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Hot Hot Guy - First Chats Haven't Met Yet.

February 18 2016

I've been chatting to a very sexy hot hot guy who seems to be on the same wave length as me. He is everything I have been dreaming of and more. I so want to sleep with him, he just rocks my boat. We have clicked and are definitely wanting the same things but my question is....as we have not yet met face to face are we deluding ourselves and will that first meet be disappointing? What's your experience in this same situation and what should I do? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm flattered....really...but I'm not that hot :p Ok maybe I am lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Congrats!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Might be great if He doesnt disappear He turns up He is who he says he is He is not married He hasnt got a 15 yo photo up He can get an erection He is not a 3 stroke wonder He is a considerate passionate lover He is not from Nigeria He does not need money to come see you He is not a drug addict Sounds like things are on track...... .

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    We dont need to put page breaks in anymore....... ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have learnt is to not become emotionally attached to someone that you are yet to meet. Even if you have spoken on the phone,texted your little heart out,lots of anticipation can lead to disappointment . meeting in RL is only when you know if there is that click .xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hopefully you won't be disappointed. Just meet the guy and if the Sparks are still flying enjoy!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And it seems a good basis to actually meet. So arrange a meeting. And go to the meeting with " no expectations". Easy said than done but if you can manage it, and be in the present moment during the actual meeting anything good and pleasurable that happens is a bonus. Its a great theory, a little harder to put into practise but it does work if you can still your mind enough to be in the "now".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It could be awesome and you will have amazeballs sex with a guy that is exactly how he showed himself to be. Hope you have a blast.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just here happy to help fufill Fantasys lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If a meet is going to be further away than you'd like then get on the Skype, great way to confirm the things nagging in your mind. Can get a bit sexy to sometimes. 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Might be great if He doesnt disappear He turns up He is who he says he is He is not married He hasnt got a 15 yo photo up He can get an erection He is not a 3 stroke wonder He is a considerate passionate lover He is not from Nigeria He does not need money to come see you He is not a drug addict Sounds like things are on track...... . I like your style Annie... covers all the major ones and a few I hadn't thought of...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I started an ongoing thing in a similar manner. The sexual tension was so hight from our online and telephone chatting that we could hardly wait to get each other clothes off. Sure things could go wrong life is like that but I am thinking provided every one has been honest it will be mind blowing as you are going in not only knowing you want to fuck your self sily but know you are going to fuck your self silly. Enjoy !!! LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wouldn't get too excited until you meet face to face

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... the question I have..."WHY cannot a man from Nigeria possess ALL the other attributes listed?".There are white people in NigeriaThere are Asians in NigeriaThere are honest people in NigeriaThere are Blacks in AustraliaThere are Asians in Australia.There are lying scum sucking white trash fckrs in Australia.(Males AND Females).Rather a nasty and racist thing to say..Just saying....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' ... the question I have..."WHY cannot a man from Nigeria possess ALL the other attributes listed?".There are white people in NigeriaThere are Asians in NigeriaThere are honest people in NigeriaThere are Blacks in AustraliaThere are Asians in Australia.There are lying scum sucking white trash fckrs in Australia.(Males AND Females).Rather a nasty and racist thing to say..Just saying.... Nigeria is the birth place of scamming letters and Emails. In fact collectively the old inheritance scam letters are know an "Nigerian Letters" I am sure you know that is what Annie was referring too let not take PC to the highest possible level. We have enough of the Nanny State running around now I think we all knew what was meant by the post :) LC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That hook didn't even have bait.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We get messages from guys in other countries.Messages of how in love they are with our profile and how they have been waiting for someone like us all their life. Blah blah.( without seeing my face pic they know this?) Where is that going to lead for a root cavey? Lol. And yes quite often their location is Nigeria on England in my case.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thats on this site, other sites and even freakbook

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am loving your replies. Some are hilarious. I will be careful and go into this with open eyes but do hope this goes really well 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Ive chatted to some darling men from Nigeria. One was very keen when i said l had a holiday villa in Mauritius which i was going to visit soon with my gorgeous girlfriend and were both interested in him joining us. He was even more excited when l got sick of waiting for the punchline and asked him would he come over if i gave him my bank details to withdraw whatever he needed to get him there. And also take some extra out to pay for medical expenses for his poor family....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You're naughty...... Bahahaha 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If he actually turns up and is not married you are ahead of a lot of people - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Both not from this site, same story with the villa and gf. Guy was from south Africa. Gorgeous black dude (of course). Said id get the air tickets booked and have them waiting at the counter at the airport. He said just wire him the money as he could get some airfares a bit cheaper. I said ok. Asked him the nearest town for him. He told me so i checked. Found the next major city and said the closest my bank would send it. Gave him the addrèss of the bank. He was delighted. Hope he was still delighted after his 400klm journey. .......

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    you can be such a bitch sometimes. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Scammin' the scammer. Gold.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You is bad. And SO politically correct😂xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    a great online connection doesn't always transfer well into real life.. i'd meet asap if you were you .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    HLS

  • Dryphuz

    Dryphuz

    10 years ago

    unless you meet. You can imagine things going good or bad, but only an actual meet will resolve the problem. There's nothing wrong with getting your hopes up and dealing with the disappointment if it doesn't work out. And theres nothing wrong with being extra cautious which may lead to a really pleasant surprise. Don't over think it! Whatever happens, you'll live.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    letmeshowya Contact me on kik if you have it claire i dare no spaces xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    come from Australia Bahahaha :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lilybethyname' you can be such a bitch sometimes. Lol More fun than a computer game.Takes weeks to setup. Very tactical and you need patience

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'claireidare' letmeshowya Contact me on kik if you have it claire i dare no spaces xxx 2 words --- Pandora's Box

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Don't prolong the chat. Our brains are amazing at deceiving us at times and we can turn the txt into the man of our dreams :-) My rule is if I like the way the txt conversation in going in the first day or so, a phone call and meet follow. In my case, I'm not after a pen pal, rather a play mate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    1st off as far as we are aware this is not a clairvoyant site and can not predict the future (or the current, well hasn't yet) a lot of people from both sexes will try and fit the profile someone else is looking for to get what they want, if you think he is the one for you then go for it, in a neutral locale though and not his or your place, restaurant or similar, if he is "on the same page" and interested than you can make a F to F conclusion and same with you he might say your not the one.....but if you don't at least meet you will never know, nothing gained nothing lost It's a short life....live it

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'claireidare' letmeshowya Contact me on kik if you have it claire i dare no spaces xxx BTW how do you know letmeshowya is going to look into this forum thread? I didnt see him post here. Is he psychic? Oh, by the bye, check you kik message. I just kiked you....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I find it disturbing when a complete stranger wants to friendship me then afterwards asks me what im looking for on this website ? alarm bells are ringing in my head surely ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I checked his profile out and he has his email addy in his profile for anyone to contact him. Lol. I love this place 😆

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'willow_2' I checked his profile out and he has his email addy in his profile for anyone to contact him. Lol. I love this place 😆 Thanks willow.... Claire could have emailed him directly, discreetly rather than the publick announcement. Right. Lol. Seems like a long-winded way to get hold of a man who has his email on his profile and with whom you are friends with already.... Just saying. RHP is such a weird place. Oh Claire, surely you are teasing us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Im dying to know how your meet went....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hmm... let's see. I've always been guarded when communicating with new people because my safety is my top priority. I am pretty unapologetic about the reservations I might have to protect myself, including declining to answer certain questions and refusing to divulge information that I don't feel comfortable revealing. I think our sixth sense or women's intuition is often correct. All said, let's see... I have so far met up with ten guys here since Christmas week. One I found utterly disgusting. (10%) One pissed me off real bad and is history. (10%) Another I didn't really want to meet because I had no sexual attraction to his photos even but felt bad because he was so persistent. Shouldn't have wasted each other's time. (10%) Four I will keep as friends or am on friendly terms with. (40%) Two have the power to make me melt, give me butterflies in my stomach, and take my breath away! (20%) So... it's a 60% positive experience rating so far. I must say it's possibly due to my stringent screening process. LOL!!! Good luck with your meet up! I hope the chemistry is sizzling hot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I havnt met anyone off here yet but it seems that if you click, have the same interests and all of that why not indulge and meet :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • joanne1991

    joanne1991

    10 years ago

    Meet first, things can drastically change. It's easy to say all the right things over chat. Don't delude yourself, not many are perfect. Meet first then make your judgement.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Stop putting it off and just do it... if he is what you've been dreaming about and he is hot hot hot, just meet up for sex! The anticipation of the meet up will no doubt have your pussy dripping wet and his cock extremely rock hard! Expect nothing less but HARDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD SEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXBefore you know it, he'll probably cum within 2mins! The longer you keep putting it off, it won't happen. Tell us all about it! And if you ends up marrying you, invite us all! Sounds interesting!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Go for it!!! There is only one way to find out.....I hope he has been honest with you all the way, otherwise you may be disappointed. But I am always the optimist......