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How did your
February 03 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
My wife with whom I have been with for 16 or 17 years now was the one who well didn't suggest it but she was the one who attracted the 3rd person and it just happend..... (for the peoples info it was an other woman) Hence she ended up with just wanting to be with the wife. But there was no contact between her and myself. I was a bit put out at first to be honest but it was partly my fault ground rules were not set between us.However besides all that she loved it and would love to do it again or maybe with a couple so one day we will see what happens after some rules are decided apon. (I highly recomend the number one rule is make more of them! there doesnt have to be many just ones which are uncomplicated and are abided by!)Stew
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RHP User
15 years ago
She loved them but was a little over them BEEN THERE DONE THAT .. hmm i didnt remember even having one with her.. ? just kidding.. another woman yes .. another guy NO WAY gee i miss her
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RHP User
15 years ago
My ex was rather disgusted when I suggested we play outdoors. I suggested various things and usually he would just put me down with some comment about me being a slut. (And... this guy was from RHP.) Oh well.... I know there is someone somewhere that doesn't regard exhibitionism as slutty. Cheers, Sat
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss Saturn, I feel the same now with my wife now we have kids. She has seemingly shut the door on our experimentation for new things. So it is vanilla maybe once a month for now........ I just think she needs time for herself. Not sure why you had your problems though.Stew
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' My ex was rather disgusted when I suggested we play outdoors. I suggested various things and usually he would just put me down with some comment about me being a slut. (And... this guy was from RHP.) Oh well.... I know there is someone somewhere that doesn't regard exhibitionism as slutty. Cheers, Sat it is slutty, but fuck it i love that!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well tried finding the nude beach one day with a certain person, not sure if we found it but we had fun anyway ;)She knows who she is....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss Saturn how could anyone not like your exhabitionism that's the best part of a person :-) well besides those other fav parts :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
A few posts above reminded me of how once I suggested to a guy that we go down to a nudist beach and play. It was the first catch up but he was all for it. The funny thing is that I'm pretty sure it was a bit of a gay/bi meeting spot after dark and there were a lot of guys around and no other women ! The guys kepts walking off into the bushes. Full credit to the guy for not getting "cold cock" syndrome from being watched only by men. Mmmm... come to think about it... maybe it was being watched by the men that turned him NOT me ! Oh well... was fun. Cheers, Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Don't think he was turned on by the men at all, maybe by the woman enjoying it so much...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I told my ex intialy that I was not a faithful person and if he couldnt cope with the fact that I would have multiple partners he could walk out the door...he accepted (for about 7 yrs then the last 12 months went downhill) and decided to embrace an open relationship with me...it took a couple of years before he would come to clubs with me, join in 3 and 4 somes but we would engage in these activities together...that is until he oculdnt cope any more and kicked me out but thats a whole other story . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
My ex nearly busted a nut every time I so much as mentioned anything to do with a 3sum 4sum 2couples same room I couldn't even bring up about other couples experiences with it, and whether or not it added a spark/ruined it etc. If you can't even open the line of communication to discuss it, its like banging your head against a brick wall, and I think thats where resentment started kicking in . I would always listen to his curiosities or fantasies, and where I was confortable, we'd introduce them into our sex life. Ahhhh wouldn't it have been nice for it to go both ways
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RHP User
15 years ago
It should go both ways totally agree with u dontgothere
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