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If only they would take thier hand off it ?

February 17 2010

On the very very odd occassion we allow communication between ourselves and the single guy to take place ' only IF he shows he has the qualitys that suit what we look for' then we would be happy to meet and see what eventuates.  Easy huh ???    Thats what we thought too. ? Our criteria is simple ' if its going to be a single guy' he needs to be between  20 - 30  straight'  who would love to meet a good looking woman for some fun moments without any commitments..  He would have to be reasonably good looking with a slim body and have a personality ?   Nothing unusual about that' we know what we want.... Anyway'  cut to the chase..   Recently we swapped messages with a guy who we thought might just fit the bill.  By the messages he sent' it appeared he was dead  keen' but because of work commitments on both sides ' times were hard but we finally nailed down a time and place . On the day we were to meet he texted us to confirm the prearranged meeting place. Comes the time...  Nothing...   No show...  No call or text...  Just plain old bugga all... Call it a gut feeling'  but we wernt surprised and went out and had a great dinner. In fact Mrs JJ did not even prepare as one would do for such a occassion. Were we dissappointed'  maybe a little.. antisapation can be a exciting thing....   but was this unexpected... NO...  The verdict...    In our experience there are guys on RHP who's bravado and courage ends once they turn their computer off.  Its about living out their fantasies behind a screeen and keyboard. Having the alto ego of a swashbuckling big cocked guy ALL women would swoon over..  WRONG FINAL VERDICT...   If these guys take the time to take their hand off it long enough to face reality. It would save us all alot of wasted time and energy.   PS....  No this is  not a ad to get attention' its a truth that we wanted to be out there.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Maybe RHP should have a reliability meter for each person/couple. You either tick a yes or no and it gives out a percentage of how reliable that person is. Mind you it could be opened to abuse but at least it would be an indication.   If i have been late or been unable to make the meeting i have at least messaged/called and tried to reschedule (once this occurred btw). Is it not common courtesy? Oh thats right society today seems to lack that.   Have to agree with you JustJuice some people both male/female and couples need to face reality and remove themselves from the cyberworld and step out into the real world

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It happens more of than than I care to think about. I just wish people would realise how much they are putting others out. And it doesn't just apply to single guys but everyone. Some are to fantasise and others are here for reality

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    With all the winging and bitching on RHP about that exact subject you would have to be right. However, some of us blokes have NOT had that opportunity to prove ourselves, so we cannot feel your pain. I have been on RHP for a little over a month and have tried to get my profile out there sending flirts, (they are a little bit more than useless) friend requests and joining in on forums, have I had any success “NO” and I’m not just taking about getting laid. I would be  happy for my profile to be viewed!!!! Who knows I may just fall into a category of what someone is actually looking for………….. Athletic and fun!   Sorry justjuice, we sit on opposite sides of the fence, however I do empathize with you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree guys and its really difficult for us genuine guys. It ruins the whole experience for all of us. In fact, at the moment I'm supposed to be meeting a couple for the first time on the weekend. I'm really excited but I know they're concerned that I will bail, or fall through. Its kind of a bad thing.I know I will definitely meet, but after so many bad experiences its hard to come across as genuine. I would agree with a reliability bar because I've met everyone I've agreed to meet on RHP (And loved it every time too), that way couples and ladies can sort the wheat from the chaff and genuine single guys like me won't be treated with so much suspicion...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Interesting to read that couples get stood up as much as singles do.  At least the two of you have each other rather than standing in the rain alone or sitting at a cafe feeling like an utter complete loser !   Only a minority of people seem to have Validations on their profiles (where other rhpers have said how great they are).  It would be great if there's a simpler Validation, such as a rating table.  You rate the member after a meeting on 4 factors: reliability, authenticity, personality and performance,  each being scored out of 5.  I guess this could simply result in a lot of bullshitters making ratings up ?   Sometimes I feel like invitiing a group of guys to a meeting expecting that only one may show.  I have never done this as I'm too afraid they'd all rock up and I wouldn't know what to do !!!   Hugs, Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Miss_Saturn'   Sometimes I feel like invitiing a group of guys to a meeting expecting that only one may show.  I have never done this as I'm too afraid they'd all rock up and I wouldn't know what to do !!!   Hugs, Miss Saturn  C'mon little Miss Innocent - you'd work out what to do :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    great idea the "reliability meter",,, but would the responsable meter be able to manage the reliabile meter or would the personality and performance meter have a nervouse breakdown? by the way miss saturn,,, id rate ya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yep Jean...Have to agree there..She would know and have an awesome time too!  :)     Hmmmmm...Not a bad idea actually!     lololol...   huggies   sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I wrote out 4 validations for guys...They didn't write 1 back for me!     Sometimes it is one sided......But that happens in life.   Funny thing is these guys are my friends.. Whom I still have contact with as friends!...Go figure..lazy shits!..:P   I will go spank them all now!...Get my strapon out..     hehe....   huggies   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxx

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    16 years ago

    Hey sweet - I think you have to be photo validated in order to send a validation, even if you sent one about them. At least that was the case for me I found.However, if these guys are verified AND haven't posted you a validation then they should be given all the spanking they deserve :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    They wont all turn up and if they do, just have a few rhp friends, female ones you can call!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Great idea Desserts !   I DO have a few females in my Blackberry.... maybe I will test out your strategy.   Then again... it kind of sounds like the Melboune get together !!!   Hugs, Miss Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hahaha..Minxy hun.....I sure will give em an ear bashin later on msn..lol..   Yes..2 of the guys have said they need to validate their pic first....hmmmm...Looks like I am for real! I am verified!     slackers!   huggies   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Init4fun:      Yes' we do sit on different sides of the fence' so I dont know why you even bothered to reply to a subject that does not concern you ? If this is not you' then you have no worries. Bitching as you say' was aimed at a particular nuisance group of guys who consume so much of the time and energy its just not funny. It becomes a real headache for couples trying to sort through the endless throng of single guys to then find the one you think is sincere' turns out to be a dud.   THAT' is the subject matter..  Your bitching needs to told in forum of your own.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry jjustjuice...   my bad     ppft...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We were not bitchin!   read again...having a joke..     ahhh..well.....ya get that sometimes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey..Sweetpetite41   No need to be sorry'  that was only aimed at INIT4FUN.. ( read again )...  so go ahead... enjoy yourself   lol   I wouldnt do that to you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It’s all about constants versus variables.   The constant in this topic is the couple... The variable is the single male.   If the pattern involves various males ditching the constant couple, then what is the logical problem? The couple of course... I did logic at school. haha. It helps in topics like these.   So maybe the couple should investigate their own faults?? I know if I kept getting stood up I'd be looking at myself in the mirror. Maybe they see you in real life and you're not what they thought you were? Are your pictures and your profile accurate?   But yeah, if all else fails, just blame the filthy dirty single male. We're all scum who should be castrated at birth.   Bloody couples wasting us single males' time! Geez...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Rige E Didge..    Well its time you went back to school to learn how to read first.  But'  what else should we expect from a fellow single out to feather his own nest.   Logic ? There is no logic in what you wrote' just the veiw of another single misguided male trying to justify why you singles guys feel the need to act as you do..   Theres no excuse's..  Just deal with the truth at hand.   Now slowly read our post all over again..     And you wonder why couple s are so selective ...  Oh''  BTW... this was a one off for us.. so theres no reason to look at ourselves.....  its your problem   not ours....      grow up..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice' Rige E Didge..    Well its time you went back to school to learn how to read first.  But'  what else should we expect from a fellow single out to feather his own nest.   OK I'm gonna take Dawes Point off the GPS as well Ridge.   You dirty nest featherer *lmao*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'justjuice' Rige E Didge..    Well its time you went back to school to learn how to read first.  But'  what else should we expect from a fellow single out to feather his own nest.   OK I'm gonna take Dawes Point off the GPS as well Ridge.   You dirty nest featherer *lmao*Yep... scrub it off Jeano. That's another person who hates me today. I better pull my head in or it's gonna be a short road trip.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice' Rige E Didge..    Well its time you went back to school to learn how to read first.  But'  what else should we expect from a fellow single out to feather his own nest.   Logic ? There is no logic in what you wrote' just the veiw of another single misguided male trying to justify why you singles guys feel the need to act as you do..   Theres no excuse's..  Just deal with the truth at hand.   Now slowly read our post all over again..     And you wonder why couple s are so selective ...  Oh''  BTW... this was a one off for us.. so theres no reason to look at ourselves.....  its your problem   not ours....      grow up..      Rubbish...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So here is an update: I DID plan to meet with a new couple on Friday night. And I DID turn up. And we DID have a naughty, fun night of threesome fun (Thanks GandK40TCouple  by the way) :). So does that make me the exception to the rule? The couple even said they wouldn't have been surprised if I didn't turn up because it had happened to them so many times before.So JUSTJUICE, don't give up hope yet. There are still a few of us GENUINE single guys on this site who WILL turn up when they say they will and aren't parading around behind fake profiles for sinister satisfaction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    IF ONLY THEY WOULD TAKE THIER HAND OFF IT :  ?   RIDGY...   This means you too.....   Yes' please please go ahead and remove  Dawes Point off your GPS or any other means you might possess. If that means 2 less singles we have to contend with'  it can only be good.   Already I can hear other Dawes Pt couples and the sincere singles applauding.   The only smart thing you had to say was :  I better pull my head in or its going to be a short road trip >>  I agree

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice' IF ONLY THEY WOULD TAKE THIER HAND OFF IT :  ?   RIDGY...   This means you too.....   Yes' please please go ahead and remove  Dawes Point off your GPS or any other means you might possess. If that means 2 less singles we have to contend with'  it can only be good.   Already I can hear other Dawes Pt couples and the sincere singles applauding.   The only smart thing you had to say was :  I better pull my head in or its going to be a short road trip >>  I agree Yap... yap... yap...   Lol