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How common is anal sex really??
February 02 2018
Previously it was only something that I had done with my husband. Used to do it sometimes but not all the time. After 1 very bad experience I didn't want to do it anymore and I still got pressured to do so. Not together anymore.
So I decided to give it another go and it was good although I wasn't as relaxed as I would like. It is still not something I want to do all the time though. To my FWB this is anal is a normal occurrence. I feel it is something that I would only do with someone I know well and trust. Part of the problem I think is it features in porn so much and it is something that has to be taken slowly. Too rough and not enough lube and it can really cause some pain and damage. I get that it is just another experience and has become more common although being a bit older it was always something that seemed naughty and taboo.
It carries with the extra risks of health problems and STD's. Every guy who has approached me has asked if I like it?? Is it something people do often??
Noticed some women do not do it at all for whatever reason, some have had bad experiences also. What is the fascination with it and why do the guys or girls like it so much? In forums have noticed some guys don't like it. Just curious??
Comments
RHP User
7 years ago
I like it! It's nice and tight in there, that's why guys like it. With women I've met I'd say it's about half like it, for some it's really taboo! It's not something I have to do though, if she likes it great, if not then I don't go there.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Just my personal choice.
What makes me laugh is the amount of people who have marked in their profile that they like to 'give it' but not 'take it'.
But there again, their choice. 😂
LC.RHP User
7 years ago
Take it no! 😨
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We’d be lucky to do it once a year, it can be an intense and erotic experience if you prepare correctly and use plenty of lube etc. Personally I find it’s too tight, and that can make it too painful, I don’t see what all the fuss is about anal.
I can’t imagine why guys would prefer anal over a delicious, wet pussy?
Mr D
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Not given it and don't ever intend to.
- Posted from rhpmobile
EarthQueen
7 years ago
Quoting 'Lovechild17'
What makes me laugh is the amount of people who have marked in their profile that they like to 'give it' but not 'take it'.
But there again, their choice. 😂LC Yes agree that all the givers should be takers at least once just so they know how it feels when they try to go in and bang away like a hammer on a nail. Gently does it. The recieiver sets the tone always or its not pleasant just painful. I've liked it with a good listener but only ever done it with two people so its not common for me. One was awful the other was good. Definitely these are the times where smaller is good. I prefer to keep something like that for a regular ongoing/permanent partner. You need to be able to trust them and be relaxed. Will be interested to here from any younger women/couples because I wonder if it may be more common in the younger age group ,maybe due to the influence of porn as they grew up?RHP User
7 years ago
People who tick give, but not receive.
Have all the givers ever tried taking before? Even just once so they know what they are doing?
Cause their profiles read like, 'happy to stick my dick in your arse, just don't even try to come near mine!' Lol.
I'm probably gonna upset a few people saying that but I don't care.
LC.RHP User
7 years ago
Giver must be happy to take? You do realise that not all bodies are the same, and if you enjoy receiving so be it, it's a wonderful experience for you. Some may have also tried receiving but have found no joy there. Or are willing to try but have found no one, we don't all get what we want :p
Personally OP I've only given once, at a party and as part of a DP. Of course I've certainly seen it on other occasions.
What about fellatio? Straight men are happy to receive but not to give? Cunnilingus is not the same thing. What's wrong with them? :p
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
It’s very common from my experience, men and women, giving and taking, everyone I’ve met are have been very versatile
- Posted from rhpmobile
gazpacho
7 years ago
Pretty fucking common in my circle of friends.
Hugs
GazRHP User
7 years ago
not give, but only with an experienced partner, and there aren't too many of them. Reality is there are very few women who like anal, hence very few guys who have the experience with it. I had a few partners who loved it and who I trusted, it was amazing with them, but have also had a few guys attempting when they don't know what they're doing. You know, no lube lol try to shove it in and fuck away. That kind of approach usually lasts a few seconds before I stop them.
Interesting, I was just thinking about this yesterday, if I would want a long term partner who liked anal. I guess it will depend on the dynamic, how much he wants it, that's a turn on in itself, but tbh I could take or leave the prep routine 😉
AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Dating guys, it's not a date till he's in my date
RHP User
7 years ago
Annie.........such a way with words
I have pegged so Giving and receiving was not an issue. I have also done it in a 3sum. I am not against it and we are all different and have different tastes.
I guess previously too I was unaware really of how much prep should be done. Being with someone who does have a lot of experience with it makes a big difference. Anal play and penetration is not everyone's cup of tea same as giving and receiving oral etc. Whatever floats ya boat!!
MBRHP User
7 years ago
Love your new profile Pic
RHP User
7 years ago
I think you would be surprised of how many guys would try pegging
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Lol, hubby and I do it occasionally, maybe every few months. I generally don’t do it with people on a first meet, but confess I’ve broken my own rule a few times.
dP, well it’s essential 😂
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I've only not done it with I think a couple women but that was probably because I only saw them a couple times and just never got round to it.
I only ever asked to do it with my first ever girlfriend, it didn't go that well, and subsequently awhile later when having something put up my own ass for the first time did I really realise why, haha! I highly recommend trying that for anyone who needs to better understand the need for plenty of lube and taking it slowly. It all depends on the woman though, people are all different, some are able to relax their anus very easily and so anal is no problem for them (and I don't just mean because they've had practice, literally even the first time they find it quite easy) likewise many have real difficulty relaxing even after plenty of practice.
I don't know why nearly all the women I've been with have been quite into anal, could just be random chance, I don't think it's an age thing though as I've run the gamut from 19 to mid fifties and there didn't seem to be any difference there.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Probably helps that I'm not a monster shlong or anything, haha!
Without getting TMI about numbers I'd say probably 95% easily of the women I've been with have wanted to have anal sex at least a few times.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
The potential for discomfort and the rest?
Naaaaa... I'll just keep on trying everything else in the Kama Sutra and hoping one day to wear out my collection of silk ropes, blindfolds and sizzling scented candles.
Some things are just too...kinky!
🍇🍡🍓RHP User
7 years ago
A no from me, have tried it, but not a fan at all :(
Mrs ERHP User
7 years ago
I’m always in the shit...it’s only the depth that varies 😂😂
- Posted from rhpmobile
Katkat
7 years ago
Deal breaker for me I tell them no look around else where or look for for another lady simple if that’s what you’re after. I’ve also had men ask me to peg them I’m like eewwwww yuck not my thing that’s a turn off for me. But for other ones out there is a turn on and different I guess each to their own.
Female is different though so yeah.
- Posted from rhpmobileSawadee
7 years ago
would convince me. Never held any appeal whatsoever.. Maybe Elle McPherson or the Trivago girl if they paid me and twisted my arm far enough up my back. But apart from that ' it's not going to happen ?
The_Phoenix
7 years ago
Experimented with anal before, giving and receiving, butt plugs and inserts etc, but it’s not something I push at all. A little butt play is fun with a trusting partner. Gentle gentle though.
BB
- Posted from rhpmobile
bubbles_n_flash
7 years ago
We got his and her anal plugs for Christmas.
Always agree that what ever is good for one should be good for the other.
Over time Mrs has started requesting and instigating anal more than Mr.
Same thought process goes for threesomes. If Mr wants another woman it’s only fair that Mrs is allowed to have another man.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
If its on the menu I will order it from time to time.
All I can say is prep is the key to a positive experience.
- Posted from rhpmobile
madotara69
7 years ago
first ten years or so together, Tara absolutely disliked anal sex, thought it was painful, unhygienic, porn actresses paid to look like they enjoy anal, just a no all round and I accepted her choice.
One day at lunch a girlfriend/ work colleague and a gay couple of men gave Tara an anatomy lesson and whatever else, nothing to do with me, Tara came home and out of the blue asked me to fuck her arse, I was caught by surprise and diddled around which she had no patience for and told me to just do it already. So I found out then she liked it, she went bonkers and in some ways as wild her orgasms can be.
Anal is now something Tara enjoys as part with sex, it was her choice, so I don't see why I should have to receive anal as some suggest, in all fairness.
Mado
Mado Tara xxRHP User
7 years ago
But would only ever do it again if the other person found it pleasurable.
I mean why would you do it if the other person didnt want to but you pressured them into it. I dont know, doesnt seem like something that would be fun if the other party wasnt into it
I am thick so i think it makes it doubly worse as well. Theres only so much lube can do in that region.RHP User
7 years ago
With both my FWB's, it's something we would do the majority of our encounters. And it's something I personally enjoy, and I orgasm every time.
Having said that, it wasn't always the case. My first experiences were not pleasant and were very painful. It took a connection and communication before it worked for me.
Both FWB's are open to receiving as well, although we haven't gotten as far as pegging. That's still to come, and I'm looking forward to it ☺️
At the end of day everyone is different, and just because it floats my boat doesn't mean that it has to float yoursRHP User
7 years ago
The fact is, we will never know either how much It happens or if anybody enjoys it. I'm a homo, so I have experience and in the case of this thread, an outsiders objectivity. For the person taking it, anal sex is never a pleasure. For some men anal sex only interests them BECAUSE it hurts you. Whatever the politics, there are men who get a kick out of making you suffer. When I was a kid my brother had a phrase him and his teenage mates would use to describe a woman they thought was, to put it bluntly, an easy fuck. They would look at a girl and say
"I bet she does anal!"
For a lot of young men it becomes like. challenge. Most men, don't even like it. But getting a woman to do it is the only thing that was important.
For me, getting fucked up the butt never had much appeal! I've only done it when the guy I've been with has obviously really wanted my arse. And like the total hero that I am, I've bitten that pillow and taken it so they're happy.RHP User
7 years ago
I have no interest whatsoever in anal sex with a woman. Even if she asked, I'd have to go off and have a coffee and think about it, which would probably kill the mood.
Most of my male friends say I don't know what I'm missing, that most women love it and I should just give it a go. This is not my observation however, the only time anal is ever mentioned during sex it is when she is saying ''I'm not into anal so please don't try'', followed by me enthusiastically agreeing.compressor
7 years ago
to be honest I have never tried it which I guess is not the norm. would I? maybe in the right situation
WishingWell
7 years ago
I don’t usually post on these forums but so many women have
had such negative encounters with anal that I wanted to share that it doesn’t
have to be all bad, but can be such an intimate and truly enjoyable experience
with the right person.
I tried anal in my twenties and didn’t like it at all! But
was recently very curious about it and had my first anal orgasm in September
last year and it was DEVINE! It makes such a difference if you are really
turned on by rimming/fingers, then lots of lube and slow stretching allows for
you to really relax and enjoy the sensation. Toys are also a great way to slowly explore
anally with a partner (or alone) before having a rock hard cock in there..
The guys that want to stick it in ‘straight up’ and start
pumping your butt, I suggest sticking a dry toy in THEIR ass so they know what
it feels like. A caring and experienced playmate can make all the difference in
receiving REAL pleasure from anal sex. I will never look back now ;P
AKAHunk
7 years ago
When I was younger it was incredibly rare (and incredibly awesome haha), but I've found as I've gotten older it's definitely more common. Of the women I've been with since my mid 30's I'd say 80-90% of them have not only done it, but actually really wanted it, which is the ultimate turn on. You've just got to be very observant of your partner's reactions and judge if you need to take it easier...or not!
I agree with Madotara...if your female partner wants it there's no need for you to have it, but if she's only willing to try it if she can have your ass first, well that's fair enough! I love anal play done to me and have gone as far as being pegged once, and would love to do that some more.
happy0450
7 years ago
Interesting question OP
By chance, Men’s Health, the oricle with repect to all things blokey when it comes to food, sex, relationships, and, well men’s health.... had an article online this week re position preference between the genders.
1,000 Superdrug (a large US/European discount pharmacy chain) customers gave their view. With Anal only 12% of woman v 89% of guys rated it as a preference. That is lower than my own experience and I can imagine there are significant cultural biases. Interestingly there were large gaps between guys and girls on almost all positions, reinforcing why assumption is the parent of all f...ups and why great sex requires really good communication, trust and time.RHP User
7 years ago
The question mark at the end of your sentence makes me think you’re not actually sure and perhaps deep down you may want this to happen?
RHP User
7 years ago
But like everything else to do with any sexual encounter we all have our preferences. I guess if the lady enjoyed it and asked me I would say yes as I get pleasure from her pleasure but I'd take my sweet time warming her up first, no different to just shoving your shlong in a dry pussy it's going to hurt the lass. Can't say I'd be keen on being the givee but maybe with the right woman and a rather small strap on I may be coaxed possibly. One never knows what they like until they have experienced it but I'd want to be damn comfortable and trusting of said woman.
I like how hithereU explains her experience as one lover may be bad and put you off but another may have you squealing in delight. Horses for courses peopleRHP User
7 years ago
In the end...it can be a shitty deal.
Shuddap...somebody was bound to say it!
💩😱😒😆RHP User
7 years ago
Have tried a few times but do not enjoy it at all. It's quite painful and really kills the mood for me.
- Posted from rhpmobilemadotara69
7 years ago
Put the Roy and HG commentary to that notion and reckon you’ve got him there.
- Posted from rhpmobile
FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Not common for us or with any of my playmates. I rarely get asked tbh. We've do have anal sex from time to time (rare).... hubby says it's a bit tight and I'm not a huge fan but he's also hapoy to receive so it's all fair. I don't think it's anywhere near as frequent or common in "everyday sex" as some may elude.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
yeh we are the same do it occasionally and it is great when there are two men inside her at one time.
Id rather fuck pussy though, the only bit thats tight is the opening usualy in my experienceRHP User
7 years ago
Meet a lady who never experienced anal and wanted to try , lots of preparation to relax ur partner and you will know when she’s relax and ready lube and go slow, well she loved it and now want it more, again some women had bad experience and now are very reluctant to have anal sex
I guess 90% of women love anal sex
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I will never forget when we first tried anal sex. Hurt like hell and i couldnt walk properly for a week!!! Wifey thought it was hilarious. 😅😅😅😅
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Only way I'm guaranteed to get off lol. Love it ❤️
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Women love it.. When done right... 😉
- Posted from rhpmobile
joanne1991
7 years ago
I can vouch that anal is great so long as your comfortable with your partner, I'm a firm believer in trying everything at least once before commenting or judging
Minx99
7 years ago
I'd honestly find it odd if a guy was against it. It's like the additional kink level for me, and I'd feel hard done by if I didn't get that as an option from a regular Fb.
Bearing in mind that for me, I didn't partake until a few years ago, I am definitely for.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I love it. For a number of reasons in a number of ways. Giving, rimming receiving, the whole thing. I do know what it feels like to have something in mine, so I appreciate that it sometimes doesn't feel right, but really comes down to patience and lots and lots of lube. There is also a certain connection that can happen with someone feeling comfortable enough to have you somewhere that can be so sensitive and if done wrong can cause pain.
RHP User
7 years ago
Not something I do all the time but in the right circumstances and with the right person I enjoy it. Have had a couple of anal orgasms and they were pretty mind-blowing.
Keen to try pegging some day as well.RHP User
7 years ago
If you want to find it...its very common. I usually ask if its of interest to the woman im talking to. Some say not on first meet.....but have made many a woman changer her mind quick with the right play..and thats what its about.....lots of play rimming etc to make her or him relaxed and eager to want it. No rushing and it will happen for you.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Not piles of fun because that's what I get and my partner's too big for me now. New partner.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
That’s a no for me too..... only tried it once..... with someone VERY special.... and for him - I would have tried anything.....
:)
- Posted from rhpmobileMILFandMr
7 years ago
Definitely a regular thing at our place!
My wife has the most magnificent ass I have ever seen and it would be a crime against humanity not to enjoy it and she loves it too.
We do love to do it on cam for hot couples and ladies, often at their request and they love to watch! Never has anyone in our company or on a cam not been keen so we suspect a lot of people are into it.
Krystal and Dan
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
If your comfortable with someone and preparation is good and the fella knows what hes doing which is rare.
No problem in the past.
These days it would have to be with a long term person as I have scar tissue so very slow and gentle.
I find a lot of fellows just expect it or hit you up at first chat.
My standard answer these days is no sorry and no Im not a porn queen. Lol.
😁
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Just when I thought Minx99 couldn't get any hotter she writes that above lol.
You wouldn't be hard done by by me .. wow 🔥RHP User
7 years ago
Both of us enjoy both give and take and toy play.
It comes down to being comfortable with your partner, preparation before hand such as douching, good lube and taking it slow and working your way up.
Mind blowing orgasms await. 😁
- Posted from rhpmobile
sensualcple2play
7 years ago
from personal experience found on average 1 in 4 liked it or did, but those stats mostly come from people met on dating sites so prob not true to the Muggles world :)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
would get such a variety of answers.
Thanks peeps.
I find it amazing that even some of the guys are not into it and I personally feel it is a very intimate thing for someone to experience.
My generation gap is showing I guess as pointed out some of the younger among us don't really give it a second thought.
I still don't think it's as common as it is made out to be and it seems the majority of ladies posting are against although a small indication on this particular forum as to what really goes on out in the real world.
RealPleasure I think your 90% is way off!!
Cheers MBRHP User
7 years ago
Every woman I've slept with more that 5 times has been into it. So thats maybe 80ish at this stage.
- Posted from rhpmobileAnnieWhichway
7 years ago
About guys not knowing what they are doing.
It's your hole/body, take charge. Only you know the thresholds. Put him on his back and you do the penetration at your pace.
We all have different holes. No one else can know if you are feeling pain.RHP User
7 years ago
I tried it few times, and never liked the smell of it. Yakk.
- Posted from rhpmobileAKAHunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'd_cros'
Definitely a regular thing at our place!
My wife has the most magnificent ass I have ever seen and it would be a crime against humanity not to enjoy it and she loves it too.
We do love to do it on cam for hot couples and ladies, often at their request and they love to watch! Never has anyone in our company or on a cam not been keen so we suspect a lot of people are into it.
Krystal and Dan
- Posted from rhpmobile
You're spot on Dan, that would be criminal not too....what a derriere!AKAHunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'Andyjayyy'
Just when I thought Minx99 couldn't get any hotter she writes that above lol.
You wouldn't be hard done by by me .. wow 🔥
I couldn't agree with you moreRHP User
7 years ago
We do it on a regular basis and Mrs Bentley genuinely enjoys it. Wether a woman enjoys it is SIGNIFICANTLY impacted by the experience level of the guy. If a guy doesn't know what he's doing it can be a horrible experience for the woman. I have done it regularly with every GF or FWB since a teenager and a lot of them were first timers and loved doing it regularly. I feel sorry for ladies who have tried it with an inexperienced man and think That's what it is like - it isn't.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I am happy too give and take.... either way I like it 😊🤣😂
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I was in long term relationships (4) for 20 out of the last 22 years, and only ever did anal after around 6 months. . When i was sure they cared enough to stop if i wasnt enjoying it..
But in this little relationshippy type thing im in it was maybe 2-3 weeks.. i was keen and he was too. Hes WAYYYY bigger than my other partners but somehow it just works, he turns me on just.so.much. that we really do it quite often like 2-4 times a month.
I freaking love it.. my pussy drips onto his belly while im on top its stellar!
Anyway, theres my two cents.. 😙😏 Phoenix
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I had a fwb who wanted to try it but wanted to give it to me with a strap on as well. Thought I'd give it a go, I wouldn't rule out doing it again and she enjoyed giving and receiving. I'm told an erotic massage and a bit of finger play first relaxes you first. I know for next time
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Love giving anything anal. Love bi guys such a turn on and I am currently anal training. I’ve found an older man to experiment with and train with. I enjoy the butt plug and can’t wait to start enjoying the full experience of anal. Can’t wait to try pegging!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We don’t do it often, but when we do, Mrs 300 loves it. But it is a case of handle with care. And given the choice of DPP vs DP, DPP wins hands down.
- Posted from rhpmobilegazpacho
7 years ago
Not picking a fight but you said something I’ve never thought. You said “For the person taking it, anal sex is never a pleasure. For some men anal sex only interests them BECAUSE it hurts you.“
That’s an interesting perspective from a top but I’m not convinced the first sentence is correct. One on one hardly does it for me. I get pleasure from being overstimulated.... so the more the merrier, and both hands full, thank you. That’s about getting lost in the moment... not about pain. Besides, after a very short period of time... “what pain?” Ease on in there as far as you can. I’m usually dripping for it. That’s pleasure.
Also, bi guys tend to make love. Have you noticed? If you can generalise, so can I. They’re not about bringing on the pain, so they’ll treat your butt “like a lady”. Better still is going from her arse straight into his. He says something like “Fuck! Did this guy do that to you?” Etc. lol. That’s pleasure.
Hugs
Gaz
You_and_I
7 years ago
In my experience I'd say its 35% yes, 35% no way, and the other 30% would try it with a respectful partner but definitely not on a first meet. I'm all for it but that's not my choice :)
RHP User
7 years ago
As a Bi guy i think if you have been on the receiving end it gives you a far better appreciation for penetrative sex wether with a guy or girl.
The right person and preparation can make an amazing experience trust me!
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
For girls like me it's the only way. I was introduced to it by a very skilled man who taught me how beautiful it could be. I have been very careful about who I allow ever since but find guys are generally very considerate about my comfort and it is most enjoyable. They all love it of course because it's so tight. I find some are too urgent and want to get in too quick. My current lover is willing to take the time and slowly relax me so we don't even need lube. I think to myself, it's the only fanny I've got so you enjoy it while I feel like I'm being laid like a lady.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
With the right person Anal is an incredibly mind blowing experience... not all guys are great at and don't understand the need to go slowwwww... trust me .. grab yourself a womaniser for your clit while he's giving you anal and OMG... fuuuccccckkkkk 😇😈
RHP User
7 years ago
Do it, love it, usually with long term lovers or when I can trust who I am with. I would say it's a 40% chance the guys had previous experience with it and no one has said no to doing it when given the opportunity.
- Posted from rhpmobileSirTwistopher
7 years ago
It's never gone well for me. I often try avoid it. Lol
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Like another member who wrote before me, I don’t normally comment in the forums either, but wanted to give my thoughts too.
I think like most sexual acts, it comes down to open mindedness, and the partners you’ve had and experimented with over time.
For me, it’s a YES:)
A lady I had as a lover once, years ago, wanted me to experience the pleasures of anal, ie, me receiving the pleasure.
As a younger man, I was nervous, but willing, and I can say, from touching, fingers, toys, rimming, are all incredibly arousing for me, and, as most have said, it comes to patience, preparation, and lube;)
Anal certainly makes me cum so very intensely, and, of course, after learning the receiving pleasures, I have learnt to enjoy giving the same.
I think it’s another wonderful dimension, it’s that “ taboo “ factor, it feels different, and it is a very exciting act to enjoy for both people, from my experience:)
In closing, I’d say 90% are willing and all I’ve shared anal with have loved it😊
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Butt plugs?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
My ex loved it and after a few painful starts I learnt to relax and enjoy it. I also enjoy wearing butt plugs during the day... I have been with guys that don’t want to do it and others who have asked me to use dildos on them as they also enjoy it... each to their own i guess
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We just did anal for the first time and i surprisingly loved it and J gave me the biggest creampie
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I love to give and take, hell ill try anything 7 times 😊
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Have done it a few time's only if my partner is into it.
Had the table turned on me a little while back she enjoyed it as long as she was able to then peg me.
Must say first time was not a fan second time enjoyed it haven't had it done since then.
- Posted from rhpmobile
teachme383
7 years ago
I love receiving anal, whether it is from fingers, tongues, toys or a penis, and it gives me more pleasure than any other type of sexual activity. As long as there is plenty of lube, and patience to begin with, then it should be nothing but pleasurable for both parties.
RHP User
7 years ago
My wife never really liked anal till i found special anal lube and learned to prepare her using my fingers first then a toy then slowly working up to going in my self.. she likes it now and we do it often now ☺
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
It is on the cards for me to receive anal from my hubby .. but only him.
I've got to be in the mood for anal and he takes time preparing me and getting me ready for his entry. It feels great because like the OP writes.. It is a little taboo, and it is something that is kept special between hubby and me.
It isn't essential though and not the basis of our sex life. It is a boundary when it comes to playing wth others. And because of that, it helps us both feel safe.
I've always liked a little anal play - it is so sensitive but cock entry is only every few months or less.
It is all an experience - so experience what you want to and feel safe enough to change your mind if you want to.
- Posted from rhpmobile
Susie1980
7 years ago
Love, love, love. It's actually my most favourite thing. The orgasm is so much more intense. Luckily I have had some VERY good partners who know how to take their time.
I would also say the majority of lovers I have been with like something in return. Whether it be one finger or more.
I think it just depends on the circles u run in.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
You can play not penetrate
Touching and exploring does not have to involve mad pounding...ask you partner about boundaries as touching and kissing is intense....entry is not a must unless it’s well lubed and relaxed.
Much prefer the play and feel rather than the enter and hurt.
Lick kiss suck and enjoy the partners response.RHP User
7 years ago
Occasionally and yes you need to be relaxed. A few wines help!
- Posted from rhpmobile
Ashybines
7 years ago
As a receiver.
It's good way to help a stressed out man by receiving it....guys like the tightness I suppose
- Posted from rhpmobileAKAHunk
7 years ago
Quoting 'MissSunnyCoast81'
With the right person Anal is an incredibly mind blowing experience... not all guys are great at and don't understand the need to go slowwwww... trust me .. grab yourself a womaniser for your clit while he's giving you anal and OMG... fuuuccccckkkkk 😇😈
What is a womaniser (in this context!)?AKAHunk
7 years ago
A few people here have mentioned butt plugs, and wearing them all day. I've always been curious, doesn't whatever lube you've used to get the plug in dry out and make it incredibly difficult and painful to remove again??
RHP User
7 years ago
We are doing it more often as we get older. When first together it was a rarity and wife needed to be incredibly horny and would ask for it. Over the years we have tried lots together and anal rimming and sex has become more often. Just steady as it goes for both of us
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We both anal giving and receiving. She has her favorite strapless strapon. And when it's her turn I am more than happy to play the role. She knows how massage my prostate and make curl up like a little girl
- Posted from rhpmobile
Rlee552
7 years ago
It’s a personal preference. A lot of ladies enjoy it, but a number don’t (often because they have had a bad experience).
It is one of those areas you most definitely don’t make assumptions around. I always ask - including whether they like rimming. If a person is into it, anal play can be a lot of fun.
On the giving and receiving part, I have done both and enjoyed both incredibly. That being said I can see as a matter of personal preference why one person may get enjoyment and another person might not. If the reason one person doesn’t like to receive and loves giving though is because he believes it is disgusting to receive ... well that is pure hypocrisy.RHP User
7 years ago
RHP User
7 years ago
Our body has a natural reflex to protect when imminent butt hurt is in progress. I know some people who suffer form this on a daily basis.
madotara69
7 years ago
one were to raise the hands above the shoulders and wave them all about !
Would it be considered as a gloat ?
Mado
Mado Tara xxRHP User
7 years ago
I have worked out how to relax for it. I masturbate as he slowly slides in. He has to go very slowly & stop & hold until I’m completely relaxed. I always orgasm very quickly though. The person receiving has to be in control. I don’t like it to last too long but I have found most guys can’t hold off too long once they are in there.
I like it as an occasional thing but wouldn’t do it every time.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Nothing wrong with a bit of butt hurt, it's a fine line between pleasure and pain 😈
- Posted from rhpmobile
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