RHP

RHP User

M52 F51

I don't like my pussy eaten is this normal

June 06 2020

I really really hate it, it makes me feel violated and exposed. I worry that I smell funny too. If I let a guy do it, I need to either really really like him, but feel totally different if it's a chick.

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    6 years ago

    ... we all like different things based on physical, emotional and mental stimulation. Enjoy what you enjoy and don’t bother with what you don’t.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    hi there. i sort of understand what you are saying. it can be a bit stressful for me to be exposed my private area to others and like my home if i have visitors coming i would like to make sure its clean, tidy and smell nice. its similar like that lolit can be an emotional stress when you let someone get close to see the private area and not sure about their reaction. it can be a very special place you dont want to be easily shown and you might need to take a bit of preparation to convince yourself to let someone to see this special area. dont worry about too much is the key, which is my suggestion. although ive never been eaten by women. I would say if i have the chance to play with other women I would definitely be gentle and put effort to make her feel pleasant as I am a woman myself I know what would make me feel nice and how nice it can be when you have your pussy eaten nicely.Just a little opinion of mine. everyone is different :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Everything is normal. Everyone is different. Enjoy other types of play instead.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The ex used to hate oral. Receiving or giving. Even states it on here profile nowadays. Lol You're good. Sleep easy

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    We all like different things, it doesn't make us odd, just human. The fact that you're comfortable enough to be on here probably says something about you being open minded about your sexuality. Don't beat your self up about it, think of it more as a preference. You never know, it might be something you get comfortable with in the long term. The things i enjoy now are definitely different to twenty years ago. Some will always see it as a negative, just see it as an opportunity to grow.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    6 years ago

    I reckon you should Just go with what feels right. It’s better not to have a sex plan and follow your lustful intuition. If you’re uncomfortable, say something, or just shift positions. Laying back thinking to yourself “oh heck no.... “ just isn’t what you signed up for.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    And some don't like eating pussy. You don't have conform to others ideals. That's why the 21st century is so good. We can be who we are.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    Well said Annie, it'sa simple motto we should all try and live by on here! We're all part of fringe minority whether we like it or not... yet we struggle to except differences amongst us

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    6 years ago

    Part of sex should be feeling comfortable and at ease. Do whatever makes you feel good

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I am very sensitive around my pussy, so sometimes my partner has to tease me with his fingers for quite awhile, before I can let him down there. It is so ticklish for me, and is hard to let him go for it lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I adore eating pussy. It's the best. If she has a problem, you'll know pretty fast & it's just what it is, no shame. But if she's not into it, then I can't be. I think it's a bugger when there's mismatched desire. I would hope my SO would want to find out if she could like it, or let me eat out or get some home delivery sometimes.

  • Zarabyfar

    Zarabyfar

    6 years ago

    @thewiseman Attitudes like yours are the reason women have hang ups. Do you like a baseball up your butt? No? See a therapist.... FFS

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    6 years ago

    I think it’s ok not to like something sexually . We all have positions , scenarios etc we don’t like . Please don’t beat yourself up about it . Sexual experiences are meant to be pleasurable not an experience fraught with anxiety and self doubt . Go with the flow and be true to yourself . Yes it’s about pleasing other people but not at the expense of causing you angst over not wanting to do something . No one ever needs to makes excuses for wanting or not wanting to do something .

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    6 years ago

    Wiseman You should know better !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    My ex used to hate it for the exact same reasons. It is not unusual at all. We all have our likes and dislikes. Focus on the things that you like.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I always feel so privileged when a women exposes herself to me and allows me to give her oral pleasure. It's your body do what makes you feel comfortable.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    When it comes to pussies, vulvas, cunts, whatever you like, it shouldn’t be is this normal but do I want this to change. Ain’t nobody going near my mouth I don’t want, why should they down under!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    Thenwiseman.... An oxymoron for sure

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    and the wiseman had been escorted from the building... so glad the mods aren't putting up with that sort of crap and people can post without being ridiculed

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    6 years ago

    Must have been taken down? Can't see wiseman's post but out must have been horrible.. OP me too! I seriously have always felt exposed and very vulnerable during oral sex with a man. For some unknown reason, with a female I can relax. Mr Jasindy has been pretty much the only male partner ever where we have regular cunnilingis. And he had to really get my trust up to get to the point we are at. The only time I used to partly enjoy it, was of I had a few drinks under my belt and I could lose my inhibitions... but most ex partners just kind of figured it wasn't on the menu anyhow 🤣

  • Naughty1

    Naughty1

    6 years ago

    Try you will enjoy

  • Naughty1

    Naughty1

    5 years ago

    My wife don’t like to being licked I’m never licking her pussy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Finally!!! I thought I was the only woman who wasn’t comfortable with this 😆 I find it makes me feel vulnerable and exposed. I can’t relax. But most men see it as a challenge? To change my mind? It’s not about your ego, how would you like it if you said you didn’t like something and I replied that’s because you haven’t tried it with me yet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    To each his own I say..Me personally I tie my own legs to the bed head and love been eaten by my partner...haha...