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I wonder.... what they expect...
April 23 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
A resounding yes go for it after all we are a red hot community wanting sex without repercussions. They want us to agree with them and tell them they are right. Many say dont judge....but if we were all the same with all the same opinions and thoughts we would be robots. I want my own opinion and if it differs from the mainstream I am not going to change to conform. Sometimes I think my view is twisted stoic and needs an eye opener. So I read what everyone has to say and realise no or yes depending on other thoughts......... I am sure some want that confirmation that their choice is ok that others have done so and all worked ok but some are narcistic and want back up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
from the rest of the males DG. You always seem to put men down for trying. Yes Im in a cranky mood. But please. Your not above them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm single, and not acting with secrecy, or deceptively..... an important difference in the context of the topic... don't you think! ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
my profile is as it is, no bullshit if people dont agree move on.......i have met a great couple on here that understand my situation and have made me feel very at ease with them. Its so much easier than having too bullshit too everyone, wow got three bullshits in Cheers Racer
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mees will most probably never meet you so all you say I take with a grain of tuna. To me your no different. Ill do a bake with potato's if Im wrong, if we ever met. So why chose you when in my horny moods and the look of a cock seems so much more appealing than, well Girls here do go for cock pics and sex based on that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't eat potato..... or cock..... So you'll be having both lol ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Straight to the fishy bits :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a new member I must admit I was a little surprised...after all it's RHP, all out in the open nothing sacred,were all big boys and girls,we are adventurous etc etc ......but if your a married guy mmmmm, not so good... Married woman? Well I haven't read too many complaints there yet. After saying all that, everyone has a choice,opinions and options that they are totally entitled to voice, if people don't want married guys, that's cool, are some of the married men jerks? Yep probably,but so are some single guys as well as some ladies no doubt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was thinking it's been some time since there was a lying cheating thread....what can possibly be the motivation,masochism or naivety I suspect...Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lots of married men think that people on adult site will be accepting of their decision to play around, and many are by the way, and they probably think most guys on here are cheating as well so they are in good company. What I can't get my head around are the married men who are bitter because single women are not interested in dating them. WTF? Although lots of people are hypocrites. They jump down a cheating man's throat yet they are seeing married men themselves and the other forum posters who "hate" cheating don't say anything. So really it's who you know, not what you do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How many hours before this thread self destructs, do you think?
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's in part naivety. People come here expecting to be members to be open-minded and accepting of playing around because of the nature of this site. In reality it's very much like the real world though with people who cheat and stay quiet about, people who are open about their cheating, people with sympathy for those who cheat and those who are dead against it. This will never change, and neither will the arguments. Yes, some people here are hypocrites. For the record, Meeks: I've always said I hate cheating.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm certain they are not expecting your snide "funny" one-liners that really have nothing to with what the OP is saying or asking.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mea,you forgot to say,except when you are at a club and can't possibly know if someone is attached,or do you only 'play with people you know are definitely single or in an open relationship.... xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' Mea,you forgot to say,except when you are at a club and can't possibly know if someone is attached,or do you only 'play with people you know are definitely single or in an open relationship.... xx Q I've only ever played in clubs when both the man and his partner were there. (With one exception being a male forum poster who came as a forum friend's date.)
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I do get your point.
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RHP User
12 years ago
really,when we initially meet anyone how can we know for sure if they are married or attached...but I suppose It comes down to picking up on the indicators xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just curious..... Can you really be sure in a club that they're life partners..... and not merely just play partners, with one or perhaps both cheating on their respective unwitting wife/husband? Plenty of profiles in here claim such arrangements... with or without approval. (Oh, and insert snide one liner >>here
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Just curious..... Can you really be sure in a club that they're life partners..... and not merely just play partners, with one or perhaps both cheating on their respective unwitting wife/husband? Plenty of profiles in here claim such arrangements... with or without approval. (Oh, and insert snide one liner >>here
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was talking more about people who speak up very loudly against all the cheating men on the forum yet they are either good 'forum' friends with men and women who are cheating or friends with women seeing married men. Although, I am a bit like that as well, you don't want to be rude but it is a bit hypocritical don't you think? I try my best as I can no longer speak up so adamantly against people playing outside their relationships.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm really not sure what these people expect. Advice? Opinions? Guidance? A frame of reference for a decision or thought process on an open forum that revolves around sex and sexuality? Probably not the moral police, although they appear to be out in force especially pertaining to issues of fidelity. I find a lot of material on the forums challenging from a personal perspective. Whether it's the way women are positioned, the topics of discussion (father/son fantasy recently, it was rather shocking to me) the words used. There's always something to be offended about. I just don't feel the need to express negative sentiments, I would rather conserve that energy and move forward on my own journey. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
ever blame them selves On that note, never seen an add from a cheater where someone has offered a sympathy fuck. Well there was one regular poster that blamed himself and that was accepted I think. Personally we do not care who is fucking who, just leave us out of it, by telling us the truth. First thing that comes too mind when the add comes out from the one cheating blaming the lack of interest at home, is....... well not really that much interesting too fuck, chances are they are a dud them self. Ouch
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RHP User
12 years ago
On the matter of judging This word is too often tossed about on these forums as an insult and with the clear intention of belittling people simply because they have an opinion. Yes, we all judge, because by definition to judge is to come to a conclusion or develop an opinion about something. However we don't all JUDGE in the 'evil' way so often implied on here. What I mean by this is that we don't all present our opinion as the superior view and look down our noses at everyone else who sees things differently. We don't all 'sit in judgment' every time we offer an opinion. Sure, some people do that and they probably deserve a bollocking for it, but for goodness sake can't we tell the difference between an individual opinion, and superiority/nastiness etc? I think it's high time everyone stopped jumping on the 'judging' bandwagon. If we all took more time to learn from each others' perspectives rather than slamming people who see the world differently, the forums would be a nicer place. On the matter of cheating I'm a broken record on this subject. I've been on this site for a long time and had countless conversations with cheaters and about cheating. In spite of all of the reasons explained to me, I have not yet been compelled to agree that cheating is justified. If that changes I'll be sure to make a public announcement on the forums and subject myself to a public flogging if need be :) In the meantime, it's my strong opinion that someone in a relationship has at least three (probably more) clear ways to have their sexual needs met that do not involve cheating - talk and agree to work on sex together; talk and agree to have sex with others; talk/don't talk and agree/don't agree then decide to end the relationship if necessary. All three options give the unsatisfied person the chance to have the sex they want. None of them require lies and deception - ie a breach of the commitment THEY made to someone. I also believe that you cannot use what your partner does to justify your actions. In my view, if you choose to cheat it's 100% your responsibility regardless of whether your partner cheated, doesn't like sex, won't talk or whatever. If your partner isn't honouring their commitment, that's their problem, and not a justification for your own lies and deception. Simple. An important note - having this opinion does not make me a 'judger' or a seagull or whatever other insult people want to slap me with. It just makes me someone with an opinion who accepts wholeheartedly that other people will have different opinions and are entitled to live their lives how they want. They're not accountable to me and I have no right to look down on them for their choices. I am, however, entitled to my individual opinion. On the matter of what posters might be expecting DG, I do think that some posters assume that it's obvious to everyone that cheating is their only option, or that cheating is justifiable in their circumstances, and they're expecting people to agree with them. I think they've often rejected other options - talking, leaving etc - as unlikely to work or too hard, and they're looking for support of some kind. Not getting that support in such a public way can be tough, embarassing even. Some OPs seem genuinely interested in hearing different points of view, but it seems rare to me. I must say, I find it a bit amusing that people get so bothered when other forumites don't agree with cheating. If the cheater hasn't needed their partner's agreement to sleep around, why does agreement from forumites matter so much to them?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm such a dim-witted fool. I've always maintained that there are three sides to every story, his, hers and the truth. I completely ignored the forth side, ...DG's.
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RHP User
12 years ago
even if there is one person who understands it is worth it for people to put it out there because it enhances the excuses they are already using. If others are doing it then i am not the only arse, if Joe Bloggs thinks it is ok, then it must be. Even though there is a barrage of abuse from people who don't agree, people only hear what they want to hear (or read in this case). It is like any advice, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I meant start a topic in relation to the OP's question
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bi_for_cpls' and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess. Sometime I do because I am curious, Sometimes like last night because I did not want to hijack another thread, I have started threads to stir the shit, I have started threads because I was looking for answers and I have started them because I really wanted to hear others opinions as a guide.
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madotara69
12 years ago
"Walked a mile in my shoes" The thing with that is, if you have walked a mile in their shoes, then you are a mile away from them and have their shoes. he he
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mado that my days mof being the barefoot Congress were over....now I know why I never have any bloody shoes :-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bloody auto correct....my days of being the barefoot Congress :-) :-) :-) :-) I swear there is an evil entity in here
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RHP User
12 years ago
CONTESSA....shouting now :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' Quoting 'bi_for_cpls' and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess. Sometime I do because I am curious, Sometimes like last night because I did not want to hijack another thread, I have started threads to stir the shit, I have started threads because I was looking for answers and I have started them because I really wanted to hear others opinions as a guide. Sorry for the confusion (which I knew would happen lol), I meant in response to the OP's comment regarding his subject. Your threads are gorgeous - love them
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' Quoting 'bi_for_cpls' and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess. Sometime I do because I am curious, Sometimes like last night because I did not want to hijack another thread, I have started threads to stir the shit, I have started threads because I was looking for answers and I have started them because I really wanted to hear others opinions as a guide. I think you overlooked his use of the word in red, miss c.l.v. Its hard to deny that there are a great many topics which are started (mostly by guys) simply to draw attention to the author under a very thin layer of opinion/question... and Im not just talking about the "can you look at my profile/offer assistance" topics. DG
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' CONTESSA....shouting now :-) There is a nice black one there too, looks like a staff car for sure. You know your cruisers, never cease to amaze me.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Sorry DG, back on topic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I honestly think people like that expect this site to have low morals...in the way that sex is the only thing without any regards to whatever else comes with that. It's really good to see that we are not just blinded by lust and are still capable of thinking before jumping in. It's really good to see that people here will take a step back and kindly decline if there was a chance that a situation could turn out nasty..for example hurt innocent bystanders etc. so I think all of this does come as a shock to the ones who want to cheat just for the sake of cheating.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Well if someone asks for an opinion and if the thread is something I find interesting, then I'm all to happy to give mine....some might not agree with it and that's ok, because it's just my opinion.... DG I'm sure it possibly does work to some extent, people post topics, forumites comment and a lot of us look/read the profiles of those posting.(well I know I do) It only takes one person to see something that they find interesting, something they like, something they're into and then that's a win for the poster and a win forumite/lurker too..... Then you have the posters that are genuinely just asking for help/opinions/advice, either way it makes the forums interesting........💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is it a case of seeking validation because they think they are right or because they think they are wrong? I know that I often ask a question if I'm feeling unsure about a decision I have made, and I usually know the answer before I ask. When you ask twenty people the same question, eventually some one will give you the answer you want to hear.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i do not think cheating is justifiable at all. so what if your partner is terminally ill? divorce her but still stay as he friend and be there for her as a friend to answer the OP, I feel like these attached people ask these questions just so that they can feel justified in their actions and possible even get sympathy. I 'll have you know some women don't care anyway that these men are married, I find that appalling. and then there are other cheaters that feel that as long as they have put it out there that they are married then its OK, that's just BS. i feel if you're doing something but cannot be open to your partner then that is wrong. My father cheated on my mother and when she found out she died on that day....she is still alive physically but its just messed her up so much she is no longer the same. I grew up with this and fuck, I'm broken too. I cheated on someone for no reason at all and now I live with the knowledge that I too have ruined some guy's life and even now he cant bring himself to love again,
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meow ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Is it a case of seeking validation because they think they are right or because they think they are wrong? I know that I often ask a question if I'm feeling unsure about a decision I have made, and I usually know the answer before I ask. When you ask twenty people the same question, eventually some one will give you the answer you want to hear.
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RHP User
12 years ago
They expect free pizza and beer at your local on YOUR tab ;) At least I would!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Without pre-judging intentions of the poster, could it be that cheating or the idea of it, isn't something that could be easily discussed with friends out in the real world? That perhaps they think that in a sexually liberated forum that they could get some opinions without the obvious consequences that would follow by revealing your intention to cheat? I'm also not naive and realise there are hidden agendas in what many have to say, but then that isn't just limited to those that cheat. Also perhaps some of the regular posters are so predictable in what they will respond to and with such regularity that those that like to cause trouble, stir the pot so to speak do it be uses the topic always seems to be popular. Fire requires oxygen to burn and on here that seems to be attention.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Humans are curious creatures. I believe sometimes they write Forums because they know deep down it's not the "normal" thing to do in society... Because this is a sex site, I believe those people believe, they can get away with things on here. IE: being on here without partners knowledge etc etc I believe some people are curious about their situations, they've put themselves in, that's why "some" people post the forums they do. Forums do backfire sometimes, due to those posting asking the right questions. Most of the time IF a forum is left running things come to light, the situation is clearer and what they originally posted is not what comes out at the end... I think sometimes as well, what people don't relize is there are real people who post in the forums, with good morals, strong core values/ethics etc etc and they were brought up/role model too, it's not the right thing to do to your partner whom you are suppose to love and cherish. Some people just don't like hearing the truth or hearing their behavior is wrong, that is why they get aggressive etc etc go into denial about their behavior. Sometimes, I often ask myself (when an OP) has written a forum...Are they for real? And sometimes I give credit to some who posts a Forum Topic and get something out of it for all the right reasons. I know of some people, who post regularly in the forums, who have partners and claim to be single on here, will deliberately not post in those Forums topics about being married and cheating behind their backs etc etc. cause they know they will get a roasting because they don't want to be exposed because, they have a reputation of being "single" to uphold. I has been said to me, why they don't post in those Topics is because they want their privacy respected. I just can't work some people out and why they do some of the behaviors they do. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I believe goes a long way to those who post Forum Topics like your examples DG. I mean really, who is anyone to judge another person on here, when we all come on here for our own various reasons ourselves?? If someone wants to post a forum Topic on something that is important to them, they can...can't they? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Expecting the same thing you were when you started THIS tread DG. Sadly though, they generally get the TRUTH instead, just like this: NO, you're NOT "better" than them, the only real difference between you and them is your situation, your single, they're not. Your not "better" with women or "smarter" than any other man, you just get more because you're more available and there is less complication and repercussion for us. You're still a man like 99% of other men. And now (if I'm correct) like them, you'll completely over-react and have a "tanty" because maybe you didn't get what you expected (to feel smart/better) BUT! It's ok, the upshot is that we understand! It's conditioned into boys (you) from birth, you don't know any better, it's not your fault. And life goes on :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
*You're* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
All valid points read on here, but it's an eternal revolving door. Married men that cheat, wives that cheat, couples that play separately. Society has become complacent with infidelity, the mordern world has us all moving forward. Where marriage was once a sacred vow of eternal commitment it has now become nothing more then a piece of paper. Admittedly I have been on several sides of this fence (so to speak) but a cheater I have never been. That is my personal choice, not yours, not his, not hers. Mine. I think some have become highly judgmental of others situations because they have been given a window of opportunity to do so. Sayings come to mind here. "Let those without sin cast the first stone" or "people in glass houses" and my fav "walk a day in my shoes" Posting on the forums opens you to others point of view's, criticism and judgemental views that can and are posted. I read the views agree with many, roll my eyes at some and take away from it a better understanding of human behaviour from it. I live and learn.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is RHP for the masses of just a certain type with certain morals ? If so, who's judgement determines who should or should not be here ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Empathy and understanding I CONCUR DGIf I agreed with you, then We'd both be wrong
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whilst this is a forum for consenting adults and predominately in regards to sexual adventures and the broadening of one sexual horizons, as a community of sorts, there are still norms and cultural influences that will differ amongst those who inhabit it.Some seek to 'try' something or fulfil a fantasy that they cannot do within the bounds of a relationship, for many reasons.Others perhaps are keen to experiment in areas that they feel are taboo, or are perhaps embarrassed about at this stage.Regardless, there is always room for a little common decency and tolerance without resorting to abusive and judgemental comments or posts.Some profiles are more descriptive than others and some make it clear what they seek.There is no simple onus on one party or another, but there must be a level of comprehension when contacting members that relates to what they have stated they are seeking. So for us 'single guys', it is rather rude and disrespectful to hound couples seeking a couple, or for gay men to contact bi-curious if they have stated they are seeking to explore in a group situation.As for those 'cheating', well, perhaps simply take the time to make sure that you are up front and honest, thus removing the potential for deception and miscommunication. And for those that feel strongly about no being interested in those seeking something outside of their relationship, perhaps make it clear on your profile.We can only work with the information provided and an informed decision in regards to contacting another member is most likely to bear rather better results, or at least minimise the chances of offence and abuse.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Breaks a trust and can hurt the other party Not judging but put yourself in your partners shoes and ask would I like it if my wife / gf was a secret cock slut After all she's probably knocking back lots of offers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bliss go hard, like the straight up comment. Would be nice to meet. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And no I did not expect everyone to agree with me, if anything I expected more abuse than I got. I was genuinely interested in the discussion. I don't believe I am always right and making such posts is purely to challenge my own ideas and ideology. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have a new round of contenders this week :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sensual_bi' and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess. I presume DG :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Got a bee in your bonnet ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
All you get is part of the information, there are always two sides or three sides to every story. Its just words here, and its more or less how good you are at writing. There are no other clues to define what is truth or a half truth so we all base our augments and rebuttals based on the half baked. Yes people post to troll, to try and bait a hook or to just stir the pot. as for cheating, well women get away with it all the time, we hardly get rejected because we are married, actually some get turned on at being with another mans wife. what's right, what's wrong its a swing of ideas and opinions'. validation can be what people seek and they get upset when brickbats come their way. care factor is zero, this is not my life its just an amusement Married men are treated in a very shabby way on here, everyone thinks that every single one of them are bastards and they should forget about sex, dribble back to sleeping in the spare room and keep their wallets open. I know a few and they are just to much concerned with their kids, or their wife has mental health issues and they have not had sex for years. Same deal for women, for god sake its just sex, its not like they have killed the missus and cooked them in a pot. Poor men, your walking the razors edge and you think this place you can find something, but all you get is rejection and death by a thousand snide cuts LadyT needing a good lay down with a married man
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' We have a new round of contenders this week :-) Powder puff weight
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sensual_bi' and I think that people often start a thread on here for attention - the more controversial the more attention I guess.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lollapalooza1' i do not think cheating is justifiable at all. so what if your partner is terminally ill? divorce her but still stay as he friend and be there for her as a friend to answer the OP, I feel like these attached people ask these questions just so that they can feel justified in their actions and possible even get sympathy. I 'll have you know some women don't care anyway that these men are married, I find that appalling. and then there are other cheaters that feel that as long as they have put it out there that they are married then its OK, that's just BS. i feel if you're doing something but cannot be open to your partner then that is wrong. My father cheated on my mother and when she found out she died on that day....she is still alive physically but its just messed her up so much she is no longer the same. I grew up with this and fuck, I'm broken too. I cheated on someone for no reason at all and now I live with the knowledge that I too have ruined some guy's life and even now he cant bring himself to love again, My friend had terminal cancer. So yeah I think he should have divorced her, and got half her stuff and sold the house, and split the family and found a new girlfriend and then he could have sat by her bed as she died and said, its ok honey I never cheated on ya she would no double be thrilled about that one. same for a guy I know on here that has children, wife has been depressed for years, every time he tries to talk about it or leave her she threatens to top herself. I think he should leave her and let her hang in the bathroom , at least he never cheated. One partner has an std another not , this is in a gay situation if you get my drift, so he says sorry sunshine I know you want sex but I am not going to have sex but hey you can eat shit and die as I am out of here. At least I am not cheating. I would rather have a cheating man than be looking up to people with the halo on, all I get out of that is a sore neck But I think your right, I think you cheating fuckers should get of rhp and leave your partners, right NOW so that all the people with pitch forks can get some bloody rest. LadyT reporting to you from Sexual Salem
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Word_Smith' Without pre-judging intentions of the poster, could it be that cheating or the idea of it, isn't something that could be easily discussed with friends out in the real world? That perhaps they think that in a sexually liberated forum that they could get some opinions without the obvious consequences that would follow by revealing your intention to cheat? I'm also not naive and realise there are hidden agendas in what many have to say, but then that isn't just limited to those that cheat. Also perhaps some of the regular posters are so predictable in what they will respond to and with such regularity that those that like to cause trouble, stir the pot so to speak do it be uses the topic always seems to be popular. Fire requires oxygen to burn and on here that seems to be attention. because I want guys to go look at my profile and then my tits and say geeez your hot do you want a fuck I post because in real life I am just a bloody , frumpy old housewife and on RHP I am a goddess and also if I stay on the computer I don't see all the housework piled up around me.I postso I can hang of the words that DG posts and then send out my fan mail to him
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madotara69
12 years ago
Wonder who he became. bahahahahahaha I'll be back mwahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Wonder who he became. bahahahahahaha I'll be back mwahahaha he became Walter Mitty love your work
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madotara69
12 years ago
The duke of Kent
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madotara69
12 years ago
have you been channelling again, or a crystal ball perhaps
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' have you been channelling again, or a crystal ball perhaps why DG walks so carefully , cant break that ball
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who's to say that the authors of the type of posts described had similar expectations or any expectations at all? When I initiate a topic, I do so without expectations, only the hope that it will stimulate a mature exchange of ideas. My hopes are usually dashed by bigots who place themselves above others. C'est la guerre.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think forums are a breeding ground for people to vent their negative feelings at others.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The three most ethical minds I've encountered in the RHP forums belong to Freya, Lady T and Cavey. They understand the 'golden rule' and the fallacy of altruism better than most.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stop thinking about my ball the other one gets jealous
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tiny balls? Because not to many of Em know how to dance
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' The three most ethical minds I've encountered in the RHP forums belong to Freya, Lady T and Cavey. They understand the 'golden rule' and the fallacy of altruism better than most. They understand the Golden Rule as you understand it Jman. I don't agree with your interpretation of it as I've seen you post it in the forms. :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I believe you may be a computer animated chip off the shoulder of your designer who could be a hermit that lives in a basement with personality and insecurity of his own tiny basement with 4 deadlocks a tiny window and a scaved soul torn and battered that is disinterested in a persons character or triumph but rather interested in belittling the outdated download that he seeks to hack and manipulate so that his own kingdom can be the best chip on the biggest shoulders in the tiniest room without love life sex or a womans touch that this little chip craves so much but everytime access is almost granted another challenger that tries to destroy and take everything he wants like a fat kid greedy angry virgin but then i have been wrong many times and maybe thats really a manifestation of me ? But the moral of the story is who gives a fuck as long as you enjoy it dont stop . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm used to you disagreeing with me ...and you do it so enthusiastically ...and repeatedly. Still, there are reasons why I didn't include you as one of the foremost ethical minds I've encountered.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey BigOcean - Can I buy a punctuation mark??? FAAARRKK! Here's a few extra.........,,,,,,,,,,:::::::::::
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just taking the piss
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have just read this whole thread from go to woe...As a married man who doesn't hide from being married I have no idea what those who deny their status expect nor do I care. I thoroughly enjoyed Lady T's (and other's) posts in this thread at least, she did raise some relevant issues. I have consent to get sex outside of my marriage but that does not mean I have Mrs D's approval either. People may think what ever they want, I'm interested in other people's opinions but don't expect me to agree or disagree to any degree. I often ask for opinions just so I can see things from a different perspective, especially a perspective I would never have thought of seeing a point from. That is the real eye opener to read a thoughtful view that is totally different from one I might hold, I don't have to agree to respect an alternative view point.Idealism, pragmatism & realism remind me of that band who dealt with all sorts of issues...TISM *Pushing the soap box away for the next person*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' That's okay, Peachy. I'm used to you disagreeing with me ...and you do it so enthusiastically ...and repeatedly. Still, there are reasons why I didn't include you as one of the foremost ethical minds I've encountered. I mean to do it with a smile and the expectation you have right of reply. I get the impression you do it with a superior attitude, and that, for me, is where all your arguments for "everyone having their own truth" falls apart. Because you hold your truth abover other's truths. You dismiss them with your words "fallacy of altruism" in your post above. Yet, you do seem to be an altruistic soul.
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RHP User
12 years ago
By all sides. Sometimes I think it's about who can type the loudest, people get so het up, on all sides. It's ridiculous to think there are only ever two sides. . We all have our tales to tell and I've told a fair few of my own, about myself and others. Haha and the longer I'm on RHP, the more I remember, hmmm. Anyone who tries to say it is simple is kidding themselves. Everyone's experience is somewhat different and that's the way it is. Having had and seen plenty of experiences, all I remember is the hurt it caused, all sides. But, that's just my experiences, and it's on them that I have based my opinion not to support behaviour, that in my experience doesn't do anyone any good. . Saying that, let me repeat, I do understand it's not the same for everyone and I feel for those who are in far more complicated circumstances than I ever was or saw. xxx
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