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How to effectively use a flogger.... like a pro.

March 14 2011

I'm doing myself a favour here. Every now and again I find myself somewhere... where someone has a flogger... at home, I usually use a wooden spoon on myself... this is supposed to keep me from thinking naughty things about the 18-25 year olds that seem to hang out around the swimming pool with next to nothing on.. all drunk and vulnerable... A bit of self discipline sometimes needs a boost you know what I'm saying.. so I stand in my kitchen wacking my own arse as they walk on passed... you can see Im not good at self control... but its the best I can come up with short of giving them all a lick on their way by.So Floggers... every now and again people decide that they have an uncontrollable desire to hit me up with a flogger... and I can tell you that I don't really mind that at all... :p ... but I've noticed that some people are really very good at it.... they'll use a selection of flogging devices.... warm up a spot with lots of little whips so that when they do actually cut loose with the welt makers my bits are prepared for it.... and so is my mind.... body warmed and exhilerated.... excitement overloaded, ready for a good rogering. Nothing remaining on completion that a warm spa won't fix.Others, though..... well they're like a kid in a candy store.... random and uncontrolled.... and have totally unco and inaccurate marksmanship, I might add... so that wack on the inner thigh ends up being a wild one to the testicles.... and you have welts raised on totally unexpecting body parts...... like when you're learning to crack a whip and catch the back of your ear. Ouch. Fuck that!So floggers... people who consider themselves to be "good" at it.... and people who take this playful stuff seriously.... tell me.... what advice do you have for the inexperienced who randomly decide to take to their lover with something a little harsher than fingernails to the back? HugsS

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Stalky , I say , stalky ....give it to me one more time..hit me with your best shot...love and other bruises ..

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Jeez I said I was sorry!! So sometimes I get a little carried away. LOL. What do I have to do to make up for it??? Do I have to go on bended knee? Kisses Meeks

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    talking about the floggers the cheer squads used to take to the footy?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Jeez I said I was sorry!! So sometimes I get a little carried away. LOL. What do I have to do to make up for it??? Do I have to go on bended knee? Kisses Meeks I'm not sure exactly what you are confessing to Meeks but for sure... bended knee is all good! hehe. Let me guess... you consider yourself to be a random and uncontrolled flogger? Well, me too... this post is for us, bebe!HugsS

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Seeing as it's part of my job to crack a bit of leather or suede stripping over soft bare skin I have to be good at it. As you have found Stalky, there is a fine art to flogging and caning that no amount of amateur enthusiasm can match. The pleasure of a good flogging can't be beaten (pun intended). So to that end and your end Stalky, here are a few suggestions for the beginners.1. Don't start with a human. Try a pillow or punching bag until you get the feel of the flogger.2. Start softly when you move on to the human. You want to leave a warm tingling feeling.3. Don't hit the kidney area or go too high on the butt. It's not erotic and can damage the kidneys.4. If using a cane always try it on your own hand first. All canes behave differently.But the most important thing to remember is to WATCH THE WRAP! When a flogger hits a body it conforms to the shape of whatever part you are hitting. It is so easy to flog across a back and have the ends wrap around and hit the soft spot underneath the armpit or go too high and you get it on the face and back of the neck. As Stalky pointed out, a crack to the inner thighs can put the testicles out of action. Stick to the easy parts like the back and butt. It takes a lot of hard work and practice to be good at it.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    u seem quite practiced and adept in ur use of a flogger stalky, kudos for that, but what had me thinking, "this guy is a sexual virtuoso", was ur use of the 'handle'. truely inspired. dont worry meeka, his complaints are only half serious, but his smiles were 100% for real. correct me if i'm wrong.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes - we are just joking theone - I am sure Stalky can handle a lot more than anything I could ever dish out.xxMeeksPS you are aware other people can read this right?? hehehehehehehe.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Mistress T . I am on my way Maam...please please please I have been a VERY good girl and should be spoiled.. . kisses Focus . PS my only advice is remember all implements act differently and feel differently....the weight and length can affect how it feels and is used...try not to go all out with an unfamiliar implement you may cause more harm than good

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Shall I bend you in half over the spanking pony or make you kneel across the spanking bench? You can't have the cross as I am saving that for Stalky.Which cane to use first? The plastic? The rubber? Decisions, decisions!

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Can I have the spanking bench??? Oh and bamboo????? . Kisses Focus

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    forgot that there is still room for discretion, even after all the blood vessels in ones eyeballs are ruptured, and one is walking around like a cowboy.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    nothing better that a flogger right across a freshly shave pussy or across the boobs...mmmmmm arse up and flogged down the crack towards the pussy mmmmmm off to play i go mmmmm roxxy

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    What about a riding crop? Or a paddle? Wooden spoon maybe?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I will be back to talk about this oh dear .............. OH hang on GAZ your not offering yourself up are you .....just want to know the detail .......:-( For an armpit ? Friday is hellfire this week ! Brae .......

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Brae - I definitely think Stalkers is offering himself for a demonstration so that all the uncontrolled floggers out there can see how it is really done. May reserve front row seats please. xxMeeks

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh lordy lord no.... only the hardened bdsm participants get themselves strapped to the rack at Hellfire.... I've seen them doing it and it makes me wince! I'm a recreational recipient at best.. hehe.. I really only go to check out the costumes, armpits and of course for the dancing tassles.... but not sure if I will make it this month... I've got visitors this weekend. :(HugsS. Quoting 'looking2try3' OH hang on GAZ your not offering yourself up are you .....just want to know the detail .......:-( For an armpit ? Friday is hellfire this week ! Brae ....... Quoting 'Meeka100' Brae - I definitely think Stalkers is offering himself for a demonstration so that all the uncontrolled floggers out there can see how it is really done.

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' u seem quite practiced and adept in ur use of a flogger stalky, kudos for that, but what had me thinking, "this guy is a sexual virtuoso", was ur use of the 'handle'. truely inspired. dont worry meeka, his complaints are only half serious, but his smiles were 100% for real. correct me if i'm wrong. You guys are just teasing me now. :p I mean to say.... who buys a flogger with a handle shaped like that anyway? hehe.HugsS

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My mother.... > She broke half a fucking rainforest on my arse with her wooden spoons when I was younger lol....She is a bloody expert! xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' My mother.... > She broke half a fucking rainforest on my arse with her wooden spoons when I was younger lol....She is a bloody expert! xFunlovingx lolz.... The Sisters of Mercy were also pretty adept at using the wooden spoon I have to tell you. My mum used to use a fluffy slipper.... hilarious !HugsGAzza

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' My mother.... > She broke half a fucking rainforest on my arse with her wooden spoons when I was younger lol....She is a bloody expert! xFunlovingx lolz.... The Sisters of Mercy were also pretty adept at using the wooden spoon I have to tell you. My mum used to use a fluffy slipper.... hilarious !HugsGAzza You are lucky the teachers and nuns back in my day used either the yard ruler (you know the ones...thick bastards) and also the priests loved using their belts!! Just once I wanted them to take their strap off and for their pants to fall down hahahahaha! But Goddamit....never bloody happened! (Well not in person anyway...but in my imagination they always fell off) hehehe!! xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' My mother.... > She broke half a fucking rainforest on my arse with her wooden spoons when I was younger lol....She is a bloody expert! xFunlovingx Brings back a memory of a conversation my mother and I had over Christmas...she was very disappointed that when she slapped me hard recently (for being cheeky if I recall) I didint even flinch - refer to my cane comment earlier - she was disgusted with the gentlemn who has been helping me explore this side of my perosnality because a good slapping didnt worry me anymore - and proceeded to tell him just that...lol...poor woman...oh and if I remember correctly she went through a few wooden spoons when we were younger too but not on me of course . Kisses Focus

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    u can use it as a flogger, a dildo, or u can shove it up ur ass and run around slapping ur own rump and singing, "i'm a horsey, i'm a horsey."

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' forgot that there is still room for discretion, even after all the blood vessels in ones eyeballs are ruptured, and one is walking around like a cowboy. Quoting 'theone1983' .....or u can shove it up ur ass and run around slapping ur own rump and singing, "i'm a horsey, i'm a horsey."See now the truth comes out theone.....now you be careful with that handle we wouldn't want you to hurt yourself. I suggest you decide on a safe word so you know when to stop. Maybe Hi-ho sliver

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' u can use it as a flogger, a dildo, or u can shove it up ur ass and run around slapping ur own rump and singing, "i'm a horsey, i'm a horsey." hahahaha! The visuals are killing me... of course, I could never get away with it... but you stallion you.. .. hehe. HugsStalky

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    might be a bit hard to talk once the bridle goes on, with a ball gag for a bit. at least noone will hear the yelps when the rider is digging in the spurs. maybe holding up a sign that says, " i need a doctor, kimo subby." would be more effective. still need a volunteer to put on the mask and cry, "hi ho slippery".

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