M58
I have been violated!!!!...and I am FURIOUS...
October 19 2009
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kassmebits
16 years ago
Same thing happened to me, except it was my 65 year old mum who took the call........... hence now no phone number listed, and am cagey as hell about who contacts me!!!!
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playfulminx
16 years ago
I feel your pain... You'd think people would have more sense but no...I haven't listed my number on profile but have given it to guys I am interested in. One thought it would be fine to text me at 1am on a weekday... He's lucky he didn't call me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
...I dont have my number posted.Too many fuckwits dont or cant read....or dont give a shit that you have stated SMS only.Better to take your number off and just give it to those you have sussed out first.Oh...and I would be pranking that dickhead at all hours....just to give them a taste of how it feels.(put your number to private first....just to fuck them off even more!)Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are some fu(kheads out there !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Having our number on our profile this happens all the time to me. Now, i simply listen.. and then ask them what is their username on rhp........they then tell me thinking that i am interested and then i let loose......usually in the cam room as they have called because they see me sitting there chatting. THEN we block them and report them. So keep your cool, and do as i do and all the dickheads will be weeded out eventually. Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's so wrong on may levels, mate. Thanks for bringing this up. I'm removing my number immediately. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have what I call the bat phone...prepaid just for this kind I thing
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes that sucks , I would be livid if that happened to me.Makes me a little scared about having just become a fully paid up member finally.Hopefully wont happen to me , but beware to all the dickheads out there that aren't genuine, Vee Haff Veys und Meens to Deal wiss U !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Probably best not to list your number at all. They dont read profiles so they are hardly likely to take note of whether to SMS or not. I also have been harrassed by those i have said that i dont want to meet, that is after the initial phone call and then they decide to SMS sexy messages when i have said not to. So i tell them i dont want to meet and then the phone calls start. Really annoying to say the least!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
thanks couplesint...good one, i shall remember that line...and thanks MissBJ...unfortunately the jerk called privately...omg playfulminx...some people just don't get it...i feel better already having shared it...but i would really like to crunch his balls or something similar...there must be some good ideas lurking out there somewhere...Cheersjose
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are on a website. email is appropriate and can be quick. You can always so no, even if you meet. Agree, would have been absolutely pissed off. tj.
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's it, I'm de-listing my number...There is always some dipshit who fucks it up for everyone else!As for punishment...it's difficult when you can't name and shame them...but they know who they are, andWe know what they are: "Fucking Moronic Dipshits"Jose, thanks so much for posting the warning!Andy
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RHP User
16 years ago
have you ever considered the photos you have on display will attract male attention if just looking at pics without reading your profile and going to find out weather your straight or gay i would have gotten the impression your either gay or bi sexual
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can understand your anger, could think of a couple of appropriate punishments. You could give people you know on here the heads up as to who it is (you didn't mention if you did though). couplesint has the right idea block and report. It doesn't sound much but as they say it will slowly weed out the irresponsible idiots out there.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes, fair enough, it shouldn't be done...But seriously, you didn't think there was a chance it could happen? As much as RHP try to make this as safe and clean as possible, YOU listed YOUR number on a WEBSITE in PUBLIC VIEW of ANYONE.Sorry, I have a 7yo daughter too, but it's no one's fault but your own.Mr..Don't list it, or have a bat-phone.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's a long shot but have a look at who viewed your profile up to the time of the call and see if you can tell who it may have been from that. You may come up with a few possibles but could help to narrow it down a bit?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some ppl cant play nice Jose and that spoils it for the nice peeps on here. Would have to say ppl are very brave to list their phone numbers, with some of the ppl on here. Eeeeek would never do it meself. Good suggestion about the bat phone. xx Miss Honey xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
We dont list our phone number for this very reason. We have small kids, and we give out our mobile number only. This stops the wankers from calling us on our home phone at all times, at least with mobile, we can screen and reject the call as my daughter tends to answer our home phone.We had a guy for a 3some once (not from here, but AFF), but he wasnt that good in the bedroom, but kept ringing and messaging us for the wife to come and visit him. He got the idea when we told him to **** off cause his small dick wasnt good enough, hit the ego where it hurts, but it shouldnt happen. He was also told the biggest rule: 1. we only play together, not apart.People are always going to ignore the rules if they feel it suits them. If that wasnt the case, no body would be speeding on our roads or ringing at inappopriate times cause they feel like they can get something right now. If you dont want the sickos ringing up looking for phone sex at inappropriate times, dont list your phone number until you get to know the person a bit better online. It works for us.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've always wondered if people respect the sms only.There have been times we've had our no' up on the site and had weird sms with pics of body bits asking us to play and not even telling us who they were on RHP! But we got some entertainment out of those ones at least lolol.The whole ph thing can be difficult. The first time we came home from play with a fella, he decided to ring JUST as we were sneaking into the house... wasn't that fun when we were trying to be super quiet at 4 in the morning, grrr...It's called discretion people! Hugs all!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Any continued and unwanted contact via phone or computer is now classed as stalking.Trish...if I were you...I would let that couple know that if they do not stop contacting you...you will call the police.What they are doing is a crime. You dont have to officially report it...but you can let the police know it's happening.Keep details of SMS and calls too.COMEANDGETME.....sorry...but I too assumed by your photo's that you were bi...the getup youre wearing looks a bit mardi gras! And yes....Id say putting any personal details up where anyone can see them...without your having a chance to check them out....is a big risk. Too many fuckheads have no sense of what's right...no tact....no class.As always...Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have my three lovely young kids who stay with me often. They always come first...... thanks forthe heads up ....number removed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
so sorry
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RHP User
16 years ago
great advice...so much to choose from...like the bat phone and the bat as well...giggles...i am feeling so much better...i feel ok about leaving my number up there...but now i am absolutely so careful ta make sure ma phone is always in my pocket...don't know why i took it out in the first place...lol re my pics...hey...i wear a suit, and i wear safety clothes on the farm or when building...and i like ta tease ya just a little bit.. .and the guys can look if they like as long as they know...no touchy, touchy, tocuhy...otherwise i'll have ta ask miss_honey if i can borrow her nippy little crocodiles...heheand thanks ever so much guys, gals and couplesbig hugs for all for you...*hey, where's the huggy icon, huh rhp?*...BIG HUGjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't want gay guys calling me and wanting to stick their dick up my arse. haha!
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RHP User
16 years ago
well, take a pic and put it for a vote on "who's got the best butt...lol...and don't worry, aint letting that phone out of my sight...and this time, i will play along and get their handle....giggles...oh, what fun i shall have then...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hello, just grab a SIM on a prepaid, load it with some credit and post that number. ID theft is another worry too...
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RHP User
16 years ago
We wouldn't put a number up esp if we had prying kids, next time your son might get suspicious!Can you still get phones with 2 sim cards? That might help?CAGM - leaving your phone next to the tools might not be a good thing when they finally tell us the damn things are dangerous!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
All I can say is bad apple. So he ignored SMS only and used a private number, therefore limited revenge. Add phone on the dash with kid in car. Did you smash a mirror lately?
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RHP User
16 years ago
grab a second cheap mobile phone..... they are available brand new from like $29 plus credit and use this as your play number. then you dont need to screen anything or anyone and its always gonna be safe. leave it in the bedside drawer and check it now n then or turn it onto silent and keep it out of sight. its a simple solution to having some one answer the phone and hear something obscene or potentially damaging................problem solved...........
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RHP User
16 years ago
honey dont change a single thing.... i didnt think for one minute that you were gay or bi... all i see is a hot,well toned,sexy work man ready to fix anything... as for that jerk...he is not going to get far if he dosent play by the rules.... xxxpandaxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm far too reluctant to place my number on the site, you can receive all kinds of harassment by publishing it in such a huge forum. Just as the reasons listed above, I couldn't think of anything more humiliating than your mother answering your phone when a hookup/random is calling...or your boss answering like mine did once. Yikes.
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