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I need to vent
February 02 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
and get a nice suprise if they do. Repeat performance , seems not be the norm Saying they will return is Doing it another matter Word used on here a lot, especially for a woman NEXT! Honestly take it all with a grain of salt. Never ask them , will I see you again? It embarases the crap out of people who just want a one night stand. how many are brave enough to say, hi this is just a one night stand is that ok? most women would think well shit you have not even porked me yet and you want to leave? so treat them all like a one night stand.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah, too much of this goes on. Seems the friendship built up before the meet is worth nothing. . Women may be able to fake an orgasm but Men can fake a whole relationship.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think for some men, the thrill of the chase gets their adrenalin going.. Once that chase has been conquered, they move on for the next chase.
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RHP User
14 years ago
And here I was wondering if this was a thread that once and for all confirms that ladies really do fart! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Women do the same thing, this is not exclusive to the male of the species. If i have a hold of something that's worth a second visit I will go if there seems to be interest there from the other person. People can get clingy, want a relationship and all that icky emotional stuff which frankly right now is the last thing I need. Although I do have a favourite that if the timeing was better....... and gracious he's a brilliant shag. Other than that, the facts are that if it's worth a second visit I will go back for more, if it was just "meh" I will just leave it as a fun memory.
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RHP User
14 years ago
(to actually answer your question) if men want something they will crawl over broken glass to get it. If they don't go after you with great gusto they're just not that into you (as the book/movie goes)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...that we are all (yes, male and female alike) very primal creatures by our very nature and in this particular venue, there is a high probability that even the best intended long term FWB going in may be a one night encounter and this dependent upon how much time we have actually invested in getting to know each other first. | We all have a tendency to overlook any number of personal traits and attributes that we may not like and certainly evident, however if we accept that our primal expectation is sex...it really is then after sex that we assess those things that we all may have overlooked getting there and determine the value or depth of the friendship. At times, even that may be quite shallow...which is neither right or wrong, it simply is how it often works. | If the sex is completely mind blowing...there may be a repeat performance on that basis alone, however unless there is a basis for a friendship or those traits we have noticed along the way that we may find range for slight to substantial aren't really an issue...I would doubt that anyone is going to buy into a full membership. | Does that make her a bitch or him a bastard...no, not really. It just makes us human and in the end, that's all we really are and what we have to work with on the best of days. | Then again we may just find an exception to a generalization too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I recently had and extension built on my house and needed a vent also. I would suggest taking a drive down to your local Bunning’s store they have plenty to chose from and very easy to install also
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' Women do the same thing, this is not exclusive to the male of the species. If i have a hold of something that's worth a second visit I will go if there seems to be interest there from the other person. The most number of meets I have had with a guy has been 3 ...and that was only because he lives 800km away and I knew there was no chance of any emotional stuff happening Im sure the propensity for those wanting one night stands has a lot to do with what the culture of this site is based on - just sexMinxy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Stalky'And here I was wondering if this was a thread that once and for all confirms that ladies really do fart! Hugs Stalky But as it smells like crushed rose petals and sounds like a flute solo does it count? I wonder why the dog always leaves the room when I fart or sing? Its a mystery to me But then again my hearing is gone and so is my sense of smell my best trick is to put in the earphones while at the gym on the treadmill sing out of tune in my loud voice and fart, cant hear it so don’t care The are about to revoke my membership, seeees some people have no sense of humour.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic' Yeah, too much of this goes on. Seems the friendship built up before the meet is worth nothing. . Women may be able to fake an orgasm but Men can fake a whole relationship. I sympathise with Meggiesgirl and agree with MrandMrsErotic. I too have had a couple of these encounters of late. I need to build a rapport with someone & know there is chemistry before the shag, then after all the contact (& the shag)... they just vanish... Why cant these guys just communicate and actually say, 'no im not into you' or something else generic? Whats with the 'we'll see crap' - be a grown up and just say it. Yes primarily this sites about sex but its really disappointing once you've built some rapport & some sort of friendship to be cut off like you have the plague!
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RHP User
14 years ago
"Why cant these guys just communicate and actually say, 'no im not into you' or something else generic? Whats with the 'we'll see crap" Because they can't be bothered dealing with the abuse, emotional manipulation and carry on that they will get if they just say "i'm sorry, i'm just not that into you."
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RHP User
14 years ago
...who wrote the book? | Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' "i'm sorry, i'm just not that into you." | They were two of the folks that wrote a couple of scripts for "Sex in the City"...between those to unemployed TV screenplay writers and the fawking John Gray, I'm damn surprised we haven't declared war on each other. Why can't we just say... | Can I get in to you...please. | | Try anything twice and more if you like it...we're only human.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I want to fuck them many times not just once. Once is great but second and third times are always better. You get to know what that person wants and needs, what turns them on , they learn what turns you on and so of course the sex is better. I had a liason with a wonderful man last weekend, it was supposed to be a hookup for 1 night, he then said he wanted to spend the day with me and another night, the sex on the second night was certainly far superior to the first night. I believe in the truth if you dont fancy them then say so, dont fuck them. I can take rejection and so can the men I meet. I find it interesting that some men see my photo and say no thanks even before they have met me. Talk about shallow, I at least will meet most men and see if there is that spark, if not then I tell them up front sorry its not going to happen. It there is that spark then look out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' "Why cant these guys just communicate and actually say, 'no im not into you' or something else generic? Whats with the 'we'll see crap" Because they can't be bothered dealing with the abuse, emotional manipulation and carry on that they will get if they just say "i'm sorry, i'm just not that into you."Who said anything about abuse, emotional manipulation & carry on??? Granted some woman (& men for that matter) maybe into in but those of us who are adults, me for instance expect just a little communication... flick back a text or email - say 'thanks but no thanks'. I'm just saying a little honesty & common decency in replying wouldnt go astray on occasion...puts us all on the same page, then we all know where we're at....and move on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Goodgrlz that is a cope out pure & simple. Are all men pussies? Surely it is more troublesome in the long run to string someone along with we will see. I think there is an element of truth in that, yes they are waiting for something better to come along and they are keeping you as the back up girl. Puck that I say!! Tell him you get a better orgasm from your dildo and by the way fuck off. :D Of course woman also do this too. Xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'goodgrlzsayplz' "Why cant these guys just communicate and actually say, 'no im not into you' or something else generic? Whats with the 'we'll see crap" Because they can't be bothered dealing with the abuse, emotional manipulation and carry on that they will get if they just say "i'm sorry, i'm just not that into you."Some of us girls do have the abilitly to say "Meh" and walk away. I would prefer a man to just say I'm just not that into you" instead of keeping their options open and wasting your time when your time could be better spent meeting other men and enjoying yourself...not all women are abusive, use emotional manipulation and carry on if they are rejected...some of us realise life is too short...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh i dunno meeks, wouldn't you just try to slip away quietly if everytime you told a guy "erm, sorry but no" he chucked a big sook or a tanty or started to try to emotionally manipulate you? Women do that all the time. Occassionally guys do it but women are known for it. Cait you're right, there are a few who are grown ups and not desparately needy and whiney, mature women who say "fair enough then" and walk away
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RHP User
14 years ago
Poor didems... Grow a pair of balls. FFS. My point is that this isn't slipping away quietly is it? xx Meeka
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blondes6365
14 years ago
no where your coming from
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RHP User
14 years ago
...a sign of good health and neither is emotional hostage taking. Either could benefit from the shock of a good paddling although it really only would actually help with the first one. The other might just be a bit of optional fun but even that might not leave you breathless and wanting more more more. | Seriously...what do you think this thread would look like if it were a man (or a boy) that posted a topic like this? I know, the men are "blessed" when granted the privilege of of sliding down your vent or even your chimney if it's near Christmas and you are a good little ho ho ho. | So then what...we're assholes yet again for being somewhat human and not just saying "look I worked my ass off to get here and really, it wasn't really all that crash hot". Sometimes being evasive means that a man (or for chrissake even a woman) may be trying to avoid being blunt at the risk of hurting someone's feelings. It does happen....really, it does. | So who asked the question in the first place? If it was you then take a bit of a wishy washy "maybe dunno can't decide" as a no and leave it alone. Hey...if he does happen to be one of these slim buckets that are so fun to bash and wants to take shot at you then you will have the pleasure of telling him to "fuck off and die". | Now then...if it was him that asked the question and you said the same thing (it can happen..really, it can) or were just being human and said "no"....would this thread even exist? Maybe, but it might bring new life to the old dirge of "Why can't men take "no" for an answer...once we've done them once". | ...thanks for letting me play, I think?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry, I meant vented. Hi, Stalky.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Smokers. You kiss 'em and their tongue tastes phutooee, Hands stain and taste phutooee, they touch their genitals and then they taste phutooee, and a smoker's jizz tastes phutooee. Phutooee. Moreover, they all taste the same phutooee way! Every single one! I'm convinced that anyone who shags a smoker, has not experienced the delectable variety of taste and aroma of non smokers! There. I've vented! Now, where's my mouth wash! Hugs Stalky
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blackie251
14 years ago
at least you get that 'once'lol, not so easy for guys
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree non smokers taste better in every which way, yum yum
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RHP User
14 years ago
But what about pot smokers? Do they taste like cabbage?
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you lived in Cairns you would get lots.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and Cigars? Does that taste like Fidel Castro(whatever that may taste like?) eeeew !
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RHP User
14 years ago
....I just bite it, it's for the look, I don't light it...(Will Smith). Well there's Tom Selleck and even Baby Herman from Roger Rabbit. So there's two cloudy samples. Nah, just being silly. I didn't expect a response to my daft post. Was an amusing retort nevertheless.
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