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March 18 2013

Sometimes ya just gotta walk away...hold your high and hold onto your pride..- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Keep walking tall

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The Gambler.....Hope all is well in Superfox land

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'good_vagabond' The Gambler.....Hope all is well in Superfox land I had that tune going in my head too !

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    spill it ....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... & Keep On Walking ! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    And remember, at times you really do need to let it go Hugs Xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You don't say anything you regret, which will keep your head held high and when they run back, you will have the confidence to move on.....Hopefuly you might be able to share sometime

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You don't say anything you regret, which will keep your head held high and when they run back, you will have the confidence to move on.....Hopefuly you might be able to share sometime

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Ever had a situation (any situation), when a good situation is good and too hard at same time...and ya just get to point of going. F*CK IT....F*CK IT...F*CK IT!! (gosh that's so soothing to say) Better to walk away with Dignity and Pride...head held high then deal with..cause ya worth more and not put yourself in a messy situation nor lower self-respect cause you honour self too much?? I think its best sometimes just to turn and walk away... Is that being selfish?? Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... discombobulated ... seriously???

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Word for the day? Why u discombobulated?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    yep and then they can kiss your arse as you leave...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Spill baby.... let us all decide if you made the right decision or not :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Spill baby.... let us all decide if you made the right decision or not :)   *and tossing the pop corn in my mouth* (I'll catch it too)

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Yep / leave the pieces of the puzzle on the ground n just keep walking..... Better things to come along.... You can't welcome the new if you keep holding onto yesterday's junk! Hope you are ok! Xxx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Spill baby.... let us all decide if you made the right decision or not :)  you know we will all give you objective, honest advice :)x

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am sure some of you out there have had to make a choice (may not be the right one) and just walk away, one time or another? YEAH??Foxy

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    thats what makes you a beautiful person superfox you have pride

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    +1 wishing all is good in the land of super fox :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I think as "Human beings" when we get to a good point in our lives and its pretty dam awesome we tend to look at ourselves cause we don't want it ruined nor messed up cause we've worked to dam hard to get where we want to be.. For me anyways, I question myself. Is this for ME? Is another persons issues/behavior really my problem? Do I really want this? Will it be messy?? (dislike messy Crap) Will it be good/bad? Are I being treated right/wrong? Am I being respectful/honourable to myself? What can I do for myself to improve situation? I think questioning and listening to our gut helps make choices - may or may not be the right choice sometimes.. KNOWING ONES SELF I reckon.. When it gets to that point I go F*ck IT....dam that's too hard to do with some people.... If I have to do that I walk away cause its not "healthy"....drains too much energy. Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    However it eats you a bit you didn't say what you wanted to say.What I do, I write it down, my anger goes, my sadness goes, or even I can see why it happens not always so.Write it read it burn it.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have to respect other peoples privacy..just the right thing to do morally... Thanks for offers, I know you guys would give honest objective answers. Its all good here in Foxy Land.. :-) It is nice to hear from others that walking away can be liberating, empowering and its not always a bad thing..sometimes it can be good and other times not so good. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The hardest situation I had to walk away from are two! But when it comes to another person it was my best friend of over 25 years! We went through so much together ... the puberty...the boys that came and went....the birth of our kids...the death of her kids....The heartbreak...The laughter (oh so much laughter)! But, she was a chronic liar and just lied to me one too many times! The hardest decision for me was saying goodbye to my best friend! She didn't take it well and well...you can guess how it ended! I saw her once about a year after I said goodbye and I pretended that I didn't see her...was so hard to do and just brought back the pain of saying goodbye again for a while! Do I still think of her now? Yes at times...but I know that I did best thing for me! I was holding onto a friendship out of loyalty...but in the meantime losing respect for myself with every lie she told! . Should you do it for you? Yes! Will you feel better about yourself? After the grieving period...Yes! Sometimes you have to turn your back on others to find yourself and to get your self respect back! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    there are plenty more fish in the sea.My Norm used to always say that guests and fish go off after three days.Just wait a couple more days and he will definitely be on the turn.....just like a dead mackerell.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    We are all taught when we are young (or sum of us are) when to stand and fight and when to walk away.   It takes a strong person to walk away when you want to fight.   Whatever the reason (I won't ask because I don't have the right to know... am a bar of soap) good on you for making the hard decision.   Someone should buy you a beer

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox' I think its best sometimes just to turn and walk away... Is that being selfish?? Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'SuperFox' I think its best sometimes just to turn and walk away... Is that being selfish?? Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile I have never and will never walk away. I'm not calling you selfish Foxy, but I believe that for my personal growth and journey to continue, I must face (and deal) with whatever is thrust in my way. For me, walking away is admitting defeat. Such is life, hey? Good luck on your journey Foxy. Love your posts. Ricky

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Thanks for sharing.... I totally understand how you would feel in that situation and then seeing them again. Sometimes we just have to do what is right for ourselves....no matter what. :) Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Trust me it gets somehow easier after 40! Chin Up - Tits Out .... Sometimes we can over analyse things and this makes it worse. Keep it simple and the real answer is always there.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I hope I can learn :)

  • WHY_NOT_LOOK

    WHY_NOT_LOOK

    13 years ago

    I'm a sucker and i know i should walk away but i have faith that i can fix it or things will get better..... then i walk away to late so your questions you ask yourself I'm now going to ask as wellIs this for ME? Is another persons issues/behavior really my problem? Do I really want this? Will it be messy?? (dislike messy Crap) Will it be good/bad? Are I being treated right/wrong? Am I being respectful/honorable to myself? What can I do for myself to improve situation?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I usually try to deal with things first... Find out what is going on and don't just assume, take into account where my actions might have come into anything. Understand other people might have different morals to me which takes into account other people beside theirself. Don't blow it up out of proportion. Treat my 'friends' with the same respect I expect them to show me.I've found that more often than not, when I walk away with my head held high, I get attacked from behind.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I did remove myself..I did that to help me process some feelings I had...confusion...look at myself...I have to do it sometimes to look at the whole picture...sort myself out...understand me a little better...get my head space RIGHT! I am now able to deal with myself and other people much better. I think sometimes its just saying "I need space to sort myself out"...I don't think its a bad thing? Foxy Oh by the way the other person has been more than understanding and I honour them more now than I did before.