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How did you meet your partner?

August 27 2018

I mention this every now and then in conversations with others, about all the funny things that happened in mine and my girls life that eventually brought us together. In short we meet at a kinky fundraising event. The event was organised by a lovely couple to raise funds for a sick friend in our community. There was a few of us that organised activities we could do at this event to help in the fundraising efforts. I was a nude dessert platter, people paid a gold coin to eat a tasty dessert off of me without using their hands. My girl was one of the people who paid and tasted a treat off my body. So there were a few things that had to happen for her to get there in the first place. Firstly she would never have gotten there if it wasn’t for having joined RHP, meeting some fun people she enjoyed hanging with, venturing out to a swingers party with her friends and getting friendly with some friends of mine from the BDSM community. My girl getting interested in kink and from that swingers party being invited to her first kink event and meeting me covered in chocolate sauce. So that was our first contact, our relationship is coming up to three years old with first contact over five years ago. Lots of things happened after first contact and when I think about all those things I realise those things shaped who we are and eventually lead us back together and in a better headspace to understand that we’re meant for each other. So if it wasn’t for my girl being tied up, spanked on the butt and fucked with ice cubes by my friend at a swingers party, then me deciding to raise money by having a stack of pineapple and melon rings held up by my erect penis, topped with some sweet sauce and coconut along with various dessert nibbles all I’ve my body and allowing everyone who wanted to sample my wastes we would never have met and never had this wonderful relationship we now have. What we’re the things that brought you and your loved one together?

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

He was dating a friend of mine. I was 18 and in my final year of school. She invited me, and 4 other female friends, over to his house for the weekend (1 guy , 5 girls : lucky him) He was the only one (within the group) that had dial up Internet and we were there to play on Internet Relay Chat (MIRC). Anyway, he eyed me out and I eyed him out. He knew that I was the one he was going to marry. And 11 months later we tied the knot and have been married ever since. I had never been intimate with a guy before I met him. Needless to say, his girlfriend (my friend) was furious, but has since forgiven us both. And here we are, 22 years together, 2 kids and loving life in our new home Australia. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

So happy for you guys! A true success story where two likeminded people meet and know they’re meant for each other. There’s a misconception that this is just a sex site for physical needs and fulfilling fantasies. Some have said it’s a cold and narcissistic scene. I happen to disagree, I’ve made great friends and had wonderful lovers from here. One of the greatest connections I’ve had in years was from this site. Unfortunately not everyone is open to the possibilities and feel safer swimming on the surface. Congratulations to you both!!! You can share the best of both worlds together 🥂🍾💝 - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

Met in Grade 9, both 14, became best mates. Wasn't until we were at a School Rodeo when we were 16 that we decided to have a sneaky make out session .... heck everyone else was, cant be left out lol. We obviously enjoyed each other very much as we've been joined at the hip ever since. Together 22 years, married 17 years, 3 gorgeous babies, 2 sausage dogs and still best mates and enjoying every adventure we go on together 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

It feels great to be joined at the proverbial hip, as two halves that make the whole : partners, lovers, friends, husband & wife. It makes us complete , we belong , we feel. Yet there are others, on here, that scoff at the idea and can think of nothing worse. But each to his / her own we guess. - Posted from rhpmobile

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FeistyFatty

7 years ago

I agree, each their own at the end of the day. My hubby and I love the closeness and friendship we've shared for over half our lives already. But throughout our explorations together we've also learnt that embracing a more "monogamish" relationship has enhanced our bond. I very much understand the feeling of being complete as a pairing😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

We think that those that are against the concept, believe that if one is “joined at the hip” one has no independence , no mind of ones own, no personal choices. But it’s not like that, at least not for us. We work apart (during the day) and come together as a cohesive unit when we get home on the evening. It feels good to bond and be “one”. It’s certainly worked for us and we could not imagine our lives without one another. It’s like losing a limb we think - Posted from rhpmobile

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honkytonk

7 years ago

i was working as a waitress in a cocktail bar, when i met you

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RHP User

7 years ago

When we were 16 at a part time job. Been together ever since ❤️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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time4us4play

7 years ago

In hospital. I was a trainee nurse, his grandma was my patient. I was 17, he was 19, still together ❤️🙂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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Lovinit28andKC72

7 years ago

It's wonderful to hear how some of you found each other at such a young age and stood the test of time. I've personally had two failed marriages and a broken engagement before now. All I can say is that I believe I've learn lessons from each relationship and become a better person because of it. I'm just a late bloomer you could say, or finally getting some maturity :) KC72

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RHP User

7 years ago

Well does anyone here believe in arranged marriage? Well that's what my wife and I had. Met on the arranged day with parents and decided we were to get married and got married 3 months later. That was 13 years back. The love and care still remains but sadly the lust and passion has faded. - Posted from rhpmobile

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Lovinit28andKC72

7 years ago

I don’t believe it’s right for “me”, but I never grew up in a culture that did that. I’m not one to say whether I believe it’s right or wrong, it’s just not for me. I’ve read and seen the odd documentary of families in India who have arranged marriages as part of their culture and they seemed happy with this being part of their life. It’s good to hear you still feel love for each other. Regardless how you both got together, you need to work at keeping the passion and lust happening. After a time we tend to take each other for granted. KC72

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