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How old is too old!!!
March 31 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Howdy sxc! Man! Im glad I don't mess around in the chatrooms! I thought forum got nasty but wow....sin city sounds much worse! The age debate...pfft! You guys hardly qualify....both consenting adults. Sexual predators coercing young girls into their lair or vice versa...whole different story...Where any person employs manipulation and exploitation as a means of securing a relationship and or where the power differential is the only source of procuring a so called relationship...thats when things get nasty!! Sticks and stones sxc...the dude calling you names is the one with the problem...
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RHP User
16 years ago
very true.. i agree there but some people arent that smart and assume any male over a certain age is a dirty old man... in some places i agree i dont have a daddy fetish so over a certain age creeps me out lmfao but its a shame men are targetted mainly from tv.. they make older men sound like sugar daddys and creepy old men who are rich whereas most women these days arent in it for money or looks even its just the fact they are better in bed and can hold a better conversation then hold on im playing xbox im nearly finished or something stupid lmfao
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi scx...i agree with lippy...it's other person, problem not yours.I wouldn't let it get under your skin..and that's the problem, some people tend to take things the wrong way...lolxoxoheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
personally not my cup of tea.would freak me out abit dating a woman younger than the oldestbut thats my problem. live and let live.Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
its not bugging me what the guy said i just wanted to get other peoples ideas on the age gap issue.. some like it others dont which im completely ok with the name calling is not ok tho lmfao yes that idiot had a problem & hes been reported and will hopefully be dealt with :) just made the post wanting other peoples views on older men with younger women lol :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have a simple rule... nobody the same age or younger than my eldest adult son and then add 5 years... otherwise .. it's jsut a bit too creepy. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
As long as u are happy Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Howdy sxc! Man! Im glad I don't mess around in the chatrooms! I thought forum got nasty but wow....sin city sounds much worse! The age debate...pfft! You guys hardly qualify....both consenting adults. Sexual predators coercing young girls into their lair or vice versa...whole different story...Where any person employs manipulation and exploitation as a means of securing a relationship and or where the power differential is the only source of procuring a so called relationship...thats when things get nasty!! Sticks and stones sxc...the dude calling you names is the one with the problem...
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platinumblonde69
16 years ago
Kinda funny because Ive known you guys for awhile and I never even looked at ages...To me, you guys obviously are in a loving relationship and I never even knew there was such an age gap....In some circumstances though, the younger/older thing whether it be male or females is freaky....I mean, older guys here perving on younger girls doesnt do much for me at all, nor does the older woman being asked to meet a younger guy because of their "experience". Genuine feelings/lust/attraction for a relationship I dont have an issue with....the sleaze factor...meaning...I might hit on the young girls cause they are young and inexperienced....does....as does the guys thinking...I wanna be with an older woman cause I wanna learn things...Too fake for me...sorry...But....in ending my post...I must say you guys come across very happy and hope it continues...xoxox
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol plats also we used to have single profiles so our ages werent next to each other haha but very true i know neither of us seen age & went oo i want u lmfao ppl who hunt older/younger people are strange unless its a fetish but fetishes are weird haha but each to their own as long as ya happy who cares :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi all --- its the chunk here this time ... just wanted to say thanks for the support everyone has given from sxclil's post .. at the end of day (to paraphrase you lot) - we're both consenting adults and WE are the ones in the relationship not anyone else.i respect that people have their opinions about ages and everything --- which is all good ... it was just funny how , because sxclil shut the guy down in chat , that he decided to lash out at me .... all this from some 'mature' 27 yr old lolxxxxxxx to everyone and may your relationships all be happy and enjoyable (as we have found, and continue to find ours to be)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi sxc, My niece is 22 now, her partner is in his late thirties. They met when she was just 18. I must admit I was nervous for her until I met him and realised that it is a match made in heaven. My sister and her husband think that Darren is great (even though he is only a few years younger than they). You would think on a site like RHP the members could put aside their preconceptions of what is right and wrong within someone else's life. We are all here for varying reasons, but we are here and it is a site where swingers and people looking for instant gratification congregate. Ffs this guy was perving, and thought he had a right to judge! Sxc, I wish on you the happiness my niece so obviously has been blessed with. xxILTS
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good friends of ours... there is a 17 year age gap... but they are so suited for each other. I reckon that guy that made the comment was just jealous that is all.As long as both consenting adults, the age of a person is just a number. If you are both on the same wave length for everything that you want in life... enjoy it.if the age was the other way around... he was 20 and you were 35... well then they would be saying 'hey nice one ... you have a cougar' ...If they guy didnt want to chat or was just in it for a perve... let him have his fun... and just ignore him.. its the best way to do things...Enjoy life... and keep smiling.
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sexslaves
16 years ago
we think ages is just a number all that matters is what in the heart and you are togeather for the right reasons and only you guys know those reasons and it doesnt matter what others think and live life to the fullest as your only alive for a short time and your dead for a long time and at then end of the who are they to tell you you are both adults just treat it like water off a ducks back and dont let it get to you guys
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RHP User
16 years ago
she's 19 and he's 30. we all think he's a loser cause he is.no job, no work ethic, trouble with the law over shit.his age has nothing todo with it though.well only in the respect that he should know better by now.ahahahahahahahahhahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
ty ilovetosmile its very true :D partyinsatiable thats the reason i made the post is cos women get called cougars but men get called dirty creapy and pedos its wrong.. maybe we should all start a new trend for it like they did making older women cougars hahaha mite shut up the jealous lil pricks hehehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
then you DGAF...there are plenty of cowards hiding behind keyboards and computer screens...just go phhhhtttttttttttttttttt...and move on...oh...and keep on having fun...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
HI just like to say my wife is 8yrs my senior and it dont bother me or her at all .But all my life i have hung with older people Her friends or mine never ever comment on the age difference.Which is what true friends are about.they dont judge you on age colour or race they just except you for the people you are and the enjoyment you give each other as friends.So if they want to judge you there proberly not right person to be friends with anyway.As for strangers who give`s a fuck what they think you two know who your are and what you are all about. Besides as the wife keeps telling me she`s only as old as the person she feels.(I think thats me??) all the best quietcolt
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're as old as the person you're feeling?? Righto..thats it..Im over the "same age as me" guys...cos I wanna feel young again..... Cougar rampage....grrrrrrrrrowl... (ouch! there goes the hip again....darn it!)
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RHP User
16 years ago
long, long ago.... when I was 19 I met a man who was 32, two years later (on my 21st) we became engaged. Spent a total of 4 years together. My Mum & Dad were not impressed with the age difference, but if I had my time over again there is not a lot I would change other than being more assertive in our relationship. Our breakup had nothing to do with the age difference, it just took me while to work out he was a bit of an arsehole...lol. These days I am only interested in men around 5 years either side of my age. intrigued & curious ~~~having a chuckle to myself knowing the ex-fiance is now in his 60's and how much he would hate that! hehehe brings a smile to my face whenever I think of that....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' You're as old as the person you're feeling?? Righto..thats it..Im over the "same age as me" guys...cos I wanna feel young again..... Cougar rampage....grrrrrrrrrowl... (ouch! there goes the hip again....darn it!) and as i'm pretty sure your lyin about your ageto get in on this cougar thing that would be anincrease instead of the decrease you desire.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl, the ancient one.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi everyone , just a view points of interest hugh heffner need i say more , i am 28 yrs older than my girlfriend we love each other , so for all those ppl who have their heads up there arse should take a good look at them selves before they criticise others . if i am on then not many will talk to me , buit then if my girlfriend is on the screen seems to change quickly so all ppl will look at her just because she is 20 .
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RHP User
16 years ago
Everyone is different and age difference does not mean incompatibility for a relationship or sexually. Just this year I have been with a woman 15 years my junior and another that is 12 years my senior (not from here). Both were different in their own ways but not because of age so much.The younger one told me she had been with a guy that was 21 years older than her! It does seem though that the women are harsher on the age difference than men. That may also be just due to the ratio of guys to girls problem though. I wonder if the odds were more even if the women would open their preferences up more and not just ignore the guys that are outside the ranges they are after, or in a lot of cases ignore them when they are still in those ranges but on the upper side.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG i was saying that to mr yesterday... people say its bad wen u date older men but look @ hugh he has 20yr olds in his house ffs now thats an age gap i say is wrong... anything over your parents age u shouldnt be with in my opinion but thats cos i have young parents lmfao
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RHP User
16 years ago
my dad is 18 yrs older than my mum. never really been an issue for us. who really gives a as long as the 2 people r happyMrs Bal
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, how the age makes me crack up,,I always get hit on by the real young ones and when i keep saying no i get -- holly shit i was only joking i wouldnt fk you ya older than me mum hahahahahaha--- ahhhhh guess its their way of not feelin rejected,, or I get from the youngies ----- oh i wanna fk a granny --mmmm for them the block button is awesome lmfao-------- or I get OMG you cant really be 53 WHAT DO THEY THINK A 53 IS SUPPOSED TO LOOK LIKE????????-my husband is 6yrs younger than me --what is an age when your n love?????? yes i have an age limit as to who i want in bed but my eldest child is 15yrs yonger than me,,,,,,,,,,,AND HUN YOU SAID IT ALL HE WAS 27,ALL THOUGH NOT ALL 27 YR OLDS HAVE A BRAIN OF A NUM NUT and can take a NO and not get nasty,, live yor life the way yu want hun so long as you are happy!!!!!!!!!! nobody has the right to judge another person........ brandi xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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