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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You missed a big one.. Cautious! I keep RHP and all internet interaction with people as far away from family as possible with the exception of facebook. There are many strange, worrying and dangerous people lurking on the net and as a safety measure I say very little about family and scrutinise very carefully before bringing anyone from the net into my personal life. The good people outnumber the bad enormously but unfortunately some personal experience and much of what you see, hear and read in the media suggests the world is a less safe place these days and the one in a billion chance is now one in a million you'll encounter a freak.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Most on this site who know me also know that I have a daughter on here. I had her when I was quite young so there is a cross over in ages of the men we may be interested in. As a result of this we talk very openly and freely to each other. Naturally we do not discuss intimate details but we certainly ask each other before playing with a new friend. My mother, a woman in her seventies has had the same married lover for ten years. She knows I am on this site and we discuss things a little. My eldest son is a real prude and would be absolutely horrified to know I was on here so dont talk to him about anything. I have street smart teenaged girls in my home and they know that I am on here. It is hard to hide anything from my girls especially as they live in the house with me. I dont discuss anything with them but they know. I guess it it up to each individual and the family circumstances. I dont find anything to be ashamed of. It is really a need to know basis and how much the particular family member is open and accepting. I do try to keep my online life separate but becasue of my daughter, the lines get a bit blurred. I have met several of her friends socially. She has yet to meet any of mine.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' You missed a big one.. Cautious! I keep RHP and all internet interaction with people as far away from family as possible with the exception of facebook. There are many strange, worrying and dangerous people lurking on the net and as a safety measure I say very little about family and scrutinise very carefully before bringing anyone from the net into my personal life. The good people outnumber the bad enormously but unfortunately some personal experience and much of what you see, hear and read in the media suggests the world is a less safe place these days and the one in a billion chance is now one in a million you'll encounter a freak. :)lilmiss x

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  But as my boyfriend has several vanilla friends who may not understand the wonderful world of bdsm I do have to be careful of how I phrase things sometimes. To those that know me I am a professional Bondage Mistress but to some I am an alternative physical therapist.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Our visits to RHP and anyone we meet here is our own personal thing.. Its something we share together' not with anybody else. Not family' friends 'work mates' neighbours or whoever.. RHP is a lil bit of everything to us... fantasy... exciteing and sure as hell outta the normal everyday routines most couples fall into... Comeing into RHP is like stepping into the land of the forbidden.. Thats what makes it what it is ? In the forum we can say things we dare not talk about in everyday situations.. giveing us the freedom to say what we think when we think it.. even though we are not always right .. But we can say it.. and everyone understands because we are all here out of the same curiosity.. Mr JJ

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  cautious as ruggedly said and I guess that is all that needs to be said realy on RHP or others on the net as in real life Cautious is a safe way to go until you get to know the other person and as for family and friends knowing ??????? well they alll like to think they know me ,,,,,,,,,,,,

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  as i have said before every1 around me that i know, knows what we get up to...whislt not the details they know we are swingers, i figured love/ like me for who i am...they don't all understand why we do it but they accept it and don't treat us any differently from any1 else scott

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