M38
How to go down on a woman?
September 30 2023
To be clear, I'm not one of them, in fact, I might be really bad at it. I'm the first one to admit that I should spend more time down there. Recently my wife is increasingly asking for it, and I'm happy to oblige.
Here I ask for your help then (and please be specific), can you please share THREE must do's when going down on a woman?
Thank you,
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RHP User
7 months ago
Make sure you’re enjoying it first and foremost. They’ll sense if you’re not or being mechanical trying to please.
hisDarkSecret
7 months ago
She needs to know you love it and will enjoy it so she isn’t feeling anxious or insecure so let her know how much you want it beforehand. Stimulate her mind.
Start by teasing her before you taste her. Breathe hot air on her pussy, kiss softly on her inner thigh and slowly get closer with lips still pursed. When she’s at breaking point and moving her hips, gently glide your tongue slowly over her, from the base up, be very light at first on her clit when you reach it. Tease it. Warm her up.
Maintain a rhythm that allows her to feel the sensations fully across her pussy before you break contact and start again. Long slow lick, flat tongue. Half-way licks. Still tongue - encompassing all of her. Vary it up. Alternate vertical strokes of the tongue with horizontal strokes. Appreciate her and focus mainly on her inner labia at the start. When she’s ready and can handle more sensation, press your tongue against her clit. As she gets more aroused, apply more pressure and intensity, then introduce suction as if you were eating a mango. Slowly introduce fingers with the same mindset. Come hither motion, and use the other hand to put a little bit of pressure on her pubic region, push up a little to tighten everything so you can hit more. Put a pillow under her so you can get a better angle too which helps a lot or you can support her with your hand.
You need to understand her body and her reactions so it will take practice. There's no need to rush anything. Be very observant of her body language during different levels of arousal so you know what she needs at any given time. When she is close to orgasm, hold her in place so she doesn’t move too much and make sure her legs aren’t spread too far apart since it will be harder for her to climax in that position. Keep them narrow, wrap your hands around her if you have to. Be persistent and consistent with rhythm and pressure, tongue and finger movement and she should reach orgasm!
FeistyFatty
7 months ago
Ask your wife. We're all different.
Obi1kenietzsche
7 months ago
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Step 1: Wash area with strong jet of water from a garden hose.
Step 2: Trim back area with garden shears.
Step 3: Apply a good liberal dose of garlic spray.
Oh, hang on, that’s how to get rid of Aphids… (for the sake of your marriage please disregard!).
MsSuperFoxy
7 months ago
3 must do's
1. Communicate
2. Fuck her brains out prior
3. Clean up afterwards.
Ms Foxy
EarthQueen
7 months ago
Just one tip, if she appears she is into it and is giving signs she might cum don't change what your are doing and keep the rhythm. Don't take that as a cue to go faster or harder. Thats just me though.
hypoxia88
7 months ago
Buy yourself a subscription to OMGYes.
Panning4Gold
6 months ago
I think possibly the single biggest tip I have come to believe blokes get wrong when goin down, and probably everything else in general except for actual fucking..
and that is to use a light and gentle touch, with your fingers, your tongue, your lips etc etc..
when hittin the clit, just be mindful of how much pressure your using, that’s all!
NEVER had a chick not be enthusiastic about having me go down on them, and honestly, I’m pretty confident that would have to be the one, single major difference there would realistically be between myself and any other bloke that actually really wants to do a good job.. 🤷♂️
MUZ76
6 months ago
With pleasure, and purpose.
Mischeviouslad
6 months ago
Heres an idea.
PAY ATTENTION to her responses, not what you want them to be.
Focus on what she responds toRHP User
6 months ago
I use my tongue and I fine the spots and the way she moans a sign that she likes it and that I keep going adding new things and listening to her and feel the way she moves. Practice and you have to want to eat her out otherwise it just not the same
RHP User
6 months ago
Hands down my hubby eats me out how it should be done..every single damn time my legs are trembling/shaking. Hips are bucking from the intensity of his suck..lick and nibble.
No one else has ever come close to giving me the just dessert i deserve..except hubby! I guess he understands my body/pussy better than anyone else.
If my legs ain't shaking/trembling then the guy has a different technique or not trying hard enough.
Orangutan
6 months ago
It can be bit stressful and becomes a vicious cycle for a man, if he is worried about not being able to fulfil her expectations.
I know few people who or their partners have started avoiding sex, due to same reason.
Its difficult to enjoy when person is stressed, and going down on a women start feeling like a duty .
I suggest to just make urself stronger mentally and physically. Remember its only one life and no point of wasting time. Sex is our happy place and must feel like going on a picnic. Find a caring GP or specialist .
There are medicines and therapies available. But these work only once u know how . who can explain how body and brain work.
U can increase ur time by > 10 time with correct treatment. Also Dont waste money on fake treatments.RHP User
6 months ago
I actually don't enjoy it at all. I tell guys that but it still happens. Shows who they are thinking if😡
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