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RHP User
15 years ago
You cant exactly force someone to swing, but what you can do is make the idea appealing to her so that maybe she might give it a go, also you must reassure her and set some ground rules so that she feels comfortable ease her into the ideagood luck!xxxc
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats the way to do it.....show that chick whos Boss! are you a man or a mouse! Seriously though....You know the more women get good sex the more they want and vice a versa, well start there!Second if your wife doesn't know your here, get rid of this profile and come back as a genuine couple, if she finds out your here you may not have a wife to go swinging with!Good luck mateCheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
I seemed to be out of the sin bin.......instant posting priveledges are back, thanks RHP. Though i am not sure why i was binned....must of upset somebodies fragile ego i guess.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Capital'knock her down grab her by the hair drag her along and make her do as she is told, she is your wife aint she ... LOL how do you know shes not already doing it Always by the hair, never by the feet....as she will fill up with sand and then be no good to anybody.
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RHP User
15 years ago
had three kids and lots a bitsused ta swing when she walked.ahahahahahahahaahahahahaEver helpfulEarl
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah what's with it Peachy?
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RHP User
15 years ago
It posted!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
IVE GOT THE OPPOSITE PROBLEM - IM TRYING TO GET MY PARTNER TO SWING, NEVER DONE IT B4 BUT AM VERY CURIOUS. I KNOW I CANT FORCE HIM SO ILL BE PATIENT-IM SURE IT'LL BE WORTH THE WAIT.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Capital'knock her down grab her by the hair drag her along and make her do as she is told, she is your wife aint she ... LOL how do you know shes not already doing it i hate to admit it Mrs Capital...but shit thats damn funny roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
How do you even get your wife to have sex with you, you sexist pig.....she has a mind of her own....if she wants to she will. With an attitude of "how do i make her....????" she probably wouldnt want to!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey sorry...i misquoted you but it got me riled up that you would try to make your wife do anything she doesnt want to!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Buy her Flowers and choclates.......softens the girls up works everytime
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RHP User
15 years ago
Would you like to borrow my reading glass before you put your foot in your mouth again.
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Letsgetcrazy09
15 years ago
Don't listen to any of themTwo bits of rope, a platform about 2"4" with a hole drilled 1 1/2" from each endA good sturdy tree branchThe harder you push the higher she will goCheeky Lets
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RHP User
15 years ago
lustslut....having a moment??????Everyone is different handyman, and there is no one way that will work for all.However, have you tried just talking to her about it??Maybe try role playing, and by role playing i mean role play something that will appeal to her not just to you.So you may have to role play her being handled by you and another guy!If that works you can maybe talk to her about what it would be like to just introduce another guy to the set. Gauge her reactions, and make her the centre of attention.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats it luveitrough! yes we got started by talking about fantasys and then onto our great role playing adventures, then as we got more confident and daring went to our 1st swing club...blah blah the rest is history :) can i just say "the phrase work choices is DEAD" hahahha Neo
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RHP User
15 years ago
HOW DO I GET OR HOW DO I BULLY MY WIFE...........ID BE WANTING AN EXPENSIVE HOLIDAY IN THE MALDIVES WITH THEM HUTS OVER THE WATER THAT YOU CAN SEE THE FISH FROM LOL....SHE EITHER HAS A CURRENCY OR YOU HAVE NO HOPE....WELL BLACKMAIL CAN WORK FOR ME
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RHP User
15 years ago
Handyman!!! Ask her nicely!!! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Capital'do you want her to swing or do you just want her permission to swing ie fuck other women? Providing she insists on a bi female show for her husband, and she promises not to enjoy the opposite sex
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RHP User
15 years ago
take her to a club.stop being square homie.mayb u just damn square.u no square.
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RHP User
15 years ago
swinging is sometring that suits some couples and must be an extention of your own happy sex life. if only one partner really wants to do it, it's permission to root around. if, however, it's an eaqually mutual part of your sex life it's GREAT!
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RHP User
15 years ago
god yes!! forgive me....it was a a very long moment!! PMS....including crying for most of a day....most unlike me!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
god yes!! forgive me....it was a a very long moment!! PMS....including crying for most of a day....most unlike me!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I add up all the years Mr Shy talked up fantasies in my little "window" of ecstacy...it would be over 10years before I actually tried the first time. It all began with being open and honest when talking about fantasies etc. Then in the middle of the moment...discuss various fantasies and see which ones she really enjoys. Bring it up ever so subtley a little more and more and in about 10-15yrs she will be wanting to try it...hahaha Ok...i really dont know how to convince someone to give it a try...but...this is just what happened with us is all...and it was very nice when it did happen. This is one of those moments that Mr Shy had "told you so" rights...hahaha Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi there well I stired something up. But you are right it is not my place to make my wife or anyone to do anything. I can only encouage. thank you for some good reading. Who Knows?????????????
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RHP User
15 years ago
When my man wants to take me swinging, he usually raises it for discussion a few days before and often my immediate reaction is not so keen. He always says thats fine but see how you feel on the day. But then when the day comes around, he helps me with little things around the house and maybe takes me somewhere that we can buy something sexy to wear. Sometimes he will give me a massage with some aphrodisiac oil. Often we will go to an adult shop and see if there is anything to add to our repertoire of toys, then takes me somewhere nice for dinner, makes sure the kids are organised. After that I can't wait to get into it, and the last few times it has been me getting it on more than him and I realise how much I like it. Then when we get home again we have the best sex ever. It just takes a while to get into the right frame of mind.
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RHP User
15 years ago
.... (and I don't think it is), but I think swinging should be considered a good idea but both members of the partnership. If anyone has to be talked around or cajolled into it, surely you're worried about what that could do to the relationship? Seems like a bit of a gamble to me.Of course, someone's going to mention it first, and it might take a couple of conversations for both people to agree they want to give it a go, but that's talking, not convincing.Swinging is playing with fire as we all know. It's incredible if it works but the stakes are high - don't put your partner in a position where they feel uncomfortable or you'll undermine the trust in relationship. That's my view anyway.Summary: joint decision, entered into freely.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'enticemee'You cant exactly force someone to swing, but what you can do is make the idea appealing to her so that maybe she might give it a go, also you must reassure her and set some ground rules so that she feels comfortable ease her into the ideagood luck!xxxc
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