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Have you ever met some people you know that you weren't aware we into swinging

March 17 2013

And what happened - we've read somewhere that if that ever happened you'd be thinking well they are here for the same reason as we are but tell us about your initial thoughts and did it come as a surprise lol- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We were at the Pirates and Wenches cruise night held by Utopia (great club before the council closed it) swingers club a few years back. We were standing on the top deck of the boat enjoying the sunset and a drink and noticed this guy that was dressed like Jack Sparrow waving to us from across the other side, which went on for a while. Curiosity had got the better of us, so we wondered over to see who "Jack" and his wench was. As we came closer the penny had dropped, it was a client of mine who we had no idea enjoyed the lifestyle as well. Lets just say, there was lots to talk about every time we caught up to discuss business.. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I had a girl (I assume) from a couples profile tell me one of the photos I had on here was NOT ME.. because I never had a Mullet. (she/they were profiled as being in the town I spent 25 years in)   She referred to me by my REAL name... as in "Mr xxxxx" I asked her who she was, and she wouldn't tell me.. I asked if we had fckd.. and she showed all signs (in her reply/retort) that there was NO WAY. Then she deleted their profile..   I thought that was rather rude myself.   I stumbled on a profile of a rather young lady who was more like a daughter then my own daughters are.. and I promptly rang her up to tease her.. She thought it was hilarious.. and we had a good giggle about it all.   Another lady.. I posted on her FB "Hey XXX: do you still want me to set up that REDHOTPIE account for you so find some good sex?" She...and her friends all thought that was funny BUT...... Less then a week later.. she rings me to tell me she did it herself..and met a guy.. AND fck me.... they are still together today..and loving each other..   I guess I am a little romantic... "I Do love happy endings..."   Including in massages

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Waiting for the day...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ive come across (or introduced) the following:   * old school friends * old uni friends * my Mother   So its no big deal for me to find I know someone on here   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Waiting for the day... As am I. It's almost a fantasy....

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    13 years ago

    Met - no Been messaged by with face pics - yes Recognized fellow RHP ers in normal life - yes   Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My partner and I were at a hardcore BDSM function when my partner spotted a familiar face. He didn't recognise us, primarily because we were both dressed in full fetish gear. We sent him a text later to say hi.We got talking with some supposedly vanilla friends one night when the subject of kink came up. We soon discovered we had much in common on the BDSM topic. The funny thing was, they were the last people that we would have picked as kinksters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    yes... recently a parent of one of the kids i used to teach messaged me....a little awkward :/

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Yes on a couple of occasions! Some we just remained friends with n others we went the next step with

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Welllthat would make it very interesting indeed and I am sure not that un-common.... Really it's a small world after all, and as they say when you least expect..... But a nice turn on to have a little secret like that for all concerned...... After all a lot of us have our little secrets tucked away.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'ding26' yes... recently a parent of one of the kids i used to teach messaged me....a little awkward :/ That would have freaked me out!

  • jandv

    jandv

    13 years ago

    The first time was on RHP when my wifes sister and hubby had a profile on here. The second time was at a swingers club and it was a lady i worked with. LOL She came up to the bar area and we just said hi to each other. Later i walked in to a room and she was getting pumped doggie style and moaning to a huge orgasm but it felt abit weird and the wife and I went to the spa area with other couples. LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'sunshine_man' Quoting 'ding26' yes... recently a parent of one of the kids i used to teach messaged me....a little awkward :/ That would have freaked me out! haha yes it did!....but we just politely avoid each other each week now....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its a Small World

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And ran into a guy I regularly play poker with. I left early, nothing much for me there anyway.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    13 years ago

    What does it matter? The law of averages says you are probably going to run into a friend, workmate, neighbour or relative at some point in this scene! LOLIf you don't want to run that risk...you'd better get out!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    for us its been a voyage of discovery...and along the way we've discovered a few we knew....and some have discovered us..   workmates of us both....and its been a respectful discovery...no play tho, as we felt that was too close for comfort personal friends of us both...again, same, why ruin a friendship by adding sex? my own cousin (mike) we chatted/exchanged explicit pics (faceless) before stumbling across one he'd shown us, posted on facebook.....it was a moment of hesitation that lead to laughter...no we didnt follow thru my own brother....lol... we did the double take of his profile before realising...and he's obviously seen Shels amateur gallery shots....lol...oops?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well they are there too, and I might say there is a hidden rule in swinging that if you meet outside of the lifestyle no one seems to acknowledge anything, I personally never so hi unless I am said hi to first and I would never say anything about the club ..it is not my place too. Leesa xx

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    13 years ago

    We've played with a few long time friends...played for a while. Don't anymore & it's never changed our friendships

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have ony been swinging a short time but I have run into several people that I know.... I always say hi at the clubs and at work/socially I wave and smile.   I also run into ALOT of people who knew my mum - who was a swinger not so long ago..... the worst ever line was... "I've fucked your mother!" ohhhh what a turn off! Mind you Mum and I laugh about it!   I have no issues with being on rhp. If someone notices me on here and asks me I will be open and honest - otherwise - shhhhh - its a secret!   Ms L