I don't understand. Girls send me the friend request then dont talk to me.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  in all likelihood, she'll get in touch, reply with an invite to cam, or an expensive phone number. That's from the cynic in me.Or, she could be composing an essay for you :)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  it's a scam, it's a scam, it's a scammmmmmmmmm...it's a scam , it's a scam, it's a scammmm-mmmmmm...sing it to the tune of an english soccer song and you'll get the drift...delete and block...quick...jose...

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  its either a scam...or it's a guy.JMO...BJxxx

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Move on mate.....dont stress, that will happen a lot on here so get used to it. Just look at it as her lose. G & C

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  dont stress...im with everybody else block and delete...its just a scam, or somebody tring to collect friends its not just the girls either i have men send a flirt then friend request and i dont hear another thing...some people are just on here to waste everybody elses time good luck roxxy

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  thats right. its their loss, not mine. thanks guys

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi HotFudge87 Sweetness, you didn't do anything ... and neither did she, which is, of course, the problem which prompted you to start this thread in the first place. Whilst I think sending a 'friend' request immediately after sending two flirts as her first communication with you is quick off the mark, I don't think there's anything sinister about her actions; she might just be an enthusiastic communicator who likes to get her point across. You can't know what happened in her life after she contacted you; anything could have happened which interrupted that communication. Life has SO many things crop up unexpectedly on top of our day-to-day 'To Do' lists, she may just have gotten caught up with family, friends, job, study, whatever. OR she might have changed her mind and not wanted to follow up her approach to you, in which case she is a very rude young lady not to email you back and explain kindly she has changed her mind (which it is her prerogative to do). She has just ignored you and hurt your feelings and I don't think that is acceptable at all. However, I've learned to the cost of MY self-esteem many people - in my case, men - don't reply to flirts, leaving me to wonder what I've done or said wrong on my profile; the men of South-East QLD are avoiding me like nobody's business!! I recommend you take the advice of the level-headed people in this forum who recommend you don't take it personally and just move on to see if you can find some nice POLITE girls who WILL reply to your messages. I am sure they are out there; keep searching and you will find them. A final word: Hi to Polar_Bear_Girl, customer69, MissBJ and geturroxyoff (great handle, by the way; I love it; very clever): Why do you guys think it's a scam? I don't understand. How could anyone get money from this young man when the correspondence they send HotFudge87 is so limited? If she wanted to ensnare him in some ugly way, she'd have to reply to his email first and set up some form of relationship with him. I hope for your sake, HotFudge87, this was never her intent. Forget it; move on; plenty more nice girls out there for you. You look like an attractive young man; look forward to reading soon you have found someone you like who likes you. Best of luck!! Quoting comeandgetme68 (GORGEOUS bum) " now sing along with me... it's a scam, it's a scam, it's a scammmmmmmmmm..." Jose, it's Kat. When did you become so cynical, sweetheart? You were all dewy innocence when we met. I hope the women on RHP have not been breaking your heart and turned your lovely kindness into meanness. You are certainly sounding jaded; that's not like you. I'm worried now!! Hope you are well and happy.

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