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I do not claim to speak for all women but.......
March 05 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
We all make broadbrush sweeping assumptions and tend to pidgeonhole people into categories of characters based on our life expereince, but this process is mostly frustrating as it is useless because people flux just when you think you have them pegged. None of us have the humanity of Ghandi. The secret of life is therefore to appreciate the pleasure of being terribly deceived. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
My gripe has always been mens double standards...Iy is in my profile my thoughts on it.. I wish men would stop thinking that they can be here and deserve a decent woman..But we woman don't.... We are more than worthy.....Have a lot of love to give. Huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Sal, Very well said ! I have learnt a lot from my time on RHP... about myself and about men and women. I enjoy the journey it takes me on. I believe I am open to knew experiences and encounters. I strive to never be narrow minded or judgemental. Sometimes I am but then I'm happy to correct my errors when they are pointed out. I believe being aware of our own underlying issues and insecurities assists us identifiy whether an issue is with someone else or with ourself. Wisdom is knowing that you can make mistakes, learn from them and still be happy ! We don't have to get caught up in our own bitterness. Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
And I'm thinking that your observations are pretty spot on. I used to get incensed and respond. More often than not now I shake my head in pity and wonder if the person will ever develop enough insight and self reflection to see that they are contributing to their own unhappiness. We can keep on hoping for a better world.WTG
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love throwing my opinions into the fray!!! I have noticed a lot of guys blaming others for not meeting girls here. I have also noticed the double standards some girls have pointed out in the forums and in private messages. I have seen the dissatisfied women complaining that these guys only want to meet up for one encounter, and then off they scurry to their monitors, like a hookup is something to be ashamed of, or said hotties are only there for a once-only-empty. And I have seen other guys sooking about not being able to entice a woman to take any interest in them whatsoever, when their emails are crass without humour and their profiles are boring, short and uninspiring. I don't know what these dudes are talking about! I have met some wonderful interesting people on here (and I was surprised to find I am making friends with a lot of guys here too), although not in the flesh, but I'm sure that will change, and I'm sure I will boink all of them, regularly, eventually (you know who you are ;)). So I have a few tips for all the sooks. 1. Write an interesting profile! You are a peacock, your words are your feathers, and some of you look like you have been plucked and microwaved. 2. Talk to people! You can't just expect a woman to present her pussy to you on demand. Even the girls who like to be bossed around have to be sure you are Master Material first. We're not cats. She's not on heat. FFS. 3. Humour. I cannot stress how important a gsoh is. Someone who is happy and healthy laughs! And wants you to laugh! That is appealing. Someone who is not happy fucking sooks like a little baby. 4. Innuendo. Hotties love connecting the dots. If you can allude to something without saying it, that piques their interest and shows you have a brain and that they have one too. 5. Respect! FFS have some common decency! I have heard some horror stories from some women I have been talking with, who get these nice flowery messages from guys who do not match their criteria. They send back a polite "thank you but no". Suddenly they are barraged with abusive and hurtful emails from these flowery guys calling them terrible names, simply because they cannot handle rejection. Wow you fucking braniacs. Perhaps you might have approached from another angle, been charming and witty, and won them over with your mind. Instead you react like children in a playground. 6. Equality. These aren't just women (or men), we're all cut from the same cloth. You may have been brought up to think that the opposite sex is beneath you, but just like Hitler, you are deluded. As soon as you put someone beneath you wholesale, you've really put yourself beneath them. Instead, try to picture two particles drawn to each other. They have the same mass but different polarities, and as they close, they orbit each other. Balanced. Equal. Opposite. Contact. BANG. 7. If you're bitter eat some sugar. 8. if you're a sook, eat some cement. Phew!! Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
#3 and Ken dolls made me laugh so much I nearly spat my drink.You are such a funny girl Sal. I wish you didn't go all quiet around me :(
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RHP User
16 years ago
no one on here really cares what anyone else thinks..
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RHP User
16 years ago
... is now my "QOTD" (quote of the day lol)... i shall be randomly utilizing this phrase all day today... let me tell you, it comes in handy where i live :P Salina, my gorgeous little switch, who needs men when we can have each other... again and again and again? ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
you rock!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'randomtip' I love throwing my opinions into the fray!!! I have noticed a lot of guys blaming others for not meeting girls here. I RandomShoosh man... Oh great - now the secrets out!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz Randomtip. Love your work Bro... but I didnt know that your kink was ac/dc! .hehe... I quote lolz.... Quoting 'randomtip' I was surprised to find I am making friends with a lot of guys here too...... and I'm sure I will boink all of them, regularly, eventually (you know who you are ;)). .......
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RHP User
16 years ago
damn...... What the hell would Freud say??? I should have seen that coming. Fussy if you are ever down my way, I'd hook you up with a really nice friend of mine. Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
4) The women that are single (or in a relationship) and on this site are considered to be lacking in morals and standards and not really someone the same men bitching about not meeting women would want to meet anyway.Is it really that bad. I'd love to find a partner that is open to it all and would definately date one off RHP if a decent one came along. That doesn't mean I would date any from RHP, but it's not because they are on here that I wouldn't date them. It would be other reasons of incompatibility. You don't need to be perfect for each other to have great sex but it sure helps if you want a relationship. So of course there are those I would not consider (at first at least) to date, but would consider to make friends sexually or otherwise.
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RHP User
16 years ago
As the male half of a couple I can't agree with you more Sal, I thought men had come a long way but seems some have slipped back to the dark ages. As for #1, well we're smiling over here so maybe the single guys that aren't getting any should look at themselves first, while they are figuring out what they are doing wrong we'll keep all those lovely girls wet and warm for them!
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RHP User
16 years ago
you've got a hot partner and you go and douible dip, its not fair, greedy puppy, (but god damn lucky pupoy)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Who was it that said double dipping was bad, sharing is caring!
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RHP User
16 years ago
so i'll say this instead...good onya random...pretty well encapsulated everything there is... i can understand how a guy feels who isn't getting any...heck i was in that position for 9 years... and while this is a sex and dating site... if ya can't treat a lady with respect...pffffffftttttttt....what ya give is what ya get... women on rhp are no different than women anywhere else... they have feelings...oh?...you knew that...sorry... they like to know what and why you think what you do about them... and they like to be teased, captivated and then pleased... oh?...you knew THAT too!!...well...goody... so...what ya whinging about then... i am amazed by the men who whinge and moan in various threads... and they are given advice on ways to get what they so desperately are seeking... yet they take no notice... great post sal...ya always say good and positive things... jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
You've got it all wrong! Barbie isn't into Action Man or GI Joe! She is into Pinocchio! I heard her the other day sitting on his face screaming "lie, you bastard, LIE!!!" *giggle* Great advice Random! Fantastic post Sal :) S xox
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sal... thanks for posting this. As a single chick, I get questioned all the time about my purpose for being on this site. I'm looking for someone who matches me sexually who likes me for me, and wants a relationship with me. He doesn't have to be typical "ken" that whitehawk always accuses us girls of wantsing, but I do have certain physical traits I like. A senstive heart and manners are two physical things I like on a man. Go into the chatrooms, and any man that asks me for random, one time sex with not strings always get the same response, "what makes you think I'm that type of girl? Did you read my profile?" From there the bloke goes all defensive... "well maybe you should try a relationship site, go to RSVP, This is a sex site, not a place to find love" Why do guys think that just because I'm here, I'm automatically a slut with spread open legs who fucks every single bloke who approaches me? It's the automatic assumption that shits me most. No wonder I go mental and blast the guy with my sarcasm and my intelligence. Shame on blokes for thinking I'm stupid. Yes, I'll admit it, I want love. But I'm not stupid enough to think that every bloke I root is gonna fall madly and hopelessly in love with me. that takes time. Friendship and respect, however, are easily given and don't cost that much.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Frack_Me' Sal... thanks for posting this. From there the bloke goes all defensive... "well maybe you should try a relationship site, go to RSVP, This is a sex site, not a place to find love"and the funny thing is - they probably get neither
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RHP User
16 years ago
So cause I have no bumps n curves...lovely hour glass hips..that does not make me a real woman? ok..... sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
all this talk about double dipping, phwoar *off to enjoy the mental picture show*
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