen while you walk to the locksmith and back.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shit !! I'm always Pissed when I'm here . Do you think I get out like this all the time ? Geez Dude . The Full Moon's gettin' to ya ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love is NOT superficial at all! I have found that when I love it is for life. It does not change because the one I love fucked up, lied, cheated and hurt me! There are conditions because we are only human. When you love someone then their happiness becomes a condition of YOUR happiness. You don't have to change, you don't have to hide or suppress who you are because love does not expect that... humans do! Of course there is pain. If you knew how things were going to end up you would never have had the dance and missed out on the joy, the happiness and the giddy heights that come with falling in love. Breaking up is sad, yes it hurts because what was is now no more. One day at a time!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know lies are hard to live with. Have integrity Man. And I'm not sure revenge always follows disappointment - though it may make you feel better if it did?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Umm.....wth? I have just replied twice and neither here. Am I going blind?! : @ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't put the infernal subject header in, and rhp wouldn't post them. Why we need 'subject' anyway. The topic is the subject. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You found your random fuck. Feel better?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're not the only one who noticed Hmmmmmm DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'You're not the only one who noticed I feel better now. *Rolleyes*
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' I feel better now. *Rolleyes* It is so lovely that there are the type of people in this world that walk into a bar and complain that people drink. I do not mind and will fight for their right to do so, it is really an admirable trait. I know that some people must comment on everything and anything yet seldom ever think.. That wisdom the greatest gift of age is sullied by cynicism it's horrible curse. So thank you Mesmerised for entertaining us all with an excellent display of witty sarcasm. I know you must be forever watchful to control your flock for they have such short memories you can quickly be forgot.I waft a kiss upon the air so that by chance it may land on your cheek and give you if but just the briefest moment of warmth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone, thank you very much for your words, some kind some not, but advice does not allow much room for kindness, for then it would be just a lot of hot air. @HandmaidenI am not sure if I can love like that anymore. I do not think that depth of love can be shared.Quoting 'sirlurkalot'It's like this.....those that speak up about about what they want will find it. Those that don't won't. But with only so much time how long does it take to look under every stone.@MatoTara69The strange thing is (no metaphor from me) is I never lock doors, I don't see the point. Maybe that is what I do wrong with my soul. But it does not stop me from slamming the door on the way out.@Lady_TuscanSuch wisdom, you must know the bumpy road very well. Thanks my eyes are just a little more open now.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...got dis.......ooh shiny!
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madotara69
12 years ago
Sitting at your keyboard, lonely sore and sipping on one bullet at a time, drowning in the ever growing pain,reaching in to tear out your soul for as what had become for to relive another ruthless emotional storm?I was just saying walk it off stud muffin
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thumbs down. I know you can do better as a man. If I'm wrong..... I will apologize. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Blindman...You hurt someone you cared deeply for, this is the consequence of that action.It hurts like a Biatch to be lied to especially from someone who we care about and love!Little White lies, big black lies - if you love someone you don't lie!!!That's not love..This is why I am afraid to "LOVE".I'm open to it, but at the same time I can't love someone who hurts me.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Thumbs down. I know you can do better as a man. If I'm wrong..... I will apologize. DGBetter. Never will i let others command me what I want again, on what podium I must stand. A trophy is the last thing I could ever want. I threw all that away five years ago. I am so over the prize, expectation to be number one. So what if I win by an inch, so what if second is not a prize. Over that shit.And DG never apologize to me or it will get messy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Blindman :) I know you're an Intelligent , nice Guy from our contacts, but quite self absorbed in your own needs too. People come into your Life, form Relationships so both of you can learn positive lessons from the experience, overcome your Neg. emotional issues grow move forward on your Life journey, more fulfilled. Unfortunately Hun you're not achieving this so continue to make the same mistakes but with a Different Woman different scenario but same emotional outcome.. I suggest that you go over what you felt and what needs were being nurtured when you chose her etc .. Learn Pos. lessons, not that crap about vengeance. You're getting that from your own actions all ready . So suck it up and look at the broader Picture Hun .Then maybe next time you'll have a more balanced Relationship, where you can give freely, openly of yourself and get that returned in kind, instead of you taking and they giving too much.. Good Luck! Hun still Friends here :) Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Blindman :) I know you're an Intelligent , nice Guy from our contacts, but quite self absorbed in your own needs too. People come into your Life, form Relationships so both of you can learn positive lessons from the experience, overcome your Neg. emotional issues grow move forward on your Life journey, more fulfilled. Unfortunately Hun you're not achieving this so continue to make the same mistakes but with a Different Woman different scenario but same emotional outcome.. I suggest that you go over what you felt and what needs were being nurtured when you chose her etc .. Learn Pos. lessons, not that crap about vengeance. You're getting that from your own actions all ready . So suck it up and look at the broader Picture Hun .Then maybe next time you'll have a more balanced Relationship, where you can give freely, openly of yourself and get that returned in kind, instead of you taking and they giving too much.. Good Luck! Hun still Friends here :) Cheers Lu :) A friend commented on how well you knew me. We were away from tech and the net and I was puzzled, who??I have know you for so long now, been years, and you have seen the road I have traveled.Maybe I am too damaged to find my perfection. Maybe I am to old to change. Maybe I am bitter and twisted. Maybe I no longer care. But I do know that at lying and my goal to never lie is getting closer. What a silly mistake I made. Had a very interesting long conversation about lying. Played a game of truth, catch the lie. No human can cover a lie if you know how to read a face. I am an out of control train wreck, but try as I might to not let others on board I can't, even when the sign on the door says "next stop disaster". I always say, the journey is the adventure, the destination unknown. Company is better than traveling alone.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! Blindman :) I know you're an Intelligent , nice Guy from our contacts, but quite self absorbed in your own needs too. People come into your Life, form Relationships so both of you can learn positive lessons from the experience, overcome your Neg. emotional issues grow move forward on your Life journey, more fulfilled. Unfortunately Hun you're not achieving this so continue to make the same mistakes but with a Different Woman different scenario but same emotional outcome.. I suggest that you go over what you felt and what needs were being nurtured when you chose her etc .. Learn Pos. lessons, not that crap about vengeance. You're getting that from your own actions all ready . So suck it up and look at the broader Picture Hun .Then maybe next time you'll have a more balanced Relationship, where you can give freely, openly of yourself and get that returned in kind, instead of you taking and they giving too much.. Good Luck! Hun still Friends here :) Cheers Lu :) A friend commented on how well you knew me. We were away from tech and the net and I was puzzled, who??I have know you for so long now, been years, and you have seen the road I have traveled.Maybe I am too damaged to find my perfection. Maybe I am to old to change. Maybe I am bitter and twisted. Maybe I no longer care. But I do know that at lying and my goal to never lie is getting closer. What a silly mistake I made. Had a very interesting long conversation about lying. Played a game of truth, catch the lie. No human can cover a lie if you know how to read a face. I am an out of control train wreck, but try as I might to not let others on board I can't, even when the sign on the door says "next stop disaster". I always say, the journey is the adventure, the destination unknown. Company is better than traveling alone. Damage can have its own perfection, BM. Never too old. Maybe you are B & T, but so what? If you don't care, then you wouldn't care to write that you don't care. To not lie to others and self is a great goal. "Played a game of truth, catch the lie",. ? You played with Truth and got caught out lying, you mean?I've been trained to read faces, and if a person has a reasonable score of EQ, they should be able to read a face too. If it is low then they will be able to be lied to easier. You have labelled and judged yourself a train wreck and made a generalised statement of assumption that the Journey with you will end up a disaster. Company is always nice whilst travelling, but so is Journeying alone.Well said MadameDragonfly. Wise words.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun I hope you're enjoying RHP and the Forums:) I've met Blindman and he's a Nice Guy. But yes the Devil he tends to be self absorbed and carries the guilt afterwards. I hope he reads My words and acts upon them because it wouldn't be very smart to continue doing what he does in Relationships .. I thank you sincerely for your Feedback Hun :) I'm glad you liked my words even if I repeated them more than was necessary by accident he! he! T/K Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shit- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Weak selfish gutless ppl do ruin it for us all! Being honest is sooo fkn hard for alot of ppl iv noticed. I really dont get it :'( sorry is just a word our parents taught us btw! Actions matter- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting RedVelvetRose... If your shit stinks, then drink perfume. Jeez no! Don't do that!! (Just keep yr ass clean... :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Rose Coloured Glasses Anyone....
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Rose Coloured Glasses Anyone....alright it is to tell you hot mature woman bombshells, sweet little lies! Takes off sunnies to wipe the steam that fogs the glass.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'inspirit' Rose Coloured Glasses Anyone....alright it is to tell you hot mature woman bombshells, sweet little lies! Takes off sunnies to wipe the steam that fogs the glass.Mado you didn't lie about your dick size again.... sheesh and oi!! Easy on the mature!
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'inspirit' Rose Coloured Glasses Anyone....alright it is to tell you hot mature woman bombshells, sweet little lies! Takes off sunnies to wipe the steam that fogs the glass.Mado you didn't lie about your dick size again.... sheesh and oi!! Easy on the mature! I said that I have a penis extension, to make my 12" cock to a 15"er. As if you'd would want me to go easy on you too!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Being true to you ... warts and all ... don't modify or adjust your behaviour to suit someone else ... for someone to be grateful to have you in their life knowing your warts and all, is that not the greatest acknowledgement of who you be? ... to be yourself totally exposed and loved and appreciated for it? ... no, it's not for the faint hearted ... do it if you dare? ... other people only get hurt if you show them a facade in the first place ... if you're you totally and honestly straight off the mark and they get hurt it's their desire for you to be something different that hurts them ... yes that's right they hurt themselves by creating a picture they wanted you to be ... you can change yourself if you choose but you can't lie to yourself if you desire something different than what you're doing ... choose again ... and if that doesn't work ... choose again ... and again In loving kindness for yourself and in doing so will be for others too ... Xxx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking under stones only attract bites from rock spiders :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Harden the fuck up
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RHP User
12 years ago
Blindman your 45 bro and you still bullshit'n yourself??
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