How many validations is too many ??

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Validations mean jack! You could have asked your mates to do them...you could have asked people who really want to hook up with you to do one BEFORE meeting (YES it does happen)! < While you may be great in bed or adventurous to one person...the next might find you boring and think that you are planking instead of fucking! I prefer validations where the person on the profile is saying who they are and that they are reliable and don't cancel on meets. For the males, I prefer to see validations that his description of himself is true and that once you spread your legs that he isn't go to fuck off and that he is a decent human! However, if I do see a guy with validations of "I'm not letting this one go" or "Mmmm can't wait to do him again" I move on straight away...to me a Validation is like a cheetah pissing on a tree...marking his territory! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Now I obviously know that the people on this site are not virgins....however I really don't want their sexual history in my face! Also, I will admit to judging people by their previous partners. If I have a look and you don't seem so too choosy about who you sleep with - your definitely not getting in my pants! I actually told a lovely guy who had 8 validations that I thought his profile was great, but that his number of validations was a complete turn off. I suggested that he pare them down to 2 or 3 of his favourites. Anything more is just icky........But that's just my opinion.Bella x

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  platinumblonde69

  14 years ago

  xFunlovingx...I couldn't have said it better..Everyone is unique and an individual...Just because you clicked with someone and had great sex, doesn't mean you are going to click with everyone...I too prefer validations that speak of the person as being real, sincere, everything their profile states as being true...Anything else is a turn off and is tacky... Plat

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We like validations, and we validate people who we like and who we had great meet ups :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I personally feel more attracted to a lady whom has more validations, but in saying that if someone has >50 I'd be thinking twice about where I'd be putting my penis. At the end of the day, if for each valdation you might require 7-10 meet-ups thats a lot of hookups.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Validations to us i think are a good indication that the person/couple are at least willing to meet up with someone else, as opposed to those just interested in chatting/cam etc. But realistically they may not have even played with the validators, might have met for coffee, met at a party, or had a great conversation with lol.I mean, we have a few validations, but have been on here for a few years so will obviously have more than someone who joined last week (depends on how eager they are i guess, lol!)To be honest it doesnt really mean much....

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