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I Just Wanted to Say

December 30 2010

My other thread that was closed, I did not report any abuse to the moderators and I did not request the thread be closed. There was no request from me to delete the posts that have been deleted.I am a huge advocate of free speech and while the posts where offensive the authors had the right to express thier opinions. It is a pity it was closed because the discussion was actually going the way I hoped it would. Lets be honest the age differance question is one of the gems that gets asked from time to time along with penis size, shaving and responding. I think I managed to show that a rehased topic with a bit of a twist can generate new converstaion. Thank to every one who responed and to those whe sent me messages as well. Now I will have to think of a new topic to raise the eye brows :) LC

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ya stay out of the forums for a day...and ya miss all the juicy stuff!Dammit!!!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have to sat that even in America the freedom of speech has it limits. Thought you would not know with some of the tripe you hear coming out of there. There is no doubt some one reported the abusive posts in my thread given other things I have seen the moderators are consistant and will not allow pure attack posts that are nasty. When we post in forums like this we have to accept the rules of the forums and I am happy to do that. I wish they left the thread running though it was heading in a good direction. LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    to enjoy the pleasure for which this site is designed and I miss out on all the good stuff Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'onlythebest50'Should we all try to leave the persons alone and debate the subjects. Pretty much exactly what i did tho I took one snipe that was silly. If it is a good natured attack i will respond. LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just when the discussion was getting interesting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You go live your life for a few days and you miss out on the bloodshed and battle in the arena... Perhaps I should move closer to the Colosseum.... That would be cool to do in May-I could go to Ritual in Rome...well it is at the Alien Club Let me guess what happened here....the Algonquin round table alumni had another intense philosophical discussion that quickly degenerated into a simian food or fool fight? I blame the slow drink service... Good things most of the shirts were already off then.... Easier to hose off the mess. Like tv-it's always the same s*** from the same producers just a different channel. Happy New Year-to all the people that deserve a much better 2011... 5am and I've still not been to sleep Hope that everyone had as good a night as me :) 2011 is already better than 2010 It's good to be thrown to the fire-you learn how vital, alive and strong you really are... There's always archery, dancing and music to fill in the between time.... All that witchy candle stuff really works...or maybe it's just my powers that are just increasing? I love white clothes now...give me more of that "pure" energy. NymphetamineDrm ALL THE LOVERS DanceIt's all I wanna doSo won't youDanceI'm standing here with youWhy won't you moveI'll get inside your grooveCuz I'm on fire fire fire fireIt hurtsWhen you get too closeBut baby it hurtsIf love is really goodYou just want moreEven if it throws you to the fire fire fire fireAll the loversThat have gone beforeThey don't compare to youDon't be runningJust give me a little bit moreThey don't compareAll the loversFeelCan't you see there's so much here to feelDeep inside in your heartYou know I'm realCan't you see that this is really higher higher higher higherBreatheI know you find it hardBut baby breatheLying next to meIts all you needAnd i'll take you thereI'll take you higher higher higher higherAll the loversThat have gone beforeThey don't compare to youDon't be runningJust give me a little bit moreThey don't compareAll the loversDanceIt's all I wanna doSo won't you danceI'm standing here with youWhy won't you moveEven if it throws you to the fire fire fireAll the loversThat have gone beforeThey don't compare to youDon't be runningJust give me a little bit moreThey don't compareAll the lovers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    was possibly the off forum attacks as well... they are getting out of hand. we are tired of the 'hate mail'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    there are those on the forums who complain about being attacked personally who are actually the worst at this themselves. and some who send messages on the side to posters so the rest of the forum doesn't see it. we are constantly dragged down and insulted by a few in particular and have no issue with sending a complaint to the moderators (always cut and paste the offending piece) we also forward the messages sent to us off forum as we find it offensive that people can say one thing in public and another in private. there are truly some nasty pieces of work active in the forums (some very prolific posters) stating an opinion is one thing, but being openly insulted as a result is something hateful and unreasonable, the forums end up closed because of the content, nothing else. its a shame that adults behave like children when they disagree.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well It is a real shame yet another frum had to be cleaned up and again it was a comment that was directed at me that was deleted along with others as well. | | mikeandshel had comments delted as well and for the life of me I can not figure out why their were deleted they basically said nothing that was offensive... | | The comment to me I didn't find offensive it was snide but I didn't care and I didn't report it either (tho I know who did xox to you for that) The funny thing is the post that have not gone... | | I will never figure out some things | | LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    truly...I think it all depends on who you are.I had a forum topic up a while ago now that got VERY nasty towards me.I reported my own posts...others reported the whole topic...but it wasnt until another person actually stood up for methat the whole thing got deleted.I have also had other posts deleted that I was in no way being horrible...but someone that doesnt like me took offense to.meh.JMO....BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In Fairness to RHP they expressly say we agree to abide by the terms of use: | Refrain from behaving in a manner, which a reasonable user, registered user and/or member of RedHotPie would consider to be offensive, and not in the spirit of the site. | We give express permission for RHP to delete any content that breaches the terms of use...There are other terms but this is the critical one. | LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Long ago I learnt that this forum is owned by a corporation whose interest is vested in it's success. If your posts are deleted it is because the mods have decided it's bad for business. As for freedom of speech... this is not America. In Australia there is no Bill of Rights. There is no apparent constitutional right to say whatever you think. Quite the contrary. If you vilify somebody then almost certainly your post will eventually be removed whether reported or not. That's just my opinion based on my experience of this forum. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    there is no forum here. its abusive and sometimes nasty. there are a bout a half dozen truly offensive individuals who spoil it for all. we know who they are. the moderators know who they are. they are all honey and sugar to their favorites, but nasty and mean spirited to those they disagree with. we have copped it over and over, from the same people every time. we now expect our posts to be attacked, and pay these people no heed..................after all, we are adults here, not children...and we are all judged by our peers......

  • RHP_Editor

    RHP_Editor

    15 years ago

    Now, to clarify a few things although I am fairly sure we have a lot of information in our HELP FAQ area on RHP about what we (the mods) do or don't do with forum posts. In short, what we don't allow is threads to continue if they do nothing but attract negative comments and sentiments which can potentially affect the wider RHP community (and, as suggested by Stalky, how our website is perceived - after all, we want people to participate, not think they are going to get shot down if they throw their two cents in). Sometimes if the thread itself is not the issue, we’ll just remove posts that are reported to us as offensive. However, if we keep seeing the same sort of posts appear in spite of removals, bans and warnings, we’ll close threads. Moderating the forum is just one job RHP staff do during the day and we sadly don’t always have the time to work out if a particular comment was just intended to be slightly sarcastic or an all out attack on someone. It’s often simply easier to remove posts or threads to ensure things remain civil in Forums.We have enjoyed many threads posted by well-intentioned people and regret that sometimes there are users who take things out of context or deliberately use it for their own agendas. In such cases, we can only encourage those who have posted otherwise successful threads to give it some time before re-posting the thread (perhaps worded differently if previous attempts provoked others into posting negatively).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'RHP_Editor'Now, to clarify a few things although I am fairly sure we have a lot of information in our HELP FAQ area on RHP about what we (the mods) do or don't do with forum posts. In short, what we don't allow is threads to continue if they do nothing but attract negative comments and sentiments which can potentially affect the wider RHP community (and, as suggested by Stalky, how our website is perceived - after all, we want people to participate, not think they are going to get shot down if they throw their two cents in). Sometimes if the thread itself is not the issue, we’ll just remove posts that are reported to us as offensive. However, if we keep seeing the same sort of posts appear in spite of removals, bans and warnings, we’ll close threads. Moderating the forum is just one job RHP staff do during the day and we sadly don’t always have the time to work out if a particular comment was just intended to be slightly sarcastic or an all out attack on someone. It’s often simply easier to remove posts or threads to ensure things remain civil in Forums.We have enjoyed many threads posted by well-intentioned people and regret that sometimes there are users who take things out of context or deliberately use it for their own agendas. In such cases, we can only encourage those who have posted otherwise successful threads to give it some time before re-posting the thread (perhaps worded differently if previous attempts provoked others into posting negatively). Hi Mods, I applaude the actions you take I really do...I do wish on occasions you might contact the person at whom the "attack" is directed and ask if they consider it to breach the rules as clearly specified in the terms of use conditions. To me one was borederline, i didn't like what he said, the other was trivial. I had contacted the poster and sorted it out. | That being said you do a great job to ensure we all aenjoy our RHP experiance well done !! | Mike

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    can i please please pretty please have instant posting please please...im begging you please thank you roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You're a trouble maker for sure... not to mention a total suck up! hehe.It's nice to see the editors come out every now and again. btw. Thankyou!Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    the ONLY thing im good at is sucking and dont you forget it roxxy