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How long is a piece of string?
September 17 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Isnt there a good book whichs states "11minutes" by Paulo Coelho. 11Minutes it all it takes for sex really. Cheers
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Would depend on the situation.Sometimes the moment is there & you just come,other times it nice to last a while & enjoy it.Maybe he's lasting because he thinks you want him to or vive versa.Communication is the key,letting each other know what you are feeling,liking,want to do,what not to do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My ex who i still currently see and sleep with can sometimes be done in 5 minutes or sometimes we can be having intercourse for 2 hours and he still hasnt cum good for me not so good for him lol. But there is no specific time frame every man is different
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RHP User
13 years ago
depends on the man,for some it's 2 seconds,for others could be hours,it also depends what you have been engaging in before hand.....if there is medication involved...a whole heap of variables in my opinion...if you are concerned that it is over too quickly then your lover may need some professional advice...
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RHP User
13 years ago
well...obviously every guy is different...(i assume?)mine goes for hours...but that is since i became able to orgasm through penetration...multiple times...(like a few dozen)he gets off on it sooo much, he just doesn't want it, to end..(and neither do i, for that matter)but our penetrative sex is kinda "stop and go"...if he gets too close, he slows down...or pulls out and goes down on me, for a little while...then back to pounding again...:)i think, is just a matter of having learnt very good self control, over the years...but that's because, for us ,sex is more about the journey, then the destination...(that is just the icing on the cake..lol)11 minutes?hmmm...fuck that!
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RHP User
13 years ago
But sometime I like it long and slow or a bit of this, a bit more of that, and drag the agony and the ecstasy out for hours. Tell him if you want him to cum, or not, I'm sure he will appreciate knowing what you would like. Some men cum quick, some can and will hold it for ages. There is no definitive answer......surely!!!????
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can embarrass my self in about 20 seconds.. But if I'm in the right frame of mind probably more than 10 minutes? It's hard to say as I don’t clock watch.As young bloke my partner use to like 20 minutes. I use to keep an eye on the little red numbers on the table by the bed to make sure I was not lettering her down. Pretty bloody mechanical..But really, isn't it the sharing of personal space before and after shagging that you get most out of?
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RHP User
13 years ago
fuck knows.... maybe 15 to 20 mins if its a thrash ...longer if your killing time before you head off to play golf ???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep very true, every man is different and to add to that, every time is different. Sometimes can be 5 mins, sometimes can be half an hour. But if it is too quick, as long as you can go again after a quick break , the 2nd and 3rd times last much longer so it's all good :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
That they're all different. It can also depend on their energy level and self control. I'm with someone who can go for ages and just slows it down a little every now and again to keep that stamina going. Boy am I glad it doesn't matter how soon and how often for us women.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jeezuz will be here soon and he may have the answer for you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Firstly, a piece of string is twice its length measured from the middle to one side. Secondly, I think that time has no place in sex. Sex should always be an enjoyable experience for 2 people. Quite often, as the majority have indicated, that time frame can vary from man to man, and also the same man. The reasons for this can, but not limited to the following reasons:- 1. Stress levels 2. Emotional State 3. Medical factors, that also include medications. 4. I've run out of intelligent things to say. And Mischevious, I'm going to go all out and start the bidding off at 4.17 Hours!!! Chris
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RHP User
13 years ago
enough. ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
When he's inside a woman (or man for that matter), pumping away? In that case it absolutely varies - I find that as men get older most learn a few tricks to help with staying power. For example, deep slow breathing rather thank holding ther breath, relaxing muscles rather than tensing them, stopping, pulling out, switching to other activities for a bit, changing the angle etc. I also find that as a woman it doesn't take much to alter the tempo or position slightly and override any control a man has, which is always a bit fun to do ;). If a man hasn't learnt some decent staying power tricks and/or isn't willing to I'm pretty sure I'd kick him out of my bed. (Gawd, does that sound harsh??) Aside from staying power in terms of penetration, I LOVE being with a man who's willing to play for hours and hours - with breaks, and laughs, and snoozes, and changes of location, different positions, sometimes slow and loving, sometimes fast and furious, food and drink when needed, whatever takes our fancy while we enjoy each other. A man who can go all day like that an choose when he cums ... mmmm mmmm x
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RHP User
13 years ago
When he's inside a woman (or man for that matter), pumping away? In that case it absolutely varies - I find that as men get older most learn a few tricks to help with staying power. For example, deep slow breathing rather thank holding ther breath, relaxing muscles rather than tensing them, stopping, pulling out, switching to other activities for a bit, changing the angle etc. I also find that as a woman it doesn't take much to alter the tempo or position slightly and override any control a man has, which is always a bit fun to do ;). If a man hasn't learnt some decent staying power tricks and/or isn't willing to I'm pretty sure I'd kick him out of my bed. (Gawd, does that sound harsh??) Aside from staying power in terms of penetration, I LOVE being with a man who's willing to play for hours and hours - with breaks, and laughs, and snoozes, and changes of location, different positions, sometimes slow and loving, sometimes fast and furious, food and drink when needed, whatever takes our fancy while we enjoy each other. A man who can go all day like that an choose when he cums ... mmmm mmmm x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jennylee has a twin sister. The girls got drunk at a party once and took me into the bedroom. I got so turned on eating out my sister-in-law while watching Jennylee suck her twn's nipples that the cum was dribbling out the end of my old fella before it went any where near either of them. Other than that, I seem to last pretty well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I thought the same as Mischeviouslad Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is more about did I have a wank today? am I feeling good? is this the second time tonight,? is my mind on the job? hang on there are lights at the window....is someone coming up the path....oh shit its the hubby...? bloody hell its MY wife? ummm... whats the question again? Mike
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