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Hosting for Discreet in need

February 25 2012

So there appears to be a lot of guys and gals on here who require discretion for whatver reason (no judgement) and as such cannot host playdates. I am included in this list of people.. The thought occurred to me that there are people out there who just like to watch and the best of both worlds could collide if those people would be open to hosting playdates for those that cannot. What do you all think?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I much prefer my privacy ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Or... you could go to Arrows and shag each other until your hearts content for around $20 entry fee per person. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You're discreet and bi so I think Stalky's suggestion of Aarows is a good one for you. You can have privacy if you like, or a huge audience if you like to play to the crowd.... And boys galore to come suck your dick whenever you feel like it and all for $20. Considering the facilities and the endless supply of towels, condoms and lube 24/7 I can't figure out how they make any money? Oh and it's good if you like a bit of sleaze..... :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    you could always 'man up' and spring for a room, rather than suck someone else into your deceit...oh no...wait...you could go somewhere and they could always hold you and your playmates to ransom...might be an easy way to turn an extra room into some easy money....lol....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi where is arrows?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Can the hosts film the action???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Filming or photography could be acceptable within reason of course.. We do have our privacy to protect after all. Thanks aslo Stalky and Meeka. Didnt know about arrows

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I get that a lot, people saying sorry cant afford a hotel can we bonk at your studio? I am not adverse to that under some circumstance as in they are a regular lover.   People need to put a bit of thought into it before they decide to meet anyone, as in be practical , can I afford a hotel? Can I go to this persons place? Do I have a condom? ( no condom on them is frighteningly common) Most women would not want to go to yiour house, first meeting as its not the safe option I would think.   I do feel for people that cannot afford to find a place to go, but for women lets face it we do not have to go with a guy that wants to shag us for five seconds in the back of his ute.   I have had a couple of guys come use the studio and bonk and yep I watched but then they wanted to come back again and keep doing it and it was a free room for them I declined the offer. I do not do free board and bonking.   Save up and then get a hotel, it does not have to be an expensive hotel but one that is safe and clean.   The good things in life take a little investment , in time and yes sometimes a little hard earned cash.   The meet and greet first then helps you decide if you want to pay for a hotel at a latter time. If your smart then pace yourself and have three meets in a day , make it worth your while

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It could be win-win for the players and the watcher, with no need to bother the unsuspecting partner who monitors the bank/credit card statements.I suggest you place an ad on the Craigslist or Cracker listings in your city and see what turns up.xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Aarows is in a Sydney suburb.. Just google Aarows Sydney. I think pretty much anything goes there... Gay, bi, couples, trannies, groups, glory holes, single rooms, group rooms, spa, sauna, steam room, pool table & bar. 3 floors of sleaze. Whoo Hoo!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    What about those exceedingly poor students who have a choice of food and a couple of beers for the week or one night in a hotel? They miss out completely because it's expected they pay for something they can't afford? Everyone has a situation and a story to tell. Yes of course, there are plenty of awfully stingy people out there but it's a tad unfair that those who genuinely cannot afford it should miss out. I'm certainly not in the situation where I can pay for a hotel on a whim. If equality is so important to all, then costs should be shared - unless of course we revert to our more innate behaviours and desires....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Want to meet up there, Meeks? xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...just sneak in to one of the toilets at McDonalds. They're usually pretty big, relatively clean and afterwards...you can super-size it and play on the slide together. How fun...holding hands and rolling around together in all those brightly coloured balls? | Ronald and the other clowns...they do this all the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Awwwk James!! You should come to Aarows with me. I'll spot you the entry fee... hehe. And anyway. ... what's wrong with a bit of outdoor sex? It's free!! I was minding my own business the other day at this nudist beach and this attractive couple were fucking right there in the water next to me... they were being very discrete... but those tell tale whimper noises and the look on her face like she had a dock in her gave the game away. Hehe. Anyway, I thought it was inspirational! Let me know when you're going. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well sounds like we should organize a meet and greet at Aarows! Lol Not sure what to make of that comment Stalkers? Hope she didn't inadvertently yell out "oh god" or anything like that!! And how is it that this stuff always happen to you? :D Xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well I'm seeing a woman at the moment Who requires "Discretion" yet she just can not get off unless it's in a public place, and often a busy public place. Now thats what I call being "DISCREET.     I'm with Tuscanred on the, not a safe option to take people back to m own place, especially on a first date or one off (and I'm male), I do like to keep some privacy and anominimity (is that spelt right)? untill I get to know someone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jamesnp'What about those exceedingly poor students who have a choice of food and a couple of beers for the week or one night in a hotel? They miss out completely because it's expected they pay for something they can't afford? Everyone has a situation and a story to tell. Yes of course, there are plenty of awfully stingy people out there but it's a tad unfair that those who genuinely cannot afford it should miss out. I'm certainly not in the situation where I can pay for a hotel on a whim. If equality is so important to all, then costs should be shared - unless of course we revert to our more innate behaviours and desires.... I don't disagree about sharing costs, but seriously - the recurring question I see in your post is 'Is it fair that someone should miss out on something they can't afford?'. Erm... yep I reckon it is. . Of course if this was a post intended to bring a few offers of "Hey James, I will spot you entry at Arrows" then I say well done ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    if you cant afford a room...... do you expect us to pay? not fucking likely...lol.... the solutions simple really...if you cant afford to play and pay..... then find some other interest....like stamps...or collecting rubber bands...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    yep tend to agree me thinks Tuuscan x :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It was just an idea.. Didnt expect these strong opinions.   I for one can and am happy to spring for a hotel however hotels are again less discreet than a persons home. Which is the reason why I prefer playing indoors and not in hotels unless of course I am in a different town.   This was more for some of us like minded souls on RHP to have a mutually beneficial and great time.   Also, just for the record dont have a problem with the hosts joining in the fun either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I dont think it has to cost to play, find a date and go for a walk in the park for god sake..lolShag in your car....A very cheap night in deed....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Leesa!! Shagging in the car! Those were the days. I was so flexible back then, but still bloody awkward! These days I think I'll just stick to the bonnet. Well, figuatively speaking that is. :) Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Stalky the 70's were good werent they ..lol