Hi... New to site... HELP!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  i was in a relationship for 10 years, then jumped in with 2 feet to FBs FWBs then 6 mth after that found out about pie (not the american one?!). it first took a bit of practice to remember how and manage to learn to behaive like a single person, old comfy married habits sneak in if you aren't looking. Hookups and peeps are not any different, but this on-line thing to me is VERY different, everyone has their own different like and dislikes of how it differs to meeting peeps face to face in the first instance. my advice is to try it all out and make your own mind up on what you like, as we are ALL different?!   I had my pic in the public gallery, but then i heard an incident of someone having a device still logged into RHP and the wrong person picking up the device later and blah blah and so on, so private gallery for my face pics now. other than that anything goes really for me, i find the site a lot of fun (and obviously frustrating at times too)   Good luck!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  V8calais, welcome to the site. I agree totally with everything Boobalicious has said. What you may also consider is meeting people at some of the events that are held such as meet and greet nights and private house parties. You will find that it is sometimes easier to meet people face to face as everyone can see who they are talking which makes them feel more comfortable. People at these events are friendly and non judgemental and it is a great opportunity to make new friends and build a rapport with people. If being naked in front of a group of people and having them watch while you have sex takes you out of your comfort zone, then it is well worth it. I have attended a few parties recently and I had a great time. Practice safe sex always. All the best and good luck. Chris

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Have fun and enjoy your time here. I have been a member of RHP for around 18 months. I was actually introduced to this site by my daughter. I have met some fantastic people from here. Some will be friends for many many years and many more that I chat with I doubt if I will ever meet. This place can get a little heated at times but hey, most of us are pretty easy going types. I keep all my face pics in a private gallery but those that no me can easily identify me by my tattoos anyway. As you are a guest, and a male I would suggest that you post some pics in your private gallery. You will get very little response if the women you are interested in cannot see any pic what so ever when they check out your profile. Cheers

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hi

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  When doing searches I tick the "with photos" box as I like to see what I buy before I buy if you know what I mean So my advice is get a photo up. I do prefer face pics *but* something is better than nothing. Mrs P is a great example of a pic that makes me smile but is totally innocent. irresponsibility is a perfect example of a pic that is gorgeous, sexy, of heer without identifing her, makes me want to know more, but in no way risks her identity There are ways to get around these things :PAlso... free tip.... three line profiles are usually worth less effort to read than they took to write Dime a dozen, my friend. The profiles I choose to send that opening mesage to are usually quite long and insightful. Just saying. If you want atttention.... do something to get it

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Put a pic up even if it's one of the Holden. Without one you're a cyber ghost at the bottom of a large barrel of single males. Write a power profile and keep your expectations realistic to optimistic. Good to see you're on the field writing in the forums as a start. We are real here and you'll mainly find us here goofing off with screeds of dialogue about life. As for the seekers and hunters,players and phonies...well their action is a whole other ball game. Enjoy.

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