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How to spot a confident man

April 07 2013

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HOW TO SPOT A CONFIDENT MAN:Insecure men taunt and shameConfident men lift others to greatnessInsecure men peacock... Confident men point out greatness in othersInsecure men argueConfident men listen Insecure men rage or run awayConfident men are at their most magnificent when things are at their most difficult. Insecure men use women or are timid in bedThe confident man ravishes his woman while lifting her soul to the heavens. Graham R White

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I like it Reminds me of a sexy form of 'The man in the Glass'- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think most men aren't born confident so what's missing is that a confident man can learn to improve Regards R

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Confidence has to be the sexiest trait.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    lil bit angelic.... I love you for your quote and aspire to its noble idealsPS: Also beware of men that don't know the difference between arrogance and confidence

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And arent we both lucky that we both have had these men in our lives............even if they only stayed a while....:)..               hugs...xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Simple things like the way he sits straight up at the dinner table or walks with his head up and big shoulders back. One who doesn't ask but takes me when it comes to sex.yum.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I would also add that confidence is a very sexy attribute in a woman.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    He is the guy that gets up out of bed and then and leaves, ten seconds after he has walked in the door. He will blow on you and not give you what you need and will as he is leaving say. “That was good toots, how about we do it again some time.” The confident man will say he is six foot on RHP and turn up short of a clue and a few inches. He will look you in the eye and say   "the shower was to hot and I shrunk this morning." He will say his dick is big and look you in the eye and say “The water at the beach was cold this morning and it shrunk” The confident man will say he can please you and your straight girlfriend, get you both into bed and ask you to lick each other out. The confident male will ask to see you and two of your girlfriends The confident male will say he will go down on you for hours but makes sure you go first,he will then say “I have to go, your turn next time”. The confident male will turn up to your door step and when you open the door he is ripping the wrapper of a condom. The confident male will turn up in his work clothes right after work, and unzip his pants and get you to suck him and leave before you get up of your knees again.     The confident male will fart in bed the first time you have sex. The confident male is the most sexy best Ninja fucks you will ever have

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  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Sometimes we find it hard to distinguish between aggrogance n confidence! But once arrogance is noticed then any attractiveness to that man is squashed! But a confident man is very very attractive n sexy! This confident man is mature, a gentleman, a man who is not afraid to show his feelings. A man who knows what he wants n goes about it in a good way. A confident man will tell his partner how much he loves her n how beautiful she is - even when she doesn't feel it! A confident man knows when to just hold you when you are down n not belittle you for having bad days.... A confident man will not follow his mates but have a mind of his own! A confident man will show his partner off n put her on the top of his list.... I'm married to a confident man xxxx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    but we all can't be confident all of the time.I blame the Cinderella myth of the oh so confident Prince Charming,Mr.D'Arcy,Christian Grey and all the other fictional archtypes in between. Men expect women will be porn stars.women expect men will be the tall,strong silent type... sweep us of our feet....phttt

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Put down and belittle others. Who feel more important and superior by pointing out weakness in others. Who are what my mother has always described as 'wet dishrags'. And ... who run away when the going gets tough. So this little poem really spoke to me :) I'm glad some of you like it.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't think anyone expects that all the time. Or at least I certainly don't. But I do think we all know what confidence looks like, and many people are attracted to that. What I liked about the poem is that it focused on decent, human, kind characteristics. As well as knowing how to ravish a woman ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A confident man does not care if he is considered confidant.He understands his own insecurities and actively works to understand and resolve them.He improves with age.He happily and thoughtfully points out the elephant in any room.He can be an arrogant dick, and a selfless angel at the same time.Never does he need to win, boast, or talk him self up.He encourages others to be confident.He lives by his own rules.Oh dear I wish I was him, but then do I really give a shit.I will stick to confident when I am and insecure when i am not.

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    this is wonderful, thank you for sharing OP, the timing is uncanny and I would dearly love to be with a confident man.I think I need to send this to a particular man in my lifeOh btw, you don't happen to know where I can order one do you?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't think we can change men if they don't already 'have it'. They can change themselves if they want to, but they have to want to. One or two men on here seem to have made choices in the past about what kind of man they want to be, and that's sexy in itself. A man I know did a similar thing when he was quite young - and his certainly about who he was and how he wanted to 'be' in the world was divine. I did try to order one ... currently out of stock ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    MissPoppins I think if you have to order him he lacks confidence!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'lovman8' MissPoppins I think if you have to order him he lacks confidence! lol. Friday night was an absolute shocker for me.... The basic principles outlined so eloquently above.... some times the key to the cupboard gets lost..... Lucky for me I was rescued by two damsels....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I don't think we can change men if they don't already 'have it'. They can change themselves if they want to, but they have to want to. One or two men on here seem to have made choices in the past about what kind of man they want to be, and that's sexy in itself. A man I know did a similar thing when he was quite young - and his certainly about who he was and how he wanted to 'be' in the world was divine. I did try to order one ... currently out of stock ;)It reminds me of:“Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.” ― Albert EinsteinI find though, that the more I change and evolve, my wants, desires and character traits in a man also change - which is certainly tricky in a relationship....do-able, just tricky.

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