How often do you actually meet and play?
April 28 2023
PS: Would be nice to have an anonymous poll functionality in RHP for this kind of stuff.
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Flirty2020
a year ago
It would depend on how desperate one is and how high or low one’s standards were.
Some males will fuck any old hole.
How long is a piece of string?
Sawadee
a year ago
Once or twice a week ? Dont we all ' Seriously ' you'd be doing very well if you get once or twice a year ???
RHP User
a year ago
It is hard to meet people online. Especially as a single male. The women on here can tell you their own experiences as to why. It also comes down to the availability of both parties to get the timing right. Anyone single with children is going to have that challenge big time.
We will stick to our experience as a couple, We live the country and also have busy lives, so we are our own worst enemies when it comes to finding time to meet others. When we had a paid account we sent many messages to other couples and received way less than we sent. We also found it was more successful after we got our account verified with the green tick and stuck to looking for other verified couples accounts. It was a simple way to weed out the number of men on here pretending to be a couple. Apologies to real couples not verified, just our experience over several years.
The other thing we did was to go to meet-n-greet events and also to a few organised events like clubs and parties especially those targeting couples only. We met couples that way as well as chatting online and meeting socially to start.
So thats our couples experience. Hope that helps.
FeistyFatty
a year ago
I have a group and we meet every week. A friend hosts a group every fortnight as well with some like players and some different ones.
Hotwife71
a year ago
4 times in 13 years.
Wife is very attractive and i have high standards for her. Having said that though, most places are full of flakes and No shows.
ElectricDreamers
a year ago
When we've built a connection we might meet weekly with the same people.
If you're talking rando's that's lost it's appeal, if we've got a date up we're looking to follow through if everyone clicks. Life keeps getting in the way of the best plans to get laid...
Ex007
a year ago
I'm a sapiosexual and quite discerning. So on average, I would say it would take me a month or 2 of chatting (text and phone calls) before a meet and greet is organised. I also have a life to live.
That being said it would be over a year since someone on RHP has remotely plight my interest.
I do have some wonderful friends from RHP but intelligent conversation has become an endangered species here. 😔
MsSuperFoxy
a year ago
It's very achievable.
Depends what effort is put in and when I decide and arrange.
Ms Foxy
madotara69
a year ago
We’ll, a ten year study has shown masturbating to ejaculate as many as 27 days a month reduces prostate cancer and other positive things with the chemistry within, including well developed pelvic floor, PC muscle and if you think of the prostrate gland sling shots seminal fluids to lubricate and give the little squirts a decent squirt and the race is aimed at the egg, winner takes all.
27 days month after month, carefully if one of the 27 happens to be enjoying a blowjob in it for the money shot🤠 😝🤧
Care not to blow her brains out the back of er head 🤠🤯🤕
🤠😮💨
So as a matter of good health and wellbeing and a penis raging in peak physical condition, surely an attractiveness to the women who enjoy an exhaustingly super hard challenge for a start.. the ultimate regular sexually fulfilled quota of 27 days a month, some just masturbating for the ejaculating training in order to fill the calendar steadily gaining regular supportive partners as a works in progress.
Couple of cautions to avoid toxic failure causing the house of cards crashing down by the women who will end your wellbeing escorting you off the premises and dare not look back if for bad habits.
One of both to totally avoid
Hitting the ceiling with an enhanced load of cum.
Wiping your dick on the curtains.
It’s all about self discipline mr big, ‘ we don’t do things because they are easy.
We do things because they are hard’
Anyhow…
(33 years in training become second nature, it gets easier in the long run)
Mado
Mado Tara xx
Felicitous
a year ago
Once a connection and chemistry is established... for us, as a couple in an open marriage, generally fortnightly meets with respective 'others' and the odd date here and there when time doesn't allow for more..
For myself that means I prefer to be exclusive to that person because with so little time, when it's intoxicatingly delicious why dilute it? Each to their own of course.
In saying that it's been almost 5 months since my last lover and I've not 'been' with anyone since. A few dates that didn't ignite... even more chatting to try find it.
If the chemistry isn't comparable I won't partake - I don't need nor want more 'experiences'... I'm looking for something rather singular and I'm okay waiting for it and I'm also now resigned to the fact that I might never get that again and grateful that I had a sip of it :) 🤷🏻♀️
Mrs_Deep_Love
a year ago
Don't expect that you will have better odds here than any other dating site.
EarthQueen
a year ago
Once a week to meet a new person is unrealistic I think. If your relationship says complicated it will make it more complicated to meet people because not everyone wants that or has ideas about what that could mean. Who meets many people that they really connect with on OLD let alone want to have sex with? Then they also need to be close to you? Unless you don't care who you have sex with its not that easy.
RHP User
a year ago
Your expectations are not unrealistic if you don't try to only find partners online. Only using online to meet women projects desperate loser energy that women have a 6th sense for. Online was slow for me in the first 12 months but as I learned it started to snowball. You can do it but it requires patience, humility and self awareness. Good luck.
Kokoflamingo
a year ago
Im not here for fucks and giggles so if I play its with someone Ive had a lot of correspondence with and feel a connection to. When I first joined here, years ago, it was around once every couple of months. Nowadays.....once this year so far. If you are not fussy and just looking for a root, Id imagine you could be quite busy.
lets_have_fun
a year ago
I'm flattered by the attention to my persona, but the question was not an ask to evaluate my own profile. I'm perfectly aware of the shortcomings of my situation, etc. I was genuinely interested in the level of sexual activity among the members of RHP, nothing more.
countrytouch82
a year ago
Meeting and playing very different from meeting of course.
On searching for singles, it's easy to "meet", at least in the vanilla world even, as I've chalked up a few singles events lately, including speed dating, to which they market as meeting 15 singles in a night, and you do. While it's nice to know what you're looking for (and apparently this is attractive) and see hope and potential in other people, but of course this has to be reciprocated, so the data for me is playing with a single once this year and once last year.
It's a different story for couples, of which I've played with three couples this year (as a group, and another 1 on 1 with one female half only). But this is kind of a new beginning with only one semi-regular contact (again a couple) for the previous several years, lockdowns aside.
When I first joined ie stats for 2015 I was going to as many events as would invite me, and had a FWB, I once managed a record 3 separate plays in a week, with an average once a fortnight for the year. But I was also paying through the nose for relevant single men entries, and generally learning about parts of the scene.
Anecdotally people have told me in their guilty youth it was possible for them to meet and play via being out on the town, at nightclubs etc, even more than once a night.
So a separate someone each week is theoretically possible to meet in a populated area, but given that sex gets better with an ongoing connection, once a week with the same person if it were to happen, is probably a much more enjoyable outcome for most people.
nightingale8
a year ago
At my peak I met with maybe 4-5 people 1:1 in a year, with a much lower average overall. This year, two, and currently just here for a perve! I think even if I were single I’d quickly move to something ongoing. Have almost always been that way, an accidental long term connection kind of person.
RHP User
a year ago
I've been here 6 years, at the start a lot, but now once a year, if that.
pescovee
a year ago
I’ve never had a meet with anyone on here
Rach23
a year ago
My relationship allows me to play every 2nd week. I'm relatively new to RHP but I have found it very achievable to hook up 1 to 3 times a week. Some are one off's for whatever reason and some are returning/potential regulars.
Seachange
a year ago
Hi OP. When I joined a few years ago, as a newbie I was scared as hell about meeting people. I had my insecurities about me and had just come out of a LTR.
I wa not ready to jump into another relationship but happy to have fun. I wasn't sure what to expect as I have always met men organically, through work or friends or in pubs. I'm quite social and love a chat and quite knowledgeable in both esoteric, academic and trivial knowledge to start and pursue a convo with anyone.
I joined, had a few chats and then chickened out on meets (yep ghosted) for first two months. Then I chatted online with this WA guy who was very active in the forum He was a character and made me laugh. He was a character and met him in Melbourne in a hotel where he arranged a party. He made me laugh but he was off his rocker half the time. But after the party, meeting people with common interests, I felt they were just normal people after all and got me to relaxed a bit to meet other men.
I supposed when I was active on RHP, I would meet men after some chatting, about 1-2 per.week. some meets don't go beyond a drink in the bar as mental connection is important for me as with physical attraction.
I travel a lot for work (domestic and O/S) and would meet me from all over the country from Queensland to WA. Some men have been my 'regular' friends when I visit their City. They're just delicious. 😘
So, I think setting expectations on frequency of meets may lead to disappointment. Women on this app will have higher chance of meeting compared to men. Unfortunately for men. The key is to make connections, stimulate our grey matter and ignite our imagination. Then we'll want more and perhaps have the courage to meet up sooner than later.
Best wishes to you.
KLady
a year ago
Some months and weeks get nothing then bam, 3 times this week 😝
Pieman4u
a year ago
My ex wife was 25yrs younger than me and wanted it daily. Not a problem for the four years we were married, until I found out she was aiming for a baby and it was not happening, so she left me.
RHP User
a year ago
It depends on people's availability and preferences. If you match the criteria and have decent conversations with them, you can score a date. It might not be straight to hook up but just meet and great if you click then something might happen. As a single guy it would be difficult to get attention if you are not verified or got some friends in your account. Validation works wonders as well. I would suggest try group events and make connections and go from there.
RachWandered
a year ago
Adding a comment late here … I have been on rhp over a year. It’s taken ages to build up a circle of regular friends. In terms of 1:1 meets they’re super rare these days. I usually attend parties and events because it’s easier to connect in person. I do meet people but I think all the flakes are putting me off meeting more people. It’s just not worth the investment and time especially when I already have nice fwbs to play with…
Peakin
a year ago
what's the difference between pink and purple
the grip 😅😘
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