How Long... Duration?

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  Enjoylifealways

  10 years ago

  No idea We are busy enjoying ourself not watching the clock. I know the longer we are married the longer the session are.

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  DynamicCouple36

  10 years ago

  If we have had a busy day and are tired, it might just be a quickie. We do however enjoy longer sessions , that involve lots of foreplay and building the sexual tension, arousal & excitement, which then results in longer, more intense orgasms for us both. Typically an hour or more, for these longer sessions. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Muso..... I look at things a little differently when it relates to definitions.... and use two words as reference points. Sex..... & ..... Foreplay Explanation.... the noun "sex" is defined as : - physical activity between people involving the sexual organs.... the noun "foreplay" is defined as : - mutual sexual stimulation preceding intercourse (*a definition I have trouble accepting) If foreplay is part of sex, and if we accept, as I do, that the brain is the most important sexual organ, followed by the skin..... which are both relevant far before the sexual genital organs are..... ... then to me it seems logical that foreplay involves pretty much every activity which connects people who are, or will become lovers...... and sex, is the 'everything' between two intimate people. So to me, foreplay and sex, means talking and bonding, holding hands and walking together, sitting snuggled on the couch laughing, kissing, arguing and making up, flirting, etc. DG * the reason I don't accept the foreplay definition, is that sometimes that foreplay to me is designed purely to stimulate the other person.... a 'give' situation.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Anything from 20 minutes to 4 hours. From your post OP you seem to suggest that couples do the same thing/time over and over. Couples are usually busy, possibly with a young family, they do it when they can for as long or short as they geel or have time for. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  patch4733

  10 years ago

  It is not about time, it is all about sharing and enjoying the moment. We enjoy Tantric sex. We spend a lot of time on foreplay, sex and after. But the occasional impromptu, urgent event is also welcome.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I'm sure I can last at least 3 minutes.........or definitely 2 minutes! But who's counting?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  It depends on how tired we are. On week days it can be a quick or it can go for hours. On weekends we can be like rabbits and spend ages in the bed using toys and counting the amount of orgasims I have before delving into the main event ;) but for exact duration we don't know nor do we really care! If the sex is great then who cares! Tam xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I agree with those who say that 'having sex' isn't just the point from which a 'permanent couple' go to bed (or shower together) till they both either 'turn over' or 'spoon' (or whatever) and go off to sleep. 'The Dance' can take in much more than that. It can begin before you see each other or utter your first words. I suppose my purpose was to get an idea of any differences (that may form a 'pattern') between a couple who, for instance, had kids to see to, those who both worked, those with jobs of varying responsibility and stress or any differences (again that one can discern a specific 'pattern') that might apply to an age group. I don't 'watch the clock' either, when having sex (or making love), whatever the process might be referred to under given circumstances. Although with a 'permanent couple' (as I loosely define as married or committed to a life-time relationship) I would hope we are talking 'making love'... (I see a difference between 'having sex' and 'making love'). I hope that clarifies a little.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Fr33Spirits' Anything from 20 minutes to 4 hours. From your post OP you seem to suggest that couples do the same thing/time over and over. Couples are usually busy, possibly with a young family, they do it when they can for as long or short as they geel or have time for. - Posted from rhpmobile I'm sorry, but it's possible I've simply asked the wrong question or chosen the wrong group, maybe. My apologies for not being as specific as I needed to be. Or possibly requesting something that's not as simple as it first seemed. It seems some have the idea that this post (or it could be any other for that matter) seems to be all about 'an answer' that the OP wants or needs to a specific issue or a request made out of ignorance or lack of understanding... Sometimes (at least with me), it can simply be a curiosity, an interest in what the 'important concerns' are for some people, as opposed to others... I'm aware of the things that couples (in general) get up to, having been married twice for a total of 21 years and having been in other long term relationships. So, I know there are all kinds of issues that affect this particular activity when you are a couple with kids, without kids, with working hours clashing and all the other considerations. I thought it would be a relatively easy request, but obviously, I haven't thought it through as far as I should have. Thank you...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  100% pleasure - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  This is the time to enjoy,if it's 10 mins or 4 hours, it's the best time you'll have being awakeMust admit I've looked t clock but only to see time as we both hVe to be up in morning, so funny when you realize you hVe to be up in few hours

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