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I am soooooo disappointed in myself....
July 28 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
it does get down to balance doesnt it. I think as much as most people like to think they are capable, independant beings, embracing our masculine & feminine sides.......we all function on a higher lever when there is someone to provide the external yin to our yang balance in our lives . Either as a soft place to fall, someone to bounce ideas off, even enjoy a heated discussion with or change a stubborn light bulb. I always enjoy your posts....you seem to be incredibly open with your thoughts and feelings, whether you are having a good or bad day. Its really nice to see in a man. Thanks.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Mikle re the kids .. my ex was a hard arse and me the big softy .. between us we did make great parents.. even though we are long divorced our style of parenting was still to do it together and the kids are all the better for it .. yes Intrigued sometimes you just need a man to help with those things that just wont shift for me .. or try as I might I just cannot lift them ... Im defintely an independent woman .. but sometimes it sucks. and dont even get me started on how fabulous they are to have spooning around me or for somewhere to put my cold feet on ... or to be first in the shower and get it nice and warm and and and ....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Intrigued, I like being an independant guy..Have lived on my own now for a while, i always did my own ironing etc..I find your question is a good one..Damm it ! I miss not having a woman to walk with or just have a drink and laugh with..I have had a special friend cook me dinner recently which was great ..I think it is nice just sharing nice times with a nice lady..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Intrigued, I have been single for so long that I had forgotten what it was like to have that closeness with a man - how nice it can be and how good it can make you feel. The togetherness and knowing you are not alone anymore. Someone to just hang out with. I really miss that. Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
know what you mean sassy....missing the everyday good things. and I still cant budge the damn lightbulb...lol Taipan....I have asked missb to give you a nice cuddle at the Sydney drinks night for me....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love this question...but it did make me think of all the things that I am missing and I did feel a bit sad and nostalgic. I have not been in a relationship for 9 and a bit years (through fear of being hurt, so noone else to blame but myself)! I miss what you all miss...the hugs, the talks, the walking on the beach, the love making, the kissing, the touch and feel of a loving man, the spooning, the forking...oh bloody hell...just everything!! I can change a light bulb myself (although the first halogen one I put on incorrectly and it crumbled in my hands lol). I can change my own tyres, I can do heaps of DIY stuff...but still nice to have a man around to do it for you! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i always seem to leave the shop with a pack of camelsand a family bag of violet crumble.gettin used to mccain frozen dinners though.cook us up a feed Intrigued and i'll tackle thathalogen fer ya.ya car need a service?gutters need cleaning?extension need building?dog need desexing???Earl, will work 4 food...........ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
from a packet of Camels and family size pack of Violet Crumble...hmmmmm....lol Earl, trade you a Roast Lamb ( sorry Shawn) with all the trimmings for a halogen fix up the next time you are just popping over to Melbourne ok. Meeka, funloving, all the men and women out there...seems we have our independence but have forfited a lot of our daily intimacies as a result. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worst I think. Nice to see you back mouthwateringmmmm My eyes are getting used to the dim light as well......lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
looks like tin dog fer lunch again.where did i stash those violet crumblesEarl
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'intriguedcurious' from a packet of Camels and family size pack of Violet Crumble...hmmmmm....lol Earl, trade you a Roast Lamb ( sorry Shawn) with all the trimmings for a halogen fix up the next time you are just popping over to Melbourne ok. My eyes are getting used to the dim light as well......lol melbourne???sorry, don't read maps or ask directions.navigation is a seat of the pants thing.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahai got it man.just post offending room over and i'll sort it out.ahahahahahahahahahahaever helpful, Earl
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RHP User
15 years ago
thanks Earl......I will pack up the room and send it over the weekend....as soon as I have cooked you the promised Lamb roast ok. Do you like roast veggies as well?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'intriguedcurious' thanks Earl......I will pack up the room and send it over the weekend....as soon as I have cooked you the promised Lamb roast ok. Do you like roast veggies as well? load em up babyshit, i droolin on the keyboard.....zap, flash. oofs isa brofen somikenososososososososososososossEark
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RHP User
15 years ago
them hallogens are tricky....you need a special thungy and then they just pop out easy as.....ill ask the tradie whem im back home and see what we can arrange.....barter style
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'll admit I do enjoy being single and i'm loving being an independant woman. BUT..... I have found that I personally have 2 strange 'side-effects' of not having a live-in partner . I've noticed that I sometimes catch myself talking to myself (I swear i'm not a weirdo!!) and EVERY SINGLE TIME I go shopping, I buy the jars that only a man can open!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure what you mean by "do something for me"? You mean like cleaning and cooking, blow jobs and such? :p A man needs a maid! Halogen light globes... there's one way to get them out and one way to put them in. Turn that circuit off at the ELCB then facing the bulb it, one side of the tube will have a notch in the lamp cradle.. usually the left hand side..... you push the halogen tube to your right against the spring in the right hand side cradle and then you pull the left hand side of the tube through the notch. To put the new one in.. dont touch the glass with your fingers because the grease will shorten the life of hte tube... use a bit of rag or something to hold it... push the right hand side into the socket compressing the spring and then put the LHS though the notch... wriggle it so that it is securely in place in the socket... turn the circuit back on at the ELCB and test with the switch. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'addickted' I'll admit I do enjoy being single and i'm loving being an independant woman. BUT..... I have found that I personally have 2 strange 'side-effects' of not having a live-in partner . I've noticed that I sometimes catch myself talking to myself (I swear i'm not a weirdo!!) and EVERY SINGLE TIME I go shopping, I buy the jars that only a man can open!!! You don't need a man.... You can buy a ping pong bat and strip the rubber off it.. then you can use the rubber matt to help get additional grip on thd jar lid. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for your helpful tips Stalky.....but I am not having problems with a tube halogen, its a down light, a GU10 to be specific. It has 2 pins with knobs on the end, strange as I usually dont have problems with knobs. It needs to be pushed down and turned a bit.....still has me confounded. I think you just like ping pong bats....even I know you can buy the rubbery stuff nearly anywhere these days....lol The ping pong bat makes a good noise though doesnt it :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'addickted' I'll admit I do enjoy being single and i'm loving being an independant woman. BUT..... I have found that I personally have 2 strange 'side-effects' of not having a live-in partner . I've noticed that I sometimes catch myself talking to myself (I swear i'm not a weirdo!!) and EVERY SINGLE TIME I go shopping, I buy the jars that only a man can open!!! Nothing weird about talking to yourself..It's a problem when you start losing arguments with yourself..I talk to myself plenty. Helps me clear things up outside my head - I just use the excuse imma talkin to the cats if I get caught - tho seriously how interested do u think the cats are in my (lack of) lovelife? lol
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nobatteriesrequi
15 years ago
Hi, Sorry to add the boring technical bits, but the GU10 is the type of pins on the lamp. You just need to get both your thumbs on the lamp face and turn anti-clockwise. It will go quarter turn and fall out. I will do it for you if it helps, NSA, and yes it does help to switch off first
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RHP User
15 years ago
ooooh and feet warming and bum warming and kissing and touching and licking and ..... etc etc etc etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
* both thumbs on lamp face.....done * turn anti-clockwise.....done * quarter turn and fall out........#@!* the rotten little sod is still there...loose, yes, jiggling, yes, falling out, NO! aaagghhh ( I did turn it off first....didnt want to burn my pinkies) If this goes on much longer, I may just take you up on your nsa offer.....
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