I'm Bicurious... now what?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi,   most girls at lesbian bars aren't like guys at straight clubs... they are unlikely to approach you.  If you are with a friend you can dance close to the girls you like and then sort of end up dancing as part of their group.  Introduce yourself and your friend and you'll soon find yourselves spending the night with them.  If one of them likes you they'll soon make it obvious.  Lesbian bars can be more friendly than straight clubs - lesbians will talk to strangers but they generally aren't as sexually charged.  Many lesbians don't like being wiht a first timer... although others find it an interesting challenge.  The other possibity is to join a lesbian website and post that you are looking for a considerate first lover... you might find one of the women who enojoys being with lesbian virgns.   Best wishes   kimi

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Being a bi female the best advice i can give you is be yourself and take a chance.Go out have fun and if you see someone you like walk up and introduce yourself

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Online.    It's a good way to meet people. as Bidelight said, lesbian  dating websites are great because you know that they are looking for the same thing.    I'm bi and could never approach a girl because with girls it's hard to tell if they're just being friendly or if they interested in something more (unless they are very forward about it) and i just can't do it, like you said.    Yes, with dating websites you have to weed through all the fakes, but if you find even one woman that you like and meet her offline, it all becomes worth it!   Good luck Estellle!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  there is a thousand different ways and places to meet women. The fact that your interestd in the curvier sex is all ready putting the right gal on your path . You just have to be strong and hold your head up,so u can spot her spoting u, dont b afraid to catch eyes and smile. Women folk can b so very subtle in their aproach to those they like.So b observant c who is around u and responding to the 'energy' your exuding, could b any where, any one any time. If all else fails do what my lady freinds do, go out with a chaperone or 2, it should b easy 4 u, cos u allready got a foot in the same shoe.

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