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Have you ever gone through with it after turning up just because you were there?

September 27 2011

I bumped into to a girl recently that I'd played with for a while, I met her on RHP as it happens, anyway, she told me she was going to meet up with a guy she'd met online and although she wasn't sure she fancied him thought that seeing as it was such a long drive she'd probably fuck the guy even if she didn't fancy him, in a strangely ironic way it seemed like a turn on!.So how many of you have met up with someone and just done it for the hell of it?.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    lol, awesomeive only ever slept with pple i dont fancy when drunk or if one person at a orgy i happened to end up bonkin in the mix of things!hehe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    absolutely not..not even when here as a single many years ago. what would be the point? everyone has a 'standard' or an 'ideal', so why be less than true to yourself? i was here and we are here now solely to satisfy fantasy and desire......not to indulge in 'whatever' sex with 'whoever' is handy......lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hell noooooooo I really need to be up to my eyeballs in lust

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes, I have done this! My pussy takes over from my brain and vision .... once she is wet and raring to go ... Frankenstein could approach me and I couldn't say no! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well I must admit I recently did so...and it was all about me feeling good about myself...My ex and I had broken up..a bit of a traumatic breakup..Ive been feeling down, suffering low self esteem, unloved and tired of staying home watching endless dvds !!!...and I just felt I needed a good ego boast. I met up with a guy from this site...not normally the kinda of guy I would see...we ended up doing the horizontal and it turned out that he was quite a exceptional lover, attentive, very skilled and just plain lovely !!! and he made me feel like a million bucks..and I so didnt see that happening at the start of the evening...when he offered, I did think Öh what the hell"and I have to say I was"damn glad afterwards....   So I think it depends on your circumstances...I looked at him at the beginning of the nite thinking no way and later that nite I was going WHOOO HOO... ...I think the thing is not to judge...we all have our reasons for doing things...and who we sleep/have sex with is our business...providing no one gets hurt...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    but could you do so....and still feel ok if you realised the choice was a bad one? have never had sex that i regretted later....and wont start now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not so long ago actually. I knew I shouldnt. I knew I would regret it but there are times when the body takes over and the mind closes down. I regreted it as soon as it was done and I have regreted it ever since. I felt disgusted with myself and it took me weeks to actually begin to feel good about myself again. It will not happen again. It was just not worth the angst afterwards.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...guilty as charged. We had brilliant phone sex...his face was sweet and we decided to meet up. At the time I lived out of town and he decided to catch the train to my town and I would pick him up. To tell the truth, when I saw him I wanted to drive on by....no stopping, no picking him up. He was a short round man who couldn't wear a belt and had his best sneakers on. But no, I couldn't just leave him there...so I picked him up and we went back to my place for dinner. I said to him "this ain't gonna happen"....fully intending to take him back to the station. In the meantime, my alpha male FB Dion the Dom calls...he asks how it's all going with said bloke I said "it's terrible...I don't want to fuck him" Next thing I know, Dion is giving instructions on the phone to said bloke about how to fuck me...we had the phone on speaker and WOW, it turned out to be really hot sex....as long as I kept my eyes closed. Then I drove him to the station and said farewell forever.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes, I have done this! My pussy takes over from my brain and vision .... once she is wet and raring to go ... Frankenstein could approach me and I couldn't say no! xFunlovingx Yep - me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    To be honest I never thought anyone would admit to doing it, but essentially sex for the sake of sex explains why most of us are here I suppose!.I couldn't deny finding it a turn on listening to a women tell me that she was going to go through with it even before she'd met up with the guy!, it did make me laugh also, considering the first time we met she was wearing a pair of heels, thigh length stockings and nothing else but a smile!, perhaps I fell into that category also!, oh my shattered ego! will I ever face the world again!.If the fantasy of having sex for the sake of it is there then I suppose it doesn't matter, I would love to hear from someone who has had sex with someone blindfolded and never known what their partner looked like? I suppose that's going to be a much narrower field?, you never know though on here!.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have met up with a man with no intensions what so ever to have sex. The problem with me is that I tend to shut off and it was a work situation for me. So no crossing the boundary but as I got closer to this man it was like being caught in gravity. The more my brain kept saying step away the more the rest of me kept saying you really want this.   He just was very confident and waited for me to just about beg him. I got so flustered its embarasing now to think how easy it was for him to get through the barrier.   Other times I think no and its a no, as there is no chemistry. I think its my sense of smell, some men smell so darn good I just want to eat them. Others like smokers I cant get near even if it was Brad Pitt.   So to that hunky guy who played me like a fish on a line, thank you it was delicious. You had the right bait, a big hunk of alpha cant resist that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes I have indeed.I hadone situaion where I met a woman and immediate thought wasNO. But did the courtesy of a meal and as wel got talking and banter etc and she declared her wishes. Well I was drawn to ut and yes one special home coffee later and yes sex - good sex as it happens. My definition of good sex is my ability to pose and express my sexuality, to mentally be in sync, to really please (and be appreciated) and just both feel good. (aside from the bonding and semen production) Also its nice to hammer or be sensual depending on moods.   Yay events can take control   Steve