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April 16 2012

Just wondering how many flirts do you get from one person in which you reply all the time that your planets don't collide do you allow someone before you block them? I just noticed a guy today that had sent me 18 flirts in the past and even though my answers have basically been "nup not interested" he keeps sending them. Not all at once, this could be over a period of say 3-18 months! I don't like to block people unless ABSOLUTELY necessary...but feel that I have no option as they are not getting the hint! Now I am not talking about when I put up a new pic or change my profile at all and they send a wink saying "I just want to say I love your profile"...I am talking about the ones that want me to message them or other such flirts! How many is too many? xFunlovingx

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RHP User

14 years ago

If you respond in the negative the first time that should be enough.....he just has a poor memoryperhaps, if you cant stand anymore coming at you go THE BLOCK xHugs H

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RHP User

14 years ago

You read flirts? Why would you bother... too many and not enough time. xxMeeks

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RHP User

14 years ago

Didn't answer your question... I don't block anyone for flirts because I never look at them. xxMeeka

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RHP User

14 years ago

10 points for effort but minus several million points for not actually paying attention. However many they've sent you it sounds like it's at least one more than was necessary for it to be OK to block them. For me the line is somewhere between two flirts and annoyance... hang on. I don't remember the last time I received two flirts, let alone from the some person. I may need to review that policy

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RHP User

14 years ago

Put it this way Fun....how many times do you have to say no? If he didn't get the picture the first 3 times it's highly unlikely youve had a change of heart. Lol @ Meeka playing ' hard to flirt'

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well we don't receive too many flirts, so when a flirt arrives it can be an exciting moment for us, doesn' take much to get us going!we find pleasure in showing the flirt, exitng & looking at it again, this may happen several times until the next wink appears.that is the joy of receiving a flirt.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Its kinda getting creepy now.. I mean Once twice fair enough but after three times ....forget it The lady said no ....hardly think she's gonna change her mind after 2 knock backs.... Why can't people accept rejection graciously ??? I think it's now time to block , it's not flattering now.....it's now almost harassment in a mild form

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RHP User

14 years ago

just do it FUN BLOCK HIM Hugs

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RHP User

14 years ago

it is funy when they send one or a caple of flirt's but if get out of hands then , it can get boring . specialy from someone the not matches you criteria be hones and tell how you fill , and in this case we do not want to hurt anione fillings but is nesesarily to to let then know you do not wish to resive then flirt's.

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wannabyummymummy

14 years ago

3rd one I don't even reply and i block and move on.The first one i always use the "sorry i dont see our planets colliding" (i think it is a fairly nice kind of no thanks)if they persist with a second i use the "short answer is no, long answer is nooooooooooooo" (definitely a little more firm)After that, like i said they get no response and i block them, if they have sent that many flirts that they can't remember that i have already said no then I can't help that, they need to learn to check the history i guess, oh wait hang on thatwould involve reading MORE than my profile, sheesh that was silly of me

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RHP User

14 years ago

Now I do sympathise and yes I do try to reply to all flirts as do you but there comes a time when you have to play hard ball..... Enough is enough he is obviously not getting the message. . BLOCK HIS SORRY ARSE.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Well we don't receive too many flirts, I think I spoke too soon, about getting those flirts - now where is that block button everyone talks about !

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RHP User

14 years ago

I am not talking about just one guy...I am talking about multiple guys over time...The messages I just don't reply to after the 3rd time and sometimes they get the hint...but alot do go overboard with the flirts! Hugs...xFunlovingx

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RHP User

14 years ago

... the 2nd: OK; the 3rd: ahem. 4, 5, 6: ignore, ignore, ignore. It's like with children Fun, any attention (even negative) is attention. KK xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

I respond with the planets not colliding one each time, and then I block.

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