RHP

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I have to ask - given recent posts - this one is for the ladies particularily

December 23 2012

"Do women find men, that other men find threatening, to be a turn on? If said man appears well and truly above the pack, is that desirable or off putting in your eyes?"open for comments and will provide mine in due course,. Of course .. the men may comment in the reverse question .." Do men fine women , that other women find threatening ............?????????????????

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    i just like really tall men. sometimes thin and sometimes not so much. My sub/puppy is big and scary looking but not intentionally. i have always preferred work fit men over gym enthusiasts intent on bulking up. xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    the individual man.Some people are threatened by physical appearance,eg large man with tattoos,(a stereotype I know)...others are threatened by intelligence,talent,sporting prowess the list is endless....if other people admire the man for who he is as a person rather than seeing them as a threat...then yes that is very sexy. Emotional intelligence in a man in my opinion is very,very,sexy

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Men that stand out because of their intelligence. I see time and time again, that other men can find that very threatening. Of course these smart guys will also have to possess a lot of other things to interest me. Emotional intelligence is must-have. And being large and tattooed is a definite plus!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    There goes ANY slight chance I may EVER have had with Devious :(

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Well I think that sometimes, yes men do feel threatened by other men, that stand out....not in a bad way, but I have seen first hand how it has led to a physical confrontation...probably due to the weaker of the men, only knowing violence as an expression of masculinity....but it also works for the reverse too...   My ex (yes I talk about her a lot, as she was a big part of my life), used to feel threatened all the time by other females, as it also indicates a level of insecurity....   But I can't say that as a general rule...cos I guess the individual circumstances are the victim of the devilish details...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't give a rats arse about what others think. Being "above" the rest doesn't do it for me unless they have other qualities I admire. I am not into power and I can't stand arrogance. :D I don't find women threatening either... Only if I think I may loose a lover to them. Obviously a lover I still want to keep.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't go for anyone in particular, it's just whoever I happen to come across that I feel attracted to. I do have a weak spot for the girl next door type. That's who stands out to me the most in a crowd.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    who stands out in the 'pack' may not necessarily be what turns others on. I'm with Meeka, not into the power thing. But as a shameless voyeur the bickering is highly entertaining .... but I have no life really ....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Being a ex sportsperson in a game renowned for aggression, and being of solid frame , I never thought of myself as intimidating when it came to attracting the opposite sex, but i've watched some of my larger bodied team mates use it to their advantage for sure... Mind you' quite often the girls that are attracted to bigger guys are not what you call glamours in fact in most cases quite the opposite.. Not saying all are unattractive but more so than less..Personally' Im quite comfortable in my own skin when it comes to the 'brainy set' and dont see them as much a threat at all ? You can be smart and be a dud root the same as you can be simple and be a dud root.. it always gets back to the chemistry no matter what you think... give me a nice girl who is sexy feminine anyday...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I find that if a man finds another man threatening or intimidating then said man is not really a man at all...just a little boy posturing as a man. I like really big men anyway and I guess if you are small in stauture, small in mind and very unsure, lacking in confidence then as a man you may find my type of man intimidating or even threatening

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Colour me shallow

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Brawlers are v unattractive.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If a man can't keep his anger in check, he's not mature (or smart) enough for me.