How SAFE Is Your "Safe Sex"?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Great question, we've always wondered how many people, that say they do, actually practice "Always For All Activities" safe sex.We like the idea of having our playpal present with their test results before the meet, something along the lines of what we read on the following thread which you can copy and paste into your browser if you'd like to check it out @ http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/STD-tests-23956. There might be an extra benefit of sorting the sheep from the wolves considering that anyone prepared to go to the extent of having tests done and presenting them before any possibility of a meet is likely to turn up after all that!Cheers n 'ugsPP

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I'm not so concerned about all the std's with one exception. HIV. Fortunately you have to be a bit unlucky to catch it. I try to wear a condom for penetrative vaginal or anal intercourse. I try to insist that guys wear a condom when penetrating me. This strategy significantly reduces my risks but I'm not always a good boy. I don't know why it happens but sometimes I'm unsafe.... if you contract an STD your immunity to HIV is dramatically reduced and that's why I get tested for STD's every 8 weeks. I've been very careful this last 4 weeks since my last test. Hugs Gaz

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Thanks Peachypear for the link. Suggest Couple30s read it as its pretty deep...We always insist on seeing written STD tests with all new play mates. Even then its still risky. As Gazz said there is a time lag and what happens after the test is taken and before they see you. I thought this subject was done. Mars    http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Forum/STD-tests-23956

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Must say guys and gals, never trust anyone that says "I"m clean".   I have a test at the start of each new partner, and at the finish. My second last one, before my last partner was the same.   Sure enough the first few times were "no glove, no love!" Then as it built up to a level of trust she assured me she was clean.   Took a test a few weeks later just to be safe, as I had noticed a few symptoms, sure enough I was given a dose of the clap.   All from one sexual encounter without gloving up!   It was caught early and treated and now I am clean again. I notified her, ended our agreement due to a lack of trust. She told me she had only had protected sex twice since her last partner, which was also around the time of her last test.   She had her test, came up positive, was given the meds, but has failed to go back for another.   Why is there this mentality in society still? There are ads on the radio, T.V. and everywhere you go in a club, are people just ignoring the warning signs and playing russian roulette?   It's great to see that so many people on here insist on written tests before any play because this is now a path I am taking.   Learn from your mistakes or you will waste your experiences.....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  mc21283, great post and yes there is still this mentality in society unfortunately. I have at times been in contact with men and then when i mention condoms etc they just dont want to meet me at all. I just cannot understand their mentality.

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  fl37ch

  16 years ago

  always seem s to be the men in trouble !!! but let me throw it back and say how do all these 'so-called' bisexual have safe sex with another woman...are they really bi?? i mean puss on puss surely exchanges they same body fluids that dicks do !! i wonder??!! LOL

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