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I want all the gory details

October 25 2009

Hi all you men out there... can you tell me exactly what it is about going down on a women that excites you so much... and things that dont so much.. and any other details... for some reason I have been keeping my legs firmly together out of embarrassment

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    get them open let me in hehehehe. I personally find knowing that you are giving her so much pleasure is the turn on turn offs....... hmmmm.........um there isnt any unless its unclean but seriously let someone show you what you have been missing out on you may just love it

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I like 69 position - having my nose buried as deep as I can get it... smothered... holding my breathe.... until my lungs are bursting... and I like being warm, wet and sticky... I love smearing my face in all that soft stuff, tongue sticking out until I'm completely dripping wet... my chin, nose, cheeks, ears... the whole show... then I often turn my attention to my lover's face and I like kisses.....   :p  I think, its because I really wanna share. :)  I'm that kind of guy.   I just get very excited because my sense of smell and taste are definitely high on my list of errogenous zones. I like to have my lovers bits on my lips and in my mouth. Penetration is ok... but without all the other stuff... I just dont get there that easily.   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think Gaz has hit the naiil on the head with his response, but I will add the fact hearing a woman moan like a banshee when going down on her also rates and adds to the whole experience.Nothing like having a woman grab your hair and smashing her puss into your face and screaming oh god! dont stop.I try and reply, no my child I wont stop

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I know you want a guy's response here, but heavens i love it when a guy has his face down there. I could lie there forever!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Turn ons are the way that a girl can thrash about when(if) you get it right. I like being that close to it, the smell and the softness of the folds, the taste and i love it when a chick grabs my hair and holds it deep in their crotch until she comes on my face.Turn offs, the smell sometimes, you must dink lots of water, if you are nervous maybe dip your finger before hand to check. Another big turn off for me is if it is hairy. i'm not talking about the top, that can be sexy, but the lips and surroundings must be clean  and hair free(don't like pubes in my teeth).This is only my point of view but all in all i love it.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It is one of the most enjoyable things I can think of. Just wish I could breathe thru my ears. It is intimate and exciting. You can feel, taste and smell. It can get painful though, your jaw aches after awhile and your tongue feels as if it won't retract properly ...oh the joy of it. It is all about giving pleasure, nothing turns me on more than giving pleasure to the woman I am with.    desserts- is that in the 69 position or are you laying back just enjoying the moment

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Just laying back and enjoying not the moment but the hour or so!!! If a guy wont go down on me, then we dont play. I always return the favour of course!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    How more intimate can you be face to genitals. A lot of couples don't like swapping partners for penetration but we feel oral sex is far more intimate. Being so close fills all the senses and makes it our fave sexual thing to do.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Once the lady is happy we get to do whatever we want :-) oh and it is a bit of a power trip when a woman is totally controlled by your toungue

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hi Tabitha, Whats the embarrasment about? No need for that all. Im in heaven when im down on a women...Giving pleasure is what it is all about...But its nice to get there slowly.starting at the neck and working down   Really nice with an ice cube in my mouth..... The smell shouldnt be a problem, a nice shower with some foreplay soon fixes that.   Learn to spread ur legs...U dont know what ur missing out on.....xx Cheers

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tabitha'  no matter what we say' until you try it you will never know. You have held back for your own personal reasons.  Obviously you must first be able to lay back relax and let yourself flow with the sensations..  In my experience I find the girls who lay back and go with the flow have the most mind shattering orgasms imaginable.   Dont feel any urgencey to reciprecate so readily or you will lose your way.. Just relax and savior the moment until you reach your point of no return..   Us guys love to get down there knowing we are giving our ladies pleasure. As long as its clean and we can come up for some air occasionly we can stay down there forever..  well'  thats if a hour or so is forever..lol...  Most important to tell your man what you do and dont like...  Personally I like to start slowly and once all the juices are flowing increase the intensity...   hope this helps..  Mr JJ

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love the first smell you get as you slide her pants down that combination of the excite natural scent of a woman and the little bit of sweat that combines to give such a heady scent. I much prefer the natural smell to any perfume. The gentle caress that causes her legs to open. The glistening of excitement on her lips. The wrmth you get from being snug inside her legs the glroious tase...   To feel legs close around you and your hair being pulled to force you face harder into the pussy. The hearing of maons as you nibble you way around knowing she is getting off on your mouth and tounnge....   There is no down side to oral and it is the highlight of sex IMHO.     Mike

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I used to be like that once but I think age and an exceptional partner changed the way I feel about it....now I can't get enough of it :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thereare way too many guys out there that love it.I know i have had a great night when the insides of my lips are bruised from the night before hehe.I'm with Puppy on this one too.We find it way more intimate than penetration, so relax and go with the flow.If you are really concerned, as DAt180 mentioned-drink plenty of water, get the area manicured and shower, same goes for the guysgood luck

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love the smell and taste of a woman I also love the sensation of a woman cumming while I've got my tongue working her over, I would have to say any guy that doesn't like going south of the border doesn't know what he's missing and every girl has to try it at least once, and once you have you'll love it.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lol Mickle... not up to my ears hahaha! You bugga! .. what I do is swish my head around side to side... ear to ear... lolz... you know like when you are in the swimming pool... and all the while I blow bubbles. hehe.     Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I know I quote Jules (aka Samuel L Jackson) abovefrom Pulp Fiction, but true it is.  It is the holiest of holes.   To quote from another movie, as Al Pacino's character says in the movie Scent of a Woman,  "Pussie!"   There's really nothing like it.  You ask what it is?  Well I can't say exactly,  but I think it comes down to the animal instict.   Men are driven my that primeval instict to woman. But it's more than reproducing. It's more than te satisfaction of cumming ourselves.  To me, going down on a woman is more exciting than intercourse.  I can't explain it exactly.  However, what I can say is I enjoy immensly the thrill of exciting my partner.  It makes me feel so excited.   Strangely, what my partner might think be a task, or the unintiated might think as an altruistic task is no that at all. It's me enjoying what I enjoy more than anything else in this world.  The thrill, the taste of going down, on the holiet of holes.   Thanks Tabathawench for raisig the most important of subjects.   Love you xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ....I think has it right.... I have always loved to give pleasure, especially oral pleasure...   But  I was lucky to be taught by a loving partner.... Not the same for everyone, either...   She was incredibly relaxed and REALLY enjoyed Herself.... TRUST is something which springs to mind....   Lie back, relax, and know that he is enjoying the feeling of giving.....   J ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    well... this post is very telling and informative... both from those who have posted (a girl's gotta luv you guys :P) and from those regulars who have mysteriously disappeared lol... let's just assume they missed this post, ok? hehe :P   I'm a lucky girl who got introduced to the joys of oral young (19, my first time) and wow will I ever always remember him!!!! He's forever more been my benchmark for great oral.   Agree with Puppy... so much more intimate than penetration! And a girl can always  tell if a guy (or another girl for that matter) is enjoying it.   I much prefer those who are honest up front about not liking it than those who give a few half-hearted licks and often nowhere near where they should be giving them (yuck! yuck! double yuck! :P) and then expect 45 minutes of head lol.   If you tell me straight away that it's just not your thing then I might give you head anyway :P  LOL... BE HONEST... it can have its advantages!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    She squirmed as he licked and sucked his way down her body..giggling as his mouth tickled her skin. Heat engulfed her nipples as he moved his mouth over them before continuing his path down her sexy curves. He parted her lips licking at her wet slit..hungrily feasting on her cunt. A vibrator in his hand, he slid it into her tight hole as his tongue lapped on her clit sending jolts through her body and bringing moans from her parted lips. Her fingers ran though his hair as she thrust up to grind herself against him, gasping as he fucked her with the rubber cock. She moved her hips and bucked against him begging for more as the waves of pleasure jerked her body, crying out as her clit twitched against his tongue. She came....her pussy spasming around the intrusion, he raised his gaze to meet hers smiling before sliding up to sit on her belly. He cupped her breasts squeezing them tightly together, driving his cock between her magnificent globes. The sight of the head of his cock slipping through the other side had her poking her tongueout and licking at him with every stroke... "give it to me" she begged "let me suck you" He ran the head of his cock over her lips coating them with precum before sliding it deep into her throat. She moaned then, sucking him hard.. Swallowing around him so her throat muscles clenched him like a spasming cunt... He groaned as his cock throbbed and exploded, his cum shooting filling her belly as she greedily drank every last drop.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I like Kilee to lie back and let me stay down there for hours...   one of my favourite passtimes.   Trev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    >>> hot-under-her-collar (hehe) Sophie now goes to have a cold shower!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Long sessions of oral in the shower, another fave! But do prefer it warm!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Realx and enjoy it. Its the most intense sensation in the world so i am told. As long as your partner is skilled you will enjoy. I have also experienced that what you eat a few hours prior to sex can alter th smell and taste if you are worried about it. Try eating pinapple befor sex. That worked for us. Enjoy the new experience.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    there is nothing more intimate than being with a woman, her legs are wide open andyour face is buried in her pussy...licking, sucking, nibbling, kissing and playing...having only been introduced to oral this year (that's a long story), i absolutely love, love, love it...and as i do it more, i want to get better and better at it...because it is a gift that i would like to give a woman...sheer and total pleasure...good luck, i hope u don't wait as long as i had to...cheersjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love the smell the taste, the feel and nothing is sexier than getting a woman moaning and writhing as she grabs you head and orgasms. Certainly worth a lot of time just exploring and playing. And hair is fine by me. Now Im drooling all over my key board !

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Until I joined this site I never realised so many woman, such as yourself trish, missed out. Didn't realise men had no-go areas when it came to women. Call me naive, but then again I suppose males can be brought up to think sex is dirty as well. My only concern tabitha is that a few people have mentioned a " skilled partner". Anyone can do it and you can help to teach him.ie if he's missing the place tell him, if he's doing it too hard/soft tell him. Hopefully you know what you like make sure he does as well. Communication!!!! "skilled" will just help to broaden your horizons by doing something you never felt before.   Don't be embarrassed either there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    very happy to hear that you are now back with the programme... better to lose some people than to find them, that's for sure! Cum join me under the shower :P lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Enhance the experience by using a vibrator as well, as screaming convulsing orgasm will follow no doubt  Cheers...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Enhance the experience by using a vibrator as well, a screaming convulsing orgasm will surly follow Cheers

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    okay so thanks for all the great replys very informative very helpful.... next time my partner tries I think I will just try to lay back and relax

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    There is nothing like haveing you tounge on a sexy wet pussy when her body trebles with an orgasm and sometimes with multiple orgasms . all women are diffrent on how slow or fast it allways better start of slow as some are very senstive then build up most women now what they like so just ask. some women take a long time to orgasm but men dont stop because they have the best orgasms as it  builds up.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    what i like about going down on a woman, is feeling her enitre body squirm at the tip of my tounge when they orgasm. i love the smothness, the taste, ohh so sweet. just the excitment when u tease a woman with you tounge before you go down, its so sexy, hearing the noices they make wen you going down. i love a woman riding my face, and having her juices flow all over my face and in my mouth. ive had many hours long ssessions just building a woman up to cum

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    All i can say Tabitha, is lay back and enjoy it. If he doesn't know every which way to make you cum, then you aren't experiencing the whole thing are you? Anything that makes a girl cum is a good thing!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Tabitha, From a personal oral junkie who lives close by, Id love to come and see you and have you experience the pleasure it will cause for you. It's really inexplicable until you actually try it. One word of advice is to jus tlet yourself go and thoroughly enjoy the moment. regards J

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I just love having my face buried down stairs, (ah if only I could breath through my ears...LOL) I think some of it - a lot of it is knowing that I'm giving the lady a lot of pleasure but part of it I have absolutely no idea as to why I love it so much. My ultimate sexual pleasure though is being down there and giving her a great orgasm, I do like a bit of head myself but not one of my priorities, just prefer to give then to get. I've had several girlfriends that had never had it, resisted it or only had it performed badly, I definitely changed their outlook on that front. Let's not forget a womens sex is a spectacular and beautiful object to be admired, kissed, worshipped. They cum in all different styles, sizes, thousands of different looks, some just a little slit others big pouting lips,even some a bit lop sided but above all every single one of them is beautiful and sexy. Tabitha open your legs, comunicate with each other and trust me even though it may take a dozen trial runs to relax. you are going to love it and wonder why you didn't do it sooner!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As a girl freind once said to me any one guy can sex but if a guy can good oral remberder for a long time to come.   I have to say that I think there is nothing better than giving a woman oral, I could do it for hours or as long as she like.   I have been complimented many a time after preforming it, while doing it i get the idea how she like it and continue for as long as she like. And i have to say it give me pleasure to do  it for he and if it returned it is even better . This is my prefence if a woman is shaven down there it is even better.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    well for me going down on women actually makes me hard :D   just the thought of her enjoying you licking her out is great, the fact that she is comfortable enough and open enough to you that it gives you so much trust bewteen each other   and when she cums and she squeezes her legs around your head, you can tell she wants it :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love licking a nice wet juicy tight pussy. I love to have a woman sit on my face and I want to find someone who will sit on my face until they squirt their juices all over my face!!!!mmmmmm  Any takers?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I understand where u are coming from Velvet..had terrible experiences when i was younger, being told that i smell bad, taste bad and im a very clean person..leads to various issues...then was seduced by an older man who said the complete opposite..and made me cum for the first time by oral only...over the years had good and bad experiences with issues from both sides and then i was married to a man who had no clue..and i have a ring thru my hood..so X marks the spot...so when my marriage ended i was feeling a bit jaded.  Meet my lover on here..blew me away first nite we spent together. Never had an orgasm like it..never knew a man could do that to me...now i cant get enough, so when he is back from working away its the first thing taken care of when we see each other..and he loves going down on me as many times as i can handle!!!!  So all i can say is deep breath, relax and ENJOY!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Being short sighted I don't have any other option... Okay some might think I'm invading their space... but one needs to determine which hole serves what purpose... nothing worse than a bit of brown nose on these occasions.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    really love receiving oral. I think it's possible this is because like so many other things with sex it can come with it an expectation that something 'will happen' eg the woman will squirm, orgasm, go off, or however you want to describe it.  I had never had good oral, ever, in the 21 years of being sexually active.  It did almost nothing for me and I could not see any way at all that I would ever orgasm from it.  It was pleasant enough, but really soooooo average.  Until now!  My man loves it, spends ages doing it and loves to try all sorts of things to see what works for me.  I have learnt to relax, breathe, enjoy it for what it is without any expectations. I LOVE the sweet, soft, delicate sensations, it feels so feminine and did I say 'sweet'?! It's like a gift to me, that he gives me and I give myself.  Sometimes we end up having sex, sometimes we don't, but I always feel like he has given me a yummy treat, regardless of the fact that I never orgasm.And then, after some time of relaxed oral exploration over some months with my gorgeous man, I unexpectedly, deliciously, suddenly came while he was going down on me.  Mind blowing, brought me to tears, worth every bit of the the 21 years I waited!  And if it had never happened, I still would have loved receiving oral from him, if only because of how much he loves to give it.So girls, there is nothing 'to do' if you don't love oral, or if you're nervous about it.  Be clean, be open minded, be relaxed, and let what happens happen.  And ... enjoy x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Than my man when he goes down on me and makes me scream.... at the risk of  having his head 'vised' between my clenched legs during orgasm!  So far, he hasn't complained!  Also we do not give oral to anyone but each other.... much more intimate than intercourse.   Besides, I don't want him kissing me after he's eaten something that I don't and vice versa!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    velvetbite as a man for me it is the satisfaction that knowing  that with my tongue i can take a girl to heights of extasy by just gently but at times firmly flicking it against your clitoris till you scream for more. To hear your moans of delight and words of pleasure make me excited and throbbing hard till your ready for my thick cock. Girl just lay back open your legs and let ya man take ya to these heights make sure you move and moan and tell him where it feel great for him to lick. Or if he need a demo contact me.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Personally like many above i love the aroma & the sweet taste of a sexy lady's soft sweet pussy, the nectar of the gods if you ask me. Lol In my opinion any male who doesn't enjoy pleasurring a lady with his tongue is at the very least missing out on half the delicious pleasures of sex because i believe the key to enjoying amazing, awesome, incredible sex is to get off as much on the pleasure you're giving as you do on that you receive & that goes for both males & females. Both my sexy lady & i do with each other & our playmates. Toys are an even more delicious addition & also opens the door to even more intense orgasms. Mt personal fave is for a sexy lady to have her toy buried deep inside her hot dripping wet pussy, with it's tickler buzzing her swollen clit & my tongue teasing her tight pink yummy ass. The amazing body shuddering orgasm this delivers never fails to get me off. Mmm mmm mmmmm Mac The male half of funwithusnow

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A lot of women who don't like receiving oral are usually fearful about smell/taste or hygiene. Often this is the result of nasty comments in the past. With someone like that it's important to put them at ease about those things early on, let her know how good she smells/tastes.IMO, everything about going down on a girl is pretty damn good, but if I had to pick one thing, it'd be the sounds. The sound of a woman having a g-spot or clitoral orgasm is just about the most beautiful sound in the universe, and one you never get sick of hearing. :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    How sorry do i feel for all the sexual woman out there who have never achieved orgasm from oral stimulation....what an amazing experience,,,to feel a mans wet tongue against my aroused clit is pure magic...relax...enjoy....you will come.....xxxpandaxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    here it is...plain an simple...I'm the type of guy that gets turned on when u are turned on...an what better way to turn a gal on and have her moanin in pure bliss than to be face first between her legs showing her the meanin of pleasure...gory details...nah nothin's gory when it comes to sex...i find that the more I please a girl, orally or otherwise, the more turned on I get, hence...the longer the sex...the better the reward! I'm sure gals don't want us down there permanently but hey...I'll never pass up an opportunity to please a gal the best way I know how...with my three tools of the trade! ;) (for those of you a little blonde....fingers,tongue and dong)

  • floyd277

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    16 years ago

    love to explore every millimetre of a woman's body with my tongue - to first part your swollen lips with my tongue the taste the sent mmm yummo -(: Turn offs are too much hair & poor hygiene. 69's are fun but I find it too distracting I much rather go down first (:

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I find cunnilingus to be the most intimate sex act between partners.  For me, it is all about pleasuring my lady by being able to apply degrees of pressure and touch in ways that can't be achieved during intercourse.  It is a fantastic feeling for me to know that I am continually learning how to turn on my partner and bring her to a wonderful orgasm.  While my tongue and lips are doing their thing by licking, kissing and sucking, my hands are also free to roam for added stimulation.   I will say that I am hygenic and expect my partner to be the same.  Trimmed is preferable but not essential.   So miss Velvet, relax and allow yourself to experience the pleasure that you will surely enjoy.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my ex used to get realy parinoid about it because of some scarring from child birth, unless she was pissed. couldn't see the point realy. it looked and felt just like every other bueatiful pussy before it. i wouldn't have known if she not have told me. still made her scream when i got the chance and i think i can breathe through my ears cause no man chould be deprived of oxygen for that long, lol. like everyone has said before me, lay back and relax, let him do the work and i'm sure it will cum to you,lol.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    from my perspective....it is oh so easy for a girl to become paranoid about her smell or her taste.All it takes is a weird look....a reluctance to go down...and the woman (will usually) assume that the problem is with her.Some of us have been conditioned to think that our bits are dirty....that any moisture released is dirty....that our smell is automatically unpleasant.So saying "just relax" isnt gonna cut it.She needs to be convinced that her taste and aroma are like an elixir....that he just can't get enough.Oh...and the next time you and she are watching the news...or something equally unsexy....a whisper in her ear that she tastes divine will do wonders for her ability to relax when it comes time to try it again.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It is the most sensual and horniest thing about being with someone you love and allowing yourself to be completely in their hands. ( mouth)..lolMy guys know just how to do it to me, and each of them does it differently.I can come so quickly by oral. and only by them.I give my whole self to the moment and allow them to taste me and then i like to taste me by kissing them softly during and after.It is so erotic and enjoyable.Take the plunge. spread your legs , look down at him / she while they are doing it, and enjoy the moment of utter pure pleasure.Leesa

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i luv to get a lady to climax by licking and sucking her clit, her body wriggling.and once she has climaxed you get to enter the best pussy, hot n juicy, mmmmm