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How much is too much or not enough? What is just right?
November 04 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
3-5 times a week at least
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RHP User
15 years ago
My last relationship lasted 20 years and by my own admission was not good towards the end. However, in a committed relationship, sex four or five times a week is enough to keep me happy. If my man wakes up horny during the night, or fisrt thing in the morning (the way they do mmmmm) I am more than happy to "oblige" more frequently. During the early stages of a relationship it is common to have sex twice a day and often more. How much is too much? So long as both in the relationship are happy with it, there is never too much, it can only be measured by those that do not get enough.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have been with my wife now for 11 years , at 1st we went like it like rabbits sometimes a much as 6 times a day but after having other commitments , a child , sports etc it has cut down abit but still we like to do it once maybe twice a day , that's enough to keep us happpy :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you ever figure out how much is enough, please do share as we haven't quite figured it out in our 18 years together.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
that is so awesome to hear : ) as for me i like it every single day if i can get it (when in a relationship i mean), whether its a 5 min quickie before work or a more prolonged session. i'm not talking for all couples here but i have found when the sex and intimacy die then so does the relationship.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There is never enough time in the day lol. I want it when ever i can get it. I would be happy with say 2-3 times a day
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RHP User
15 years ago
That is amazing to hear I thought this girl and her relationship was unique. I have definitley not been setting the bar high enough. Very interesting to hear - keep it coming...... xxxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me I was thinking 4 to 5 times a week depending on the week and general life getting in the way. But I think I should change that to every day too. Need to set some goals here. ;) xxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes every day and twice a day is good. Other times twice a week is good. Depends on what mood we both are in at the time. I never say no though. Sweetly satisfied
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have young kids so I would say twice a week at the moment but have to say that we put a bit more effort into those sessions. Or during a good patch in life (includes good vibes, sleep & time off) it might be 4 nights in a row then nothing for the next week. It is what you are both happiest with. I am happy to pop out my vibrator if he is exhausted & more than happy for him to sort himself out with a magizene if I am not interested. Swinging has introduced another great element into our sex lives...more realistic fantasy and also more likely to make time for sexy getaways with friends. Even the most compatible sexual partners are going to have times where one or the other is not interested. If you are generally satisfied Meeka then I wouldnt tinker with it just because evryone else seems to be doing it more often. I would rather have 2 intense sessions a week where I come a couple of times rather than every day wham bam thank you mam! However if you are unsatisfied maybe it is worth broaching.... Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
5 to 6 days a week 2-3 times a day is good of me with my partner have been married for 16th years. Plus if i am lucky a fun girl or couple duing the weeks is nice to xxoo ( any taker)
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RHP User
15 years ago
In summer probably three to four times per week. In winter happy with twice per week I am a summer person and find the female form much more seductive in the hotter months, while they wear flimsy clothing.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Try 15 years of sex almost every day, no serious arguments, no "going to live with mum" just gentle peace and love... Then hormones comes to stay......
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'Try 15 years of sex almost every day, no serious arguments, no "going to live with mum" just gentle peace and love... Then hormones comes to stay...... Hormones effect you so much...but most of the time you dont even realise what a slave to them we are. As a young woman it was certin times of the month...then pregnancy was a differnt kind of hormone....Now i guess we have got menopause to look forward to. Men still have thier ups and downs but dont seem to be tethered to the hormone cycle the way us women are. lol they just have to put up with the fall out... I would even put myself out there to say, that at times I cant come because of where my mind & body are at. Ill still participate but it just doesnt 'cum' home. :-( I still enjoy it tho! Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'Try 15 years of sex almost every day, no serious arguments, no "going to live with mum" just gentle peace and love... Then hormones comes to stay...... Is this available on your planet now? Fantastic advise all the other aliens! Then again Ruggedly_Rugged-you often stand apart from the crowd...I'm hardly surprised you're aware and familiar with this particular anomaly...makes me confident there are a few more....out there like you....walking around even if they don't say much....yet what they say usually makes perfect sense. The iPhone kind of made me confident Earthlings may just have the intelligence to get as advanced as this example above in your humanoid on humanoid relationships down here eventually... Then again...this kind of thing usually only happens between two similar stranded and grown up aliens... that know they better stick together and appreciate what they have finally found roaming these universal wastelands or risk falling apart wandering aimlessly again and in pain forever on their own. Trophies are good-a pleasant diversion or distraction for a time...when you've grown accustomed to a lonely existence...the ease and convenience of it...it's hard to change...even if it is killing you...slowly... Companionship on the other hand, albeit at times very challenging with an equal, being with your own kind-well it will always provide a tacit understanding that surpasses any short lived popularity....as it sustains and revives you...endlessly. The sex is always better with your own kind-it's amazing-it's the green blood cells...makes you taste different... they know what you like, they know what you are like and they don't think you are strange....you don't have to hide...anything...no point really they know what's going on anyway...before you say anything...they know... Sex-It's a need you have to feed daily or as often as possible-essential for these kinds of creatures... Something to do with the way we process CO2 and carbs apparently.... Trophy? If you must...well in some ways you had to...didn't you... To infiltrate, avoid detection and utter destruction done that before...many times...a specialist....always going for the gold star... You always knew you were different....but now awakened it's all changed...they can see you...smell you...sense you...too it's never going to be the same....now you know what you are as well....target's up...take aim... The longer that farce you're participating in drags on-you know it's just never going to be what you need...or want...it hurts to know...but it hurts you more...as you know...it better than most... You are not satisfied...you're forever wandering...suffering intolerably...the pain...the disatisfaction...all of it can be felt.... and seen across any distance...and it belies the forced cheerful expression or fancy clothes you wear... You know it's always going to better with your own kind...they look and sound very different to all the creatures that currently surround you...they are definitely not as predictable...and you know how you are easily bored with convention and monkey business.... We just have to get you off that cliff of despair now-it's not a solution and it doesn't become you....stop watching the waves... they don't hold the answers...they can't save you...nor can you enjoy riding them without getting wet...sometimes being all dry and tidy isn't best....and if you don't jump in at some point how will you ever get to swim across to the friendly shore-you're always thinking about? You've come so far, done so much, seen all that before and survived it to give up at the last few remaining km's? Only you can only save yourself from a life without all you truly want....you don't have to do it today...but start making plans... make your decision...in the coming months do what is necessary....as this isn't living...it's suffering....and you're not happy. 2011 can be your year... Moodiness can easily turn to madness....the surest way to make someone crazy is to stop them being who they really are...or they finally want to be... Why would any advanced alien do that to themselves? 7 years is a long time...to be in the wrong place... You should of course always pay off your debts of pleasure at least you can be moody but feel less guilty!!! Mother ship will be at a distance-may even be busy-however it will always respond to your call.... Or just get to where the aliens are...if you've been there before especially if someone's given you the address... NymphetamineDrm INFRA RED - PLACEBO One last thing before I shuffle off the planet I will be the one to make you crawl so I came down to wish you an unhappy birthday someone call the ambulance there’s gonna be an accident I’m coming up on infra-red, there is no running that can hide you cause I can see in the dark I’m coming up on infra-red, forget your running, I will find youOne more thing before we start the final face off I will be the one to watch you fall so I came down to crash and burn your beggars banquet someone call the ambulance there’s gonna be an accidentI’m coming up on infra-red, there is no running that can hide you cause I can see in the dark I’m coming up on infra-red, forget your running, I will find you (I will find you!)someone call the ambulance there’s gonna be an accident I’m coming up on infra-red, there is no running that can hide you cause I can see in the darkI’m coming up on infra-red, forget your running, I will find you cause I can see in the darkI’m coming up on infra-red, there is no running that can hide you cause I can see in the darkI’m coming up on infra-red, forget your running,I will find you I'll find youI'll find you
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