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I just want an older woman to teach me a few things
September 01 2017
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Seachange73
8 years ago
Hmmm. I see you!! 😉 Lesson 1. Fill in your profile. Get rid of 'ask me'. Have some personality in there. Lesson 2. Get decent body and face pics on your profile as nobody would touch a mirage unless they are desperate. I know one or two but... Never mind. Lol I see you are married. Well keep your expectations realistic as many if not most women will not have a bar of you. Lesson 3 read up on tons of advice for newbies here wrt to how to contact people. Manners and read their profiles. . That's enough homework for today. Good luck 😊
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
You are 32 and married ? And looking for a mature woman? At 32 are you not mature? Is your wife not mature? How old is a mature woman? Too many missing fields within your profile. Best to have no expectations or entitlement. Good luck with your search. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You just got served - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Etc
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RHP User
8 years ago
Things like......playing Bridge, and how to make a crochet couch rug? lol Duuuuuude. You have much to learn in here. 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Due to the fact my 19 year old son is dating a 45 year old lady. It is certainly a journey of acceprance. Thank the GOD's I joined RHP 7 years ago and became sexually liberated and sexually mature. .... I hope she teaches him well!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
An interesting position to be on. an employee's 19 yo brother is dating a 38 yo woman who happens to be his uni tutor. Apparently this has caused a lot of friction in the family specially with the mom. It definitely is the young man's journey and hope his gf do teach him well.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'mango69er' You just got served ...what it must be like trying hit a return volley when the Fed Ex Express comes flying over the net! Imagine just how silly Federer would make you look? This topic is kinda like that, maybe? LOL...dunno.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I did find it difficult and at times still do, as I feel he 'should' be with his own age in a percieved relationship. My son and I have openly discussed my feelings and his. He knows I do not judge his choice, although I do have concerns, however I am not going to let them cloud his happiness. I also like the lady, which seemed to be important to him. It is his journey and he is an adult. I have always supported my son's decisions in life. Sometimes I do not agree, however I love them unconditionally. I am hoping it will fizzle sooner than later, but the lady tells me my son doesn't need much teaching. (Not what I wanted to hear) However, I know he does (He is quite open with me and asks questions, which of course I answer so he can be sexually mature too) So we will see how this journey progresses I guess. Hope your emoyees family understand that it his journey and friction will only cause grief. The other day it felt like my son had been taken from me. (I have hardly seen him in 3 weeks) I know this is not the case. Like everything though, we need to acknowlege these feelings that come up, understand them and then put them to rest. Sorry OP. Off track. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As you can see not much help here, yep being married your really pissing into the wind here. I'll give you an easy shortcut, it will save you countless hours at the keyboard, more hours being stood up by fakes and trolls, and yet more hours worrying about being busted, covering your tracks etc.etc.etc. Rent one.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Women around your age are most likely the ones to teach you new things. 30-35 yo are from a generation more promiscuous than the 40+ yo ladies. While the older women are definitely more secure in their bodies and willing to try new things, they aren't as experienced as you'd think. The 40+ ladies are more likely willing to help fulfill your fantasies, as they are often doing the same themselves, those around your own age have likely already done it and in a better position to show you the ropes - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
I commend you for being open, understanding and keeping the communication lines open with your son. Best and most pragmatic approach IMO. I spoke to employee today . I think it has gone worst as he moved out of home and into his gf's home. her mom was angry and worried but nothing she can do about it. my employee is stressed out too as she is caught up in the drama between mom n brother. Not sure how it will end. But big learning curve for everyone. I hope your son will be ok. Sorry for getting offtrack op. 🙏 Back to regular programming. 😎
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RHP User
8 years ago
date a 19 yr old but I doubt a 19 yr old would date me. However why not, I don't see what it has to do with the family. Having said that, I would probably not tell the family, just enjoy time together away from the family. I barely see my family anyway. But IMO parents shouldn't have a say, they will make their own choices. I've played with guys that age so not a lot different really, not for me anyway. Op put some pictures up, you will get better responses, well it helps lol if we can see who we're talking to 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Does that claim about 40+ women extend to you as well?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can not understand your rationalisation of thinking you could date a 19 year old. Perhaps yes, for just sex and maybe friendship. However an emotional investment, I can not. It is important to family, well to me because I love and care for both my son's and want them to be happy. It is the variables that could happen that concern me. Such one being a pregnancy or another my son not getting the best out of his youth or infact being heart broken and the wheels of self doubt, come into play at a young age. Parents can have a say to voice their concerns. However we can not run the journey for them.. Thanks for your opinion tho :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Perhaps everyone needs to stop freaking out and ackowlege how the mum feels. She is no doubt feeling her son is bring taken away from her. She is afraid and needs to address that with son only. Although in a calm sincere manner and being honest. :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had my experience with younger women and the many lessons they have taught me, I've also explored a few of my Wishlist options with older ladies. Let's just say, I'm not a know it all and every woman is different, but I really enjoy finding that way to please - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange73
8 years ago
I agree wholeheartedly. I thought the same. Not sure whether it's my place to say anything. But couldn't agree more. 👍
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On_Safari
8 years ago
I don't know what your 40+ women have been doing all their lives but I think you just generalised a tad much. I'd fulfilled most of my fantasies by 35. Your comment may be based on your experience but it's like that for many. In my mid-forties I'm less inclined to "settle for average" but life throws "curlies" in all forms. I've never been a cougar though, silver fox hunter yes but I could count on one hand the number of younger men who turned my head. You're 41, you turned mine....then you made this post 😏 just sayin' ~ Indy Indpirit Im waiting for one of my girls to drag in a man 18yrs or more their senior - no doubt that bloke and I will be having a very serious chat and a trip to the tool shed ⚒ still it's their lives.
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On_Safari
8 years ago
Very Bohemian Rhapsody 😘
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think parents should stay out of their kids private lives, I do, couldn't care who they're seeing as long as they're happy. It otherwise has judgement and control attached to it. That control from a parent is where it all goes wrong. You don't own your children and you say you're open from your time on here, but heavy judgements being made. Spare me the 'I don't care, I'm his Mother' speech. I just think you have your head in the sand and control issues. Pregnancy lol post menopause, that wouldn't be a problem? Such a vast age difference in all reality couldn't be a long term relationship, but short term, year or two or three, mutually satisfying for both, whatever, but still not your business sorry we'll have to agree to disagree.
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RHP User
8 years ago
for that last comment but it has a kind of Cruella Deville feel about it. Re pregnancy for example, what a young chick can't get pregnant?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Please do not pass jusgement upon me. Your comments are not welcomed. I do not agree I have judged, however I have voiced my concerns. Concerns are not judgements, last time I read a dictionary. Why do you attack people when you do not agree with their choices, opinions or lifestyles? You may go on to attack, however you are looking like a woman who does herself perhaps, pass judgement upon others. As for the pregnancy. How do you this lady is post meno? I am not. Every body is different. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thank you and good luck in the shed. 🕵️♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can understand. Particularly the issue around him possibly wanting kids and a family if things do get serious between them. The worst would be if the older man/woman doesn't have respect for his family and family connections. At the end of the day we all would like to work well together as a family. I think most would understand that. Hopefully anyway. Although I know a few people who have "lost" their kids because the older significant other is so controlling and believes the family should have no say and then they end up isolating their partner from their families. Very sad. :(
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RHP User
8 years ago
Judgement and control is what parenting is all about. If it weren't for exercising them both by me both my kids would be on vastly different paths than they are on now. Paths that would have involved crime, drugs and scumbags. Try a little on yourself sometime.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...that taught me a lot when I was just a very young lad. That said by now she would easily be in her 80's yet still...there is your older woman. ...maybe you could iron out her wrinkles? CM
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RHP User
8 years ago
It seems they have things under control. She is lovely and a smart woman who has my respect. I still have my concerns, however I am not so bothered. They are both quite aware. If things heat up more, I guess that path will be looked at then.... :-) On that note.... ITM, May I suggest next time you wish to go on the attack, you might to go outside, put your hands down your pants and pull yourself together. Then come back and play nice. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ask STIFLER'S mum to help you out. She is mature and sexperienced.
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On_Safari
8 years ago
How would your son react (at age 18-22) if you started shagging his friends? 🤔
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' How would your son react (at age 18-22) if you started shagging his friends? 🤔 ...I can't even imagine walking in the door and finding my 18 yr. old son banging some ''old broad'' fast approaching 60 yrs. old? Ya' gotta be serious? How do you spell ''desperation''? Her not him...I'm his Dad and can still kick his ass back to sanity. Best...CM who still won't pick a wrinkle and try to fuck it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My son who is the current toy boy wouldnt care. Tho the other would frown. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
He is the toy boy. I had nothing to worry about.🤣😂🤣😂🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile
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