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Hold onto something..I am about to scream!....
July 31 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are joking aren't you? If you're so frustrated buy a membership, its not that hard. Regards Mr P/hot
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is pretty unfair that you winge about the things you can't do because you won't pay a couple of dollars a week to be a member. If you want to be a guest and not pay, don't expect to have full access to everything that the PAYING members have. SCREEEEAAMMM!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
The level of my membership is not what is frustrating me.... What is frustrating me is other members who dont seem to get the fact that as a guest I am not able to message them or access their contact numbers. Maybe that part of my original post wasnt clear enough for you Mr P/hot.....or maybe you are one of the many members on here who also only reads what they want to see? feeling better all the time...lol intriguedcurious
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am afraid screaming would not get you as much benefit as being a paying member Sorry.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree totally - how hard is it for people to realise that you are a guest member and that ladies only get one message to send per week! Sick to death of messages from people say "please message me since I am guest member". It takes intelligence to read a profile!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol. Well you are exactly what I am looking for! Please contact me. Hugs gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
she was just looking for an excuse to scream...other good excuses you could use would be.a pencil in the eye, 5 red lights in a row, being an eagles fan (or a western force fan), a 2 day old soggy fettid sponge in the bottom of the sink..and at a pinch.. swine flu..but not much else,,LRE ( doing the dishes)
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kassmebits
16 years ago
one thing you could do if ya dont want to pay is put ya msn addy on a forum post?? just click whee it says display e-mail adr ess
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep happens to me too - ppl send a flirt and i can only say i am a guest pls msg back. maybe the ones that keep sending a flirt are guests too and just haven't worked out the msg system yet :D it's pretty funny. I don't think she's complaining so much as expressing an opinion about a function in the system- maybe the site could make it clearer to users about pay for messages. ok back to other more fun stuff
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RHP User
16 years ago
IF A GUY CANT AFFORD A MEMBERSHIP HE CANT AFFORD ME LUCKY I DONT EAT MUCH
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RHP User
16 years ago
There's a few appropriate responses there! Suck it up princess, if you want the benefits, pay up. If you everyone to message you, go Platinum... $4 a week, no big deal...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Must agree, buy a membership then you can have your right to complain, however I do feel we should be able to add our own personal flirts, the ones there are a bit boring and the age flirt is definately a good idea.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agrees with the above...just buy a membership like the rest of us. Be so lucky that your getting some attention.
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RHP User
16 years ago
dido Quoting 'pipinghot71' You are joking aren't you? If you're so frustrated buy a membership, its not that hard. Regards Mr P/hot
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RHP User
16 years ago
hmmmm... Is it just me, or did anyone else notice that it has been only the ladies (and gazpacho41, great legs gaz) who read my post and comprehended what I was actually saying? There is no whinging about my membership level, if I needed to, I would pay to upgrade...lol. Thanks for your suggestion kassme bits, bit hesitant to add a msn addy here....already have more contacts than I can handle. Pusscat123 (have always loved your pics and Im not into playing with girls, so for me, thats saying something) you hit the nail on the head. I wasnt even aware that as a female guest we have one message a week, I will check that out, thanks. redheartxx.....also got it totally right....I am expressing an opinion..... Not forgetting skinny1....my sentiments exactly!! Seems to me that the sexy sassy ladies with some life experiences behind them are the intelligent ones on here.......the couples of all ages (or was it just the male half of the couple who responded?)and majority of the men still need to learn the difference between whinging and making a comment. oops, there I go , stirring the pot again.....lol you gotta love the freedom of speech... intriguedcurious
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RHP User
16 years ago
Perhaps those that DO have memberships who message (rather than wink) could put some contact details in as well (such as altermnative email / 'phone number). That way, if a guest member IS interested, they can get in touch by another medium. Or have I got it all wrong? Better to not 'help out' a guest member you might be interested in and just think, "bugger 'em . . . they can work it out and come to me'?
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RHP User
16 years ago
triffid you got that bit righ.if and when i get any guest flirts that have "i am a guest and cannot contact you " etc etc then i do reply with either or both my msn addy and email addyits just such a simple thing to do though i must also admit to being guilty of sending a flirt to a guest thinking if they are interested at all when they reply flirt with that lline ... lol ... i then give them those detailsintriguedcurious i hear where you are coming from its not the issue of membership but as to the flirts from guests to guests makes for an intriguing circle lolroy
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RHP User
16 years ago
This is only more proof that no guest membership be allowed. We all see read and chat about the frustrations of both male and female guest members bombarding paid members with winks, not being real or genuine. The solution is simple, only have the differnent levels of paid membership to sort the "Wheat from the Chaff". Let the free loaders go to Lavalife and the likes. If someone is not willing to pay are they really genuine about what they are looking for? Maybe a good option RHP would be to click a box that bans all guest members from winking paid members profile. Just thought.
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RHP User
16 years ago
In your first post on 31 Jul, it was obvious at the beginning that you were expressing your frustration with 'guest' members asking you to message or call them when all you can do in return as a 'guest' member is return a flirt... (tho something you did not know at the time is that female 'guests' get 1 free message per week, just one example of the differences between couple, male & female 'guests'). It is something we knew which me wonder if there is a small percentage of couple & male 'guests' who send flirts asking female 'guests' to message them knowing they get that free message per week. Your statement, 'If I am really "exactly what you are looking for"....then you can be the one to pay for membership!', makes sense, WHEN I understand you would expect to be the one to pay for membership if you saw a 'guest' who was "exactly what you were looking for". But you also broadened the scope of your post when you went on to say... "I realise rhp has added a couple of new flirt responses, none of them cover age..too young/too old, or distance... 'only meeting local".... I would definately look a being a paid member if some of these areas were addressed..."... and finished your post with, "Does anyone else feel that way?" I thought it was pretty funny meself cos if the flirt issue is ever resolved to the satisfaction of the 'non-paying guests' (it seems being able to make contact with other 'non-paying' guests seems to be the issue), what are they gonna be wanting to pay membership for?Re: Your last post on Aug 2nd...I noticed... that every lady that read and comprehended what you were actually saying is a 'guest', like yourself. I imagine they would naturally empathise with your situation as well as having less need to concern themselves with paying for membership, 'if some of these areas were addressed', considering something else they can do as female 'guests' is enter Webcam Chat... where they can make contact with paying members... and other female 'guests' of course... but let's face it, t'would be a mighty boring place without em!The couples of all ages, (aside from Mr P/hot, whether their posts were written by a male or not I couldn't say) and the men, aside from LRE who has been in the past, are all paying members... and would have to be to make contact with any other 'guest' lol... I can empathise with them hehehehe.Cheers 'n' 'ugsMrsP... a sexy sassy lady with many life experiences behind her :-*PS: ROFL @ Gaz & LRE ... each of you an individual as always!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have re-read your origianal post and I cannot for the life of me find anything in it that isn't whinging.And yes I am the male half.And yes I am usually to busy looking at their pics to read anything they have to say properly(lol), but I read yours.Then we get to your 3rd post and you're still whingeing,this time about us blokes being dumb arses just because we didnt agree with what you whinged about. mr p/hot.
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RHP User
16 years ago
what a chinese whisper this has become.... I am perfectly content with my status as a guest member. Peachypear, thanks for your words.....one comment you made "its seems being able to make contact with other non-paying guests seems to be the issue."..... couldnt be further from the truth for me, that is not my issue. I am not looking for ways to contact other members without paying a membership fee. My frustrated comments were directed to the many other guests members on this site who continue to send flirts requesting me/other guest members to contact them. (which we all know cannot be done...you need to be a paid member for that privilige). The add on re: choice of flirt replies was not a ploy to obtain something for nothing....just a couple of suggestions to the limited options already on offer for distance and age.....common courtesy I think its called. One of the many things I have learnt from this post it they way paid members view guest members...&. not to dare to have a voice unless I have paid for the privlige....(lol, that is not a whinge,...just an honest observation) keep up the happy and supportive "meet 'n greet ' to guest members..... I have had a ball unintenionally rattling your cages.... ic
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RHP User
16 years ago
im still trying to work it out! Quoting 'redheartxx'yep happens to me too - ppl send a flirt and i can only say i am a guest pls msg back. maybe the ones that keep sending a flirt are guests too and just haven't worked out the msg system yet :D it's pretty funny. I don't think she's complaining so much as expressing an opinion about a function in the system- maybe the site could make it clearer to users about pay for messages. ok back to other more fun stuff
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RHP User
16 years ago
Got any change
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RHP User
16 years ago
known originally as Blue_Movies... our first 'Whitehawk' after the Forum set up changed to make them much more accessible as they are now. Our first crash and burn after working up the forums to the point people were posting to object to her posts. Hers was also the first profile where people in the forums noticed all the threads and posts associated with her disappeared when she deleted her account. Deleting your account became a virtual epidemic after that...There's a whole pile of hers and the others threads that aren't even in the 'Search Me... Topics' thread because they hadn't been resurrected when I set it up the list. Something I'll have to think about fixing one day lol. Add those and all the new threads since including a plethora of copy and paste jokes and I'm looking at a lot of time.Hugs y'all... Mrs P' >>> playing in the Hot Topic annals of RHP
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