M65 F63
Hi Everyone....x
January 20 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
I won't meet with anyone unless I have spoken to them on the phone and seen them on cam first and they see me on cam! These rules are not bent in any way at all anymore! I used to trust guys and who said they were on their profile pics...until I met a guy at a pub for a drink a couple of years ago and he wasn't even the guy in his pics...he didn't even fit the description that he wrote about himself! Another guy was so "vocal" in chat and on cam chat...but, when I met him he was so quiet...what Jerry Sienfeld would call "the close talker" I couldn't hear a bloody word he said.....I have spoken to guys on the phone and can tell straight away that it ain't going to happen, so I don't take the next step in meeting with them! I am here for sex...not for everlasting love...if the chemistry isn't there...it ain't going to happen! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes, there's no reason why you can't cam, seeing what someone looks like is essential before meeting. Most people won't meet and waste their time unless they know that they are interested and won't know if they are interested until they see the person (pic or cam). I would never meet anyone without knowing what they looked like first. It's just a waste of time. What is the point of going all the way to wherever, getting dressed nicely, doing your hair etc......only to get there and setting eyes on your potential date and knowing straight away that you are not compatable? Caming is the way when you can't send pics.
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RHP User
14 years ago
There is no reason what so ever that you can not have your pics in your private gallery and exchange them privately. Many of us have careers that we dont want everyone knowing our private business. Most of us do not have our full facial pics up.....incase you havent noticed. There is no reason why you can not cam with couples like the others have said either. No pic.... no meet. THAT is the bottom line. I would never go to meet someone without at least seeing a pic, real or not of them. What makes you think that anyone else is comfortable going to meet someone sight unseen? The other couple were not being rude at all. I think you were. You saw ther pics obviously, or you would not know they were attractive. They were looking to thier safety and rightly so. Why should anyone trust you implicitly?
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RHP User
14 years ago
...which I would think would be slim, none or less than that if you are unwilling to keep a few pictures of what you look like in one of your private galleries. I have a series of very random head shots in one that don't utilize any of the the more artistic forms of the camera lens...and other less random head shots in the other. Those are definitely "VIP guests only" and I have frequently been told that those look better than the first. Oh well...always put your best foot forward. | Think about it...anyone that sees your private pics here is on this site for the same reasons that you are and are not too likely to pop in on Monday morning and announce that they were cruising an adult "sex site" and saw you. If you do happen to be Julia Gillard, believe me...it won't hurt your political career and may just get you a few more votes. If you male counterpart happens to be Wayne Swan...you might get bored as between the two, you have managed to fuck nearly everyone in Australia so experiencing something new might be difficult. | Just as a side bar...due to a couple of business ventures, I speak publicly and frequently all over Australia to groups ranging from 20 or so to easily over 1000 attendees. I don't think I am famous at all...some would even say infamous, but have pics available and honestly I am hard pressed to wander through a crowded Chadstone on a Saturday or down Collihns Street on a Friday without recognizing or being recognized by someone. Same thing applies in other parts of the state but for much different reasons. Hell, I would almost welcome some good looking lady walking up out of the crowd saying "I saw your picture on RHP" ....what an ice breaker that would be! | Get over it...or get over yourself just a little unless the whole thing is a sham. Personally I would avoid camming via any open server P2P connection, but that is due largely to my understand of the internet environment. Good luck in your quest...I think you may need it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' There is no reason what so ever that you can not have your pics in your private gallery and exchange them privately. Many of us have careers that we dont want everyone knowing our private business. Most of us do not have our full facial pics up.....incase you havent noticed. There is no reason why you can not cam with couples like the others have said either. No pic.... no meet. THAT is the bottom line. I would never go to meet someone without at least seeing a pic, real or not of them. What makes you think that anyone else is comfortable going to meet someone sight unseen? The other couple were not being rude at all. I think you were. You saw ther pics obviously, or you would not know they were attractive. They were looking to thier safety and rightly so. Why should anyone trust you implicitly? we have encountered contact from the postee and we find its OK for them to constantly perv but not allow the casting of an eye. I'm sure YOU wouldnt turn up for a blind date with looking so why should you expect others to do so. And to carry on as if your the only ones that have high profile blah blah blah jobs etc only makes you sound elitetist which you arent. But we guess you must walk around with "SWINGERS" tattooed on your forehead to announce it to everyone
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RHP User
14 years ago
Asian or Ugandan?
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evy11
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' There is no reason what so ever that you can not have your pics in your private gallery and exchange them privately. Many of us have careers that we dont want everyone knowing our private business. Most of us do not have our full facial pics up.....incase you havent noticed. There is no reason why you can not cam with couples like the others have said either. No pic.... no meet. THAT is the bottom line. I would never go to meet someone without at least seeing a pic, real or not of them. What makes you think that anyone else is comfortable going to meet someone sight unseen? The other couple were not being rude at all. I think you were. You saw ther pics obviously, or you would not know they were attractive. They were looking to thier safety and rightly so. Why should anyone trust you implicitly?
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evy11
14 years ago
Quoting 'Mrs_PeachyPear'Frankly...this is all some risk...and being safe and not being pushed out of your comfort zone is critical....to your well being.No offense meant but surely the same applies to the couple that didn't want to meet you without seeing pics because they wanted to feel safe.Hugs... Mrs P
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evy11
14 years ago
Well arent there some strong points of view...mostly intolerant of our decison not to post pics...which has not stopped our fun..by volume...over several years. If you read carefully I didnt argue the right for people to...even..push for pics...just that they should not be rude and accept our way of operating and reject us politely. We agree that having pics in a private gallery is...more...controllable...but who are we sending them too and how will they use them?...do you guys really think they cant be hacked?...anyway...some of your grumpy responses are a fascinating look at you as people and we will always wish you well! Everybody...stick to your guns...dont let other people push you into doing something you dont want to do...as for the comments so far...you mostly missed the point...but thats the point..isnt it? Evy...x
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evy11
14 years ago
Well...your obviously passionate about your point of view...so are we!!..As for sight unseen...we have been having a lot of fun over the years with our blind dates...nobody has run away yet,,,even though they can. Have fun Evy...
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evy11
14 years ago
I agree with you...but when we said No...didnt mean they had to be rude...my point Evy..
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evy11
14 years ago
Your pompous arrogant response is noted...and in the toilet where it belongs. Evy
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RHP User
14 years ago
It may be that you are somehow famous, or careers will fall in a heap if divulged that you are on here? There's a difference between privacy and secrecy. I do wonder if this is the site for you? So much at risk there. Carry on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Evy, I can see your point about not being pushed into something you don't want to do ie post your pics, but I also see it's not an unreasonable request that someone who you are planning to meet may want to see a few pics first. That means they are sticking to their guns too! I have observed you are paid up members for RHP, so this, to me seem you are less likely to be axe murderers as you could be traced. Perhaps to further reduce people suspecting you of being said axe murderers, you can validate your profile with the RHP team!?! Either way as you have stated you have still been able to meet up with others, so if you don't want to post pics, then don't! Just be mindful it may be offensive to people who have allowed you to see their pics, and try to understand that they may get a little agitated. Anyway, cheers! Xx
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evy11
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic' It may be that you are somehow famous, or careers will fall in a heap if divulged that you are on here? There's a difference between privacy and secrecy. I do wonder if this is the site for you? So much at risk there. Carry on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must of missed the part in your OP where you stated the other couple were rude (still can't see it, only that they were agitated which is a common side effect of fear/anxiety).You are quite right in your view of it being illogical that a photo on here is not going to prove that you are/are not a murderer (if that is what you meant?). Yes, anyone can post a picture obtained from the many millions floating around the 'net or a completely outdated photo of themselves. However, it is not illogical to view a profile picture to obtain some level of 'comfort'.You are correct again in that this IS a risky business and it is up to the individual to minimise that risk wherever possible.Hopefully the couple that you talk about now make it a rule that they won't share their photos without the same courtesy being returned, or even better, a private cam chat session is by far more ideal - this would help help prevent any further incidents such as you had described and hopefully help them make better informed decisions about who they meet. After all, if you plan on meeting someone they "will" know what you look like at that point and who knows, they could turn out to have kinks that involve hidden cameras! Again, as you said, it's a risky business with added risks for those wishing to stay out of the public eye...(Out of curiousity, how were the other couple rude? )
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmm, it still seems a little extreme not even to have any sort of pic available to those that may ask? Not a face pic, as I can see that's giving it all away as to who you are. Perhaps a tasteful lingerie shot of legs or something similar. With all due respect of course.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'evy11' Well...your obviously passionate about your point of view...so are we!!..As for sight unseen...we have been having a lot of fun over the years with our blind dates...nobody has run away yet,,,even though they can. Have fun Evy... Quoting 'evy11' Well arent there some strong points of view...mostly intolerant of our decison not to post pics...which has not stopped our fun..by volume...over several years. If you read carefully I didnt argue the right for people to...even..push for pics...just that they should not be rude and accept our way of operating and reject us politely. We agree that having pics in a private gallery is...more...controllable...but who are we sending them too and how will they use them?...do you guys really think they cant be hacked?...anyway...some of your grumpy responses are a fascinating look at you as people and we will always wish you well! Everybody...stick to your guns...dont let other people push you into doing something you dont want to do...as for the comments so far...you mostly missed the point...but thats the point..isnt it? Evy...xIsn't it possible have pics in a private folder which you could then give access to and after a short while restrict access again?
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