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How do you get selected to be the 3rd person?
January 17 2018
Starting with good photos is a good start. Clean, well groomed, friendly and pleasant looking. Save the dick pics for the private album, because is a factor in determining if we want you, but don’t lead with it. It’s like a girl asking whether you are wanting to get married on a first date.
Next, how you write in your profile is an indicator of what you might be like in person. Talking like you are down the pub with your mates generally won’t cut it. Sure it’s fine when you are orgasming to scream out fuck, but is not a turn on at the intro stage.
Validations are important, as word of mouth is the best advertising.
Be honest and be yourself. It’s the best way for a couple to determine if you are the right one for them. If you are not, that’s okay. It’s not about whether you are a good person or not. It’s about whether you are the right fit for the couple or not.
What are other people’s thoughts?
- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel sorry for our third person he would have to be patient, understanding, then like us both for a start.. put up with our tantrums, bullshit, and everything that isnt normal or is it?
Nice forum post.. have we got a story.. we are both stubborn, pig-headed, amazing, loving, hard as when we want too.. you would have to be a superstar individual that likes us as a pair.. however, apart from that.. privacy, and comfortability would have to be one oh one.. And that is me the wife..jesus... I wish I could say to my husband... yup he will do... but, i cant.. he has to tick my box and his box..I dunno.. everything that we both have with each other.. so we can all grow.. not to mention... geez.. i could keep going.. I have no idea... but am interested in hearing of others...RHP User
7 years ago
We've been searching for a M for our first MFM and have read so many profiles and been contacted by so many directly. As you say, hold the dick pics, put up a photo (we're still light on our public photos mind you) but most importantly, take time to write a genuine profile description. Validations are important for us too and help paint a picture of the type of person we ultimately may share the most sacred and intimate experience with. I (husband) will not let any Tom Dick or Harry spend time with my wife. He must have made an effort and be willing to focus on telling us about who he is not how he intends to use his dick.
Having said that, rhp does cater for all scenarios including quick "I don't care who you are, let's just get it on", so it's inevitable all types will cross paths.
But yes, focus on crafting the profile for couples as dick pics, and personality traits can be reviewed during the due diligence period!!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
All of the above goes not just for couples but for pretty much any playdate.
RHP User
7 years ago
What do you guys think of my profile? I'm not really looking at the moment
Sawadee
7 years ago
.. and bridges to cross .. No wonder we all go grey or die wondering.. ? lol..
OK .. so what do I know ? I know that when my ex and I ventured down this same path ' we found that nothing happened until we bit the bullet and agreed to meet with a selected guy over a coffee before anything ? You can sit back and um and ahh as much as you like , but until you have something tangible to go on ' nothing is going to happen. By meeting before hand you get to get a feel for the person and if you feel it's a goer or not.. You can always walk away from the coffee at least with knowing , where sitting back trying to guess goes no where..
I ticked ' like ' to your post because I know where your coming from... Good luck guys.. Jay..
Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
Agree with much of what you’ve said..... with the exception of the validations. But that’s my personal view.
I’ve mostly filled the position of third wheel.... as only with two women I’ve known, did ‘we’’ invite another woman ...
So as they third wheel, my view is that physically they may find you appealing, and that’s out of your control.
To feel that you may gel with their existing dynamic...., you must recognise and acknowledge that you ARE the 3rd wheel at their invitation into their world, and don’t be a dickhead.
If you can communicate, laugh, and are comfortable with yourself..... you will likely put others at ease.
If that progresses.... again at THEIR invitation, great.
If not..... also great
DG
MissRedFox
7 years ago
Is the same criteria to single girls being considered by couples 🤔
- Posted from rhpmobile
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