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Hotwifing/Cuckolding/StagVixen/Bull Clarification
March 29 2022
We are quite green to the scene (Mr here) and I would like some help in finding and understanding the correct terminology to help us communicate effectively.
Here’s my thoughts on the titles options (in very simple form)
Hotwifing - wife has sex with another male while husband watches but doesn’t join in.
Cuckolding - similar to above but with some power exchange going between both males.
StagVixen - husband and another male both fuck wife together. The stag wants to watch his vixen with another man but is very much apart of it all.
Bull - Single, well built male that joins couples. Not specific to cuckolding, as in a bull with a StagVixen couple is right.
I’m interested in a StagVixen scenario, just wanting to make sure I’m communicating correctly. Do bulls assume if you’re interested in them that you’re a duck couple?
Anyway, thanks for taking the time and I look fir to reading some comments.
Cheers all you sexy f#*kers x
Comments
RHP User
3 years ago
Spellcheck: ‘cuck’ & ‘forward’
Cucknshells
3 years ago
Labels are useful in finding liked minded people but kinks are very individual. We are in a cuckold relationship but our kinks are specific to us and may be very different to another cuckold couple. I wouldn't personally assume anything. It comes down to communication. Lots of communication.
At the end of the day don't we all just want to meet someone who is on the same page, respectful, honest and someone we connect with mentally and physically.
Good luck in your search. I did notice you wrote I'm interested. I have found personally that having the other half be involved in the searching helps a lot.
ShellsSawadee
3 years ago
I think your interpretations are pretty well on tbe money.. The only thing l feel strongly about is the Cuckold ? Its my understanding a cuckold like to feel humiliated and thats definately not me / us ? Any ventures we had was always for tbe excitement and fun.. nothing to do with humility. I like to see my wife enjoying herself., so probally Vixon / Stag if anything. Although l dont always need to be involved so then its Hotwife...
F22M35FOR3SUM
3 years ago
Just personal opinion here but the cuckolding is more the female being dominant over her partner... Its not usually up to the bull to try and humiliate or be dominant over the cuck.
As with everything, critical thing is finding someone genuine who happy to help fulfil your fantasy... there are a lot of desperate guys who see it as a way to get laid and aren't really into the "dynamic/kink" aspect. If its your first time you want to find someone who will be patient and willing to take things slow, as the fantasy may be hot in your mind but seeing it occur in real life can be a little daunting/overwhelming.
ReyandJean
3 years ago
Hotwife imo, husband may or may not be present. But is debriefed by wife after event. The debrief is often arousing for one or both.
RHP User
3 years ago
Mr here, in my opinion label's are just that, label's. You are who you are and enjoy what you enjoy, for me I call my wife a " hotwife" mainly because she is hot because she doesn't play without me, I guess mostly we are a vixen/stag couple because we only play with others together but then is there a little cuckold in there as sometimes I like to sit back and watch her enjoy herself with the other guy ( with no humiliation and only briefly) lol as I can't just sit and watch for long. Like I said a labelling yourself is optional, as long as you and your partner are on the same page and you fully communicate with the prospective play partners
RHP User
3 years ago
Thanks heaps for the reply’s. It definitely helps.
The point about labels being just that is great actually. There’s only so much you can read into them.
CheersMiss_C
3 years ago
As others have said, labels are not 100% accurate although your summary is close to the general mark. One side note I would add is the is added mental play involved as you from stag/vixen, hotwife to Cuckold dynamic. As a Hotwife with some cuckold tendencies my partner gets off more to the mental side of things of me teasing him and enjoying the company of the bull and the sexual climax is icing on the cake. The biggest failure of bulls I find is their lack of understanding of the mental aspect with hotwifves and cuck dynamics.
BrisbaneHotMale
3 years ago
I was the Bull in many relationships so having clear conversations about the plans is so critical
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