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How do I find a swinging long-term relationship?

October 05 2014

Hey all, this probably wasn't the best titled thread, but it sums things up a bit. I am interested in finding someone to start a long-term relationship w (not that I'm not also interested in fun along the way!), which would involve sharing. I see plenty of couples on here w a guy who has a girl and they are interested in finding another guy/girl/couple to join them. I consider myself straight, but would like to have my lass pleasured by other guys and girls as long as I'm involved too. I've gone about starting relationships the usual way, and then when they find out my...predilections, the norm is negative. Coming on here is fun, but I don't seem to find anyone w any interest in developing things as we go. Where have these other couples found each other? How do I go about it?

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TimeToPlayAus

11 years ago

Best way to do it is to find a friend with benefits that's into the same stuff and then have that develop into something more serious. Of course there's no way to guarantee that will happen though. We know couples that met in here or amm, plus others that met elsewhere and just happened to have the same interests - we fall into this category. You can't force it though. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

being on this site is a good start OP...I looked at your profile and your pics are pretty goof,you are a good looking fit bloke..I have no advice except to say,keep on trying xxQ

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RHP User

11 years ago

If only I was 10 years younger... ;-)

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm in the same boat, I know what I want, just have to hang in there and be patient I suppose. Good things come to those who wait. Your a good looking guy pity I wasn't a little younger lol

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UnclaimedPants

11 years ago

It finds you - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Definitely find someone that enjoys sex... not an easy task for a man... then you need to have some shared interests, become good friends, and if you like each other's company so much that you do not want to part ways even while playing with others... you're pretty much in it :-) On my wishlist too, together with touring Europe...

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RHP User

11 years ago

I AM ALSO LOOKING FOR A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS I am also looking for a friend with benefits so i can go to swinging parties, i do go as a single but a lot of couples don't want a single guy, but i still have lots of fun.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Keep putting yourself out there, keep meeting people, keep looking, period.Socials, munches, swinger parties, kink communities discussions and workshops - anything like this - GO! There are lots of women out there looking for someone like you, making yourself seen and available is half the issue.

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Littleinnocentme

11 years ago

I am after the same thing but just figured most guys weren't interested in the long term commitment type relationship. Many stipulate that they only want casual on their profiles. I enjoy this lifestyle and don't want to give up the beautiful girls. I have had my heart broken a few times but determined to have fun whilst I am at it... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

...let me know !

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RHP User

11 years ago

I meant to say,good definitely NOT goof OP:-) xxQ

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RHP User

11 years ago

Here I was thinking "goof" was a new hip term for " happening " ... Was just about to google it ...😝 I actually quite liked it too....😳 Now I just feel like a " goof" 🙈

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RHP User

11 years ago

Omg I just googled " goof" how horrible ! I definitely DO NOT feel like a goof ( was thinking " goofy" as in silly ) but eek the meaning from google is terrible ... 😝

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