How to lead into another meeting after the first

January 17 2023

We have been chatting and had fun with a couple we call friends now for around 6months. We had fun on our third meeting with them as we are new to swinging they experienced we let them take the lead . So we had fun and since that night we have only chatted and had any dinner date but nothing has been brought up about having another play date . So how could we approach the topic to see if they only want us as friends now or are still interested in playing aswell?

Comments

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    a year ago

    Hi guys, we love hanging out with you, and want to continue doing that regardless. We also loved that night we played, so if you'd like to play again any time... just let us know. If not, all good :)

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    a year ago

    The logical thing to do is ask them ? Seems to me if nothing happened since the first time , no one ' both you guys and the other couple show any interest.. If l were you ' ld move on to greener pastures.. But thats me...

  • Tyler_9

    Tyler_9

    a year ago

    “You know, I just want to say we were chatting last night about the time we all played together, and reminiscing about how much fun we had.”

    Then take it from there.

    Or just straight up ask them.

  • evo67

    evo67

    a year ago

    Just ask

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    a year ago

    Just use your words and ask point blank if they want to play again. You've already played and all adults .. it's not as cringey a question it sounds when you've already been there and are, as you say.... Friends.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    a year ago

    Just don't be offended if they don't wish to play again. That's their choice👍

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    a year ago

    It’s great to meet likeminded people to socialise with . You are friends , so however you guys normally communicate be it SMS , phone call , kik etc just send a message asking if they would be interested in playing once again . I’d probably add that you won’t take offence if it’s a no thank you . Some only play with others once and move on ? We are all different . Goodluck . Ax

  • newyboy70

    newyboy70

    a year ago

    Hey Guys, up for round 2?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    a year ago

    New and them taking the lead, still up for dinner as friends, I could be just them guys getting some feed back that all is good, we’ll enjoyed you are both great and we would really enjoy playing up anytime sooner better, things might fire up under the table all said and done fixing at the bungs and in good care friends being friends
    Have you guys expressed the enjoyment obviously you both have been reminiscing so sharing the highlights and compliments more enjoyable than awkward asking if still interested, no not fun, make some fun and questions can be tossed around in laughter and flirty memories amusing intriguing unfurnished works in progress and get past this idea you are maybe lesser than you are hurdle. Be the best in you and that’s all you can promise and count on with pride and together in the same page bouncing off each other a team horny collected appreciative and it’s all true yeah… lovebirds hot for sharing some love. They would have just found a light let down and avoided dinner otherwise and moved on, but no giving some space and how you doin perhaps more patient , patience is a virtue.

    Whatever even if things don’t seem so well, still nothing changes you hot horny lovebirds at your best and that’s how you roll together sharing something special and truely awesome energy in love with compersion the most powerful emotions over all.
    All our love sent already

    Mado Tara xx

  • coastcouple2259

    coastcouple2259

    a year ago

    Well guys just give you all an update : we touched base to see if they wanted to play again.
    There response is below ;

    Hi lovely, we really love your company and would love to continue our friendship however just not keen for intimate fun, sorry but want to be honest with you guys, we really love you both and don't want our friendship to end outside the bedroom ❤️

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    9 months ago

    If it bothers you so much perhaps asking for specifics why. Might be something you can work on or change. Sounds like you might need feed back before you can confidently move on...or risk having the same result.