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Holidays With Other Swingers

March 17 2015

Have you done it? Would you like to? Does getting away with like-minded adults appeal to you and do we need more opportunities to do so?

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  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    But we do sexy sleepovers as often as we can ( not often enough for me 😉) and they are a tonne of fun. The only reason that a holiday is difficult is the care of our kids and if they come with us, I won't be able to really relax into the holiday, given that all I'll be thinking of is sexy fun 😉. I did go to the QLD meet and greet which was a mini holiday for me, went with gorgeous people and met incredibly sexy people whilst I was there, and had a tonne of fun too! Mary xx

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    11 years ago

    I think it would be a great idea and would be happy to indulge in them. Even weekends away with others in the lifestyle are great fun. Like Mary, I saw the Qld m&g as a mini holiday and certainly enjoyed all the fun we had. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think you sexy Melbourne people should come to Perth for a holiday.... I'd look after you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I went away with approx. 8 maybe 10 swinging couples for a long weekend skiing, not every one knew each other Conditions outside meant we couldn't ski so we were all stuck in the cabin for 4 days 2 of the couples were great friends coming from the same town and they had a pact that they only played between themselves and never to break that pact This info wasn't kind of revealed till about 3 days in and this caused a lot of tension and misunderstanding among all the remaining couples And guess what ? there was no way out, we were snowed in Nope never again. Stick to those you know and always holiday where there is a escape route.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Keepitsimple, you better believe we'd all love to come to your neck of the woods "to be looked after", never been to Perth so now just another major reason to make the trip. Cheers Michael

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When Donna and I started swinging our idea was to find a group of couples that all got along so we could holiday together on occasion. We have the couples now, just got to work a holiday. Always open to other couples who want this aswell, apply within.Cheers Michael

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' I think you sexy Melbourne people should come to Perth for a holiday.... I'd look after you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A missed opportunity to do some 'looking after' yourself 😋

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    Can you help erase my disastrous Perth RHP experience please? My first time in Perth, terrible meet, left high and dry in a three story townhouse, on my own. My beautiful friend who lived in Perth more than made up for it by showing me the beautiful (very vanilla) side to WA over the weekend. I want someone to show me a very wicked and debauched WA, since some very sexy fuckers live in that state. I'm in! Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Would love a proper holiday with our RHP friends and I really want to head over to meet all the Perth forumites and chat-a-holics......Mary I'm sure we can erase that horrible Perth experience for you, but this time Donna and I are coming along too. We have another mini break this weekend albeit in Melbourne...but still its away from home. Shaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' But we do sexy sleepovers as often as we can ( not often enough for me 😉) and they are a tonne of fun. The only reason that a holiday is difficult is the care of our kids and if they come with us, I won't be able to really relax into the holiday, given that all I'll be thinking of is sexy fun 😉. I did go to the QLD meet and greet which was a mini holiday for me, went with gorgeous people and met incredibly sexy people whilst I was there, and had a tonne of fun too! Mary xx The sleepovers are a lot of fun, even swapping partners for the sleeping part of the sleepover. A weekend away with the right couples sounds like an awesome thing to try as well

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    11 years ago

    And how well do we know them? Honestly that is the key for us. Going away with a bunch of swingers (10 couples or more!) that sounds like a lot of fun. Going away with one couple that we don't know very well? Potentially very awkward and not a good time, lol. We have been on a takeover cruise with over 3000 swingers....that was incredibly fun, would completely do it again. We have also been away for the weekend with another couple, and while the first night was amazing, the second was full of awkwardness and strain...I guess they had a fight and we were in the middle of it. The problem with holidays is you are in each other's face too much. We decided that if we were going to go away with one other couple in the future that it would be a night time together only situation, and then we did our own thing during the day. Gives us time to reconnect as a couple, to not outstay each other's welcome, and then just get down to business for dinner and the evenings. :) That would completely change though if there are enough people going. 10 or more couples? Yes please. Gives a lot more people to interact with, more chances to get along, more chances to have fun, and more chances to avoid awkwardness. :)

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    Agreed Normangela, sleepovers are awesome, though I remember not a lot of sleeping goes on 😜 looking forward to more sexy, sleepless nights. Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wouldn't recommend it. Obviously have many many close friends from the lifestyle however have noticed that these can end very suddenly as is the nature with what we are dealing with. Sex can bring you incredibly close but it can also tear you a part very quickly. We booked a holiday with a couple once, an overseas holiday. Leading up to the holiday the ladies in each couple started to dislike each other. It was up to the other male and I to manage the 'dislike' up until and on the holiday because it had all been booked and paid for. In the end the holiday was a disaster, well not at first but it ended up being a disaster. We are still best friends with him though and he has moved on to another, better lady. However we also went on a full take over nudist/swinger cruise in USA and that was awesome. With only kind of knowing people before we went on, having our own room. It was great, no commitment to any other couple worked well. Just be careful booking a holiday that is overseas, longer than a weekend or really far out time wise.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ........learned my lesson about that decades ago. Where sex is in the equation, overnight is usually enough.....no longer than a weekend, that's for sure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't know about erasing bad memories, but I can certainly help replace them with some good ones. It would be fantastic if you all came over, bring your lovely partners this time too...

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    11 years ago

    We have had a couple of holidays with swinger friends and had the best time. We had been friends for years and they moved to the US for work. We have been over to see them and we partied in Vegas together and also flew down to Hedonism 2 in Jamaica. What a blast! W partied hard the whole time but did also involve other new "friends" when the opportunity arose (and at Hedo it always arose LOL!) We did however have separate rooms for when we needed just a bit of "us"time and would always have this. We also went on a three day weekend with 5 other couples from a group we play with to a wonderful place called seclusion which is between Katoomba and Lithgow. They have 6 spa cabins which are gorgeous and we group booked the whole place. There is a pool etc. We spent the whole time naked, either tanning around the pool or "playing". That was a wobderful time and something we all talk about repeating. 3 days is also manageable with the kids.