M45
Honesty
December 29 2024
She isn't working and was saying her previous boyfriends supported her. No mention of sugar dating at all....but a constant reminder "if you want sex you gonna have to support me"
Walked her home got in an uber and went home.
Blocked her too....be straight with people ladies and gents....not a good look :(
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RHP User
3 months ago
I think most SW profiles on here are honest about their means of income.
Even those who are subtle at least say in messaging and you can end it there should you wish.
I hope your experience is a one-off.
But without more context I suspect she could have been quite desperate to try and make it known in person rather than up front.
Ex007
3 months ago
Meet and greets are always best with a 100% chance of 0 happening. Just being in someone's presence you know their game and how they choose to play it.
I know I am
1. Female we typically have amazing spidey feels and can read people well.
2. I'm a person who has a very defined sense of self which results in firm boundaries. I also understand this may not be so easy for others.
It's a shame you had this experience but I'm sure there was a lesson here you will not forget or make again.
Pangolin28
3 months ago
Not the best experience no doubt. I have always believed in straight up honesty and to be fair it has made life a little harder by not playing games in anything I have done. But I also know nothing is ever going to bite me in the arse. Honesty has changed where it sits on the scale somehow. The smallest of things have now shifted from simple mistake to blatant lying. Small lies have now been accepted as something that is best for another. This online world is full of lies, untruths and hear says and it is leaking into peoples everyday lives and with full acceptance sadly. Not worth thinking on and just stay true to who you are. Mind you one persons lie can be another persons truth and vice versa depending on circumstance, self belief and perception
Pangolin28
3 months ago
One of my favourite sayings. Russian proverb: It's better to be slapped by the truth than kissed with a lie
RHP User
3 months ago
Ugh that does sound like a shitty experience, but it seems like you handled it pretty well.
Are you quite new to RHP? There's a lot of this kind of thing that happens here. Read through a few profiles or some forum posts and you'll see it's both men and women pulling their hair out at how frustrated we are with each other. Why we continue to subject ourselves to the torture is one of life's great mysteries.
Anyway, it's worth your while to be very discerning on who you spend time chatting to and who you meet with. Chat for a little bit and try to figure out people's intentions, even though they often won't be truthful with you. I think chatting on the phone or a video call is a good step before you meet up with someone. Most of us have learnt the hard way though.
MsSuperFoxy
3 months ago
Sounds like an entitled cow!
Run, forest 🏃♂️
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