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Hello Again Everyone... update for those interested

August 30 2014

Hi Everyone, Thought I would drop back in with a update on how things have progressed for me since my original post seeing as it generated a bit of chat and some controversy and sort of lost its path and yea... check in :) Things are going well pretty much. Just moved into a new place a few days with 2 of my kids, my ex has our middle daughter and she moved into her new place back "home" for her yesterday. We talk most days, sometimes more then once actually. We have maintained a good friendship and communication given what has happened. The kids are all doing well and no complaints there. On another note, I had a friend a few weeks ago come keep me company for a few nights and I enjoyed some benifits to the friendship for sure (as did she). She has since backed off a bit as from a mutual friend she was having feelings and was concerned how fast it was going (i wasnt pushing anything, just going with the flow and the feedback) and then she got crazy busy with work so now its been about 2 weeks since shes come to visit and damm... its gotten harder. The nights certainly are hardest with the empty spot in the bed, no one to cuddle, chat to or enjoy some intimacy also. Tried a few apps and websites but all seems pretty full of shit and just want money and more money with nothing to show for it. So yea, thats about it. Thanks for reading :) Any offers to fill the void for some fun, just drop me a message!

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RHP User

11 years ago

I'm confused as I don't live here.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Stir... This is the only place that you exist buddy... In the 4th incarnation of the matrix... As for me I'm confused too, but that's nothing unusual... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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RHP User

11 years ago

and I am glad to hear that things have settled in your life. This is good I am thinking though and this my thoughts only that this is a time for self examination and reflection and not jumping around trying to find someone new to keep your bed warm And it is very important that the children that you have feel they are secured, safe and love. They appear to be ok but they are enduring a huge wrench in their life. The loss of their mother and sibling. something that I have personally experienced. Your focus should always be for their physical and mental well being In time alone there is growth. I personally think you need some time out, away from all women for a short while and focus on your new life sans wife.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes, it's hard for you, however be REALLY careful about having the lady friends over as children in this situation overthink when trying to work out where they fit in the picture called your life......... Don't give them any reason to doubt that you are there 100% for them....... This includes your middle daughter, call every day, even do the mobile number so you can text her each and every day (I'm in a meeting and was just thinking of you)............. For their future choices of how they will behave and what partners they will choose, you are now the most influential person............

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RHP User

11 years ago

Sort out your life first before bringing others into it. And your children's welfare should always come first. All the best. Off-topic - VelvetNoir, loving your profile pics lately. What a captivating smile ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Bahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile

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Hello Again Everyone... update for those interested

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