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Have you ever
July 23 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have. I was 14 and a girlfriend needed to run away from a weird moment in her house, so I kept her company. Apart from that... no Have you ever: Send a raunchy picture to the wrong person (and spill... how did that work out for you?)
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RHP User
9 years ago
... that's one of my favourite love songs sung by Brandy. I didn't "run away from home" but I stood up for my independance at the age of 21 and moved out of my house. I had basically observed the filial piety thing and put up with my tiger parents' unreasonable rules and demands because I had always thought that I had to respect my elders and that I had my freedom to look forward to when I turned 21. When they still tried to control and restrict me at that age, it awoke a fire-breathing dragon within me and all hell broke loose. I became defiant for the first time in my life and moved out to assert my independance. Back then, and in my society / culture, you NEVER move out of the house until you were going to get married. I became a black sheep overnight.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A christian establishment where I was regarded as a bad influence. I ran away 3 times altogether at 13 to 15. Only a few hours the first time, a few days the second time & a few weeks the third time. I was considered too troublesome to take back that last time and was delivered by police to a government home where my first experience was to be treated for nits and then dressed from the communal clothes we shared there. A real confidence building experience. I've never sent a pic to the wrong person but have sent an awry message meant for a RHP member. The shocked, "Who Is This?" was too funny. I thought, Whew, looks like they hadn't saved my number... think we'll slink away and leave that where it is. Mine... Have You Ever... Hitchhiked?... I did a lot in the seventies. I had some mixed experiences from terrifying fear to appreciating the wonder of caring people. A funnier example is the time a boyfriend and I were arguing as we hitchhiked, split into 2 and when I saw he got a lift, I jumped in too. Poor driver must have wondered what had hit him as we continued to argue. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Whoa... that was a really rough start in life! You turn out to be really fine despite all that! Good on you!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I sent a msg meant for an FWB to my Son's G/F, her No was just below I was aiming for. I realised what I'd done & sent an apology, they both just laughed. I'm now very careful when I've been drinking & am txting. Lol. Cheers Paul.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That is really nice of you to say. :-) I count my blessings regularly. I've had no experience of the lifestyle you describe but I can imagine how stifling it could have been and the rebellion against that. I'll be interested to see what else this thread draws out Q. I reckon it has a lot of promise, thank you. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't exactly run away from home but there was a time when my Dad had to 'retrieve' me and take me home. I got caught up in the wrong crowd and I basically had to be ambushed haha because I'd gone awol I loathed him at the time but realised later he did the right thing, the people I'd got involved with were from the wrong side of the tracks, couple of them sexy as fuck mind you, but the future wouldn't have been bright had I continued on that tangent. Thank God my kids never did that to me I was texting 2 guys one day, one who I was full on into a fb thing, best connection and chemistry and sex that I've had doing this, he was amazing and we talked all the time, throught he nights, phone sex 3 or 4 times a night when he was at work lol naughty girl and then he'd be straight around here when he got home. He loved my ass and was dominant, perfect. So anyway, in the midst of raunchy/dirty messages going back and forth between he and I, this other guy, who I'd only just started communicating with, got one of the other messages haha I cry laughing even now when I think about it. The message was something about over the bonnet of the car, but more explicit. I realised almost immediately I'd sent to the wrong guy and let out this big scream nooooooooo then just laughed myself stupid, but had to quickly recoup and send another message kind of explaining my enthusiasm, but in the meantime, he sent me one back really excited, he was really turned on by it, so it worked out okay and we went on to see each other quite a few times, he was a great guy. From then on though, I'd freak out if my parents were texting me or one of my kids, always checking at the top of my screen when texting dirty pictures, to make sure one of them didn't get a vision they didn't want to see
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RHP User
9 years ago
God sorry, I really should proof read
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Just last week. It was a "thirtsy thursday pic" with a close up of a woman deep throating a hard cock. Her tongue was poking out under the end of the shaft and caressing the balls and the caption "just toungin for one". By Accident, sent it to my estranged wifes very vanilla friend. Never got any feedback. Thanks for sending that Savannah.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ran away from home for more than an hour or two...got back before dark or dinner! Did send the ''wrong picture'' to my very soon to be ex-wife although think there may have been something Freudian with that little oversight. So did you ever... say ''yes'' when you really and truly meant not only ''no'' but ''hell no''? Ahhh the days of my jaded youth...sex and rock-n-roll!
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RHP User
9 years ago
On the running away, and sending a pic to wrong person. Although I have sent texts to the wrong person, but nothing raunchy in that case, yet... Hitch-hiked... Yes, and still do occasionally when I happen to have to get somewhere without a vehicle, there's not much choice of public transport when outside of the major cities/towns. I also occasionally pick up hitchhikers if they don't look too suss...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL' That is really nice of you to say. :-) I count my blessings regularly. I've had no experience of the lifestyle you describe but I can imagine how stifling it could have been and the rebellion against that. I'll be interested to see what else this thread draws out Q. I reckon it has a lot of promise, thank you. Peachy ... that's why I have a soft spot for children, teens or young adults who appear to be a bit out of place in society. I think Australia as a nation seems to have a very low appreciation for introverts and I've encouraged many young introverts and also enlightened parents of introvert kids about their wonderful potential and attributes. Here, it feels as if you need to be an extrovert all the time and be popular to "make it". Pth pth pth! As a trailblazing black sheep, probably the first in both the paternal and maternal sides of my family, I can relate to how you must have felt because you were labelled as "different". I went from a star academic performer amongst my cousins and a "good daughter" to a fallen dark angel and to cope with the fallout and shame, I self-imposed a seven-year long moratorium against most contact with my family except for my mum. Mind you, I grew up in a society where the individual is secondary to family and society unlike in the Western cultures where the I, Me and Myself element is much stronger and therefore, to choose to go astray and blaze your own trail in that context was especially astounding and earth-shattering. A lot of personal liberties and independance that are taken for granted in the West were issues I had to fight for and find the inner strength to assert myself. Worse, I couldn't talk to most of my peers about it because what I had done would've tarnished my reputation and I would have had most friendships withheld from me. Ironically, it was when I arrived in Australia that my wings were clipped. Foreigners who arrive on a work visa have our hands tied to a certain extent. Even if there is much bullying in the workplace, we often keep mum and suffer in silence because we wouldn't want to jeopardise our work visa. I arrived in a democracy to find that my freedom and rights were unduly restricted because of the bullying element which is shamefully rife in my profession. Speak up and be a whistleblower and you might lose your work visa. For someone who's always been courageous and who had always been lion-hearted in fighting for my rights, having to swallow the injustice and suffer in silence did eventually break me. Life is strange, isn't it? Amidst a land of freedom, I find myself with my hands tied to my back and silenced because the consequences of assertiveness would have been unfathomable. Have you ever had to suffer a gross injustice in silence?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Haven't sent the wrong message yet... But did send a close up picture of my breast/nipple taken in the bath to my husband, in an attempt to get some action.... He didn't click on the pic to make it bigger in his messages and couldn't work it out - thought it was an ant... WTF? He then asked my 15yo son what it was (my kids will need therapy for years!)... Midnight - too many times to count - but never again! Mine... Have you ever fallen for a fwb/fb/lover/whatever you call them, and how did you manage it? ... and an ant! ROTFLMAO!!! That was truly funny! Have I ever fallen for a FWB / FB / Lover? Not yet. Usually, they fall for me first! As to how I managed that, I focus on their bad points and amplify it, and convince myself that they aren't the best for me, and that it will never work out. I also remind myself of what the arrangement is for and rationalise myself out of any silly fantasies. If I absolutely need to indulge in daydreams and fantasies, there's always Mr Darcy, Christian Gray, and the yummy middle-aged Ben Affleck aka Batman and Keanu Reeves! I also compartmentalise, as in, I always prefer FWB's who can host because if I were to have them over at my place, when they eventually leave or disappear or do the irritating ghosting thing, I won't have lingering memories of them in my abode and my sanctuary remains intact. I'm actually very soft, sensitive and sentimental and so I really have to safeguard myself against getting hurt. I'm the sort who would take forevermore until the cows come home to forget someone that I really like so it's best that I not have anyone over. There are some FWB's that I'm very relaxed and comfortable with because there's no chance in hell that I'll fall for them because they just aren't my type. However, if I appear guarded or uncomfortable and not at ease with an FWB and I'm not communicating in my usual open and frank manner then aaaahhh... he's a minefield I have to tread carefully around in my heart. It's been too long since that has happened.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Mine: Have you ever called out the wrong name during sex? Yes. Terribly embarrassing! I call it the Mind-Heart-Groin disconnect. Don't you just hate unrequited love? Have you ever wished that your lover would play it rough(er)?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've never ever done it because I'm pretty paranoid about safety. However, 10 years ago, when I first landed in Australia, I couldn't drive and I remember lugging homewares etc to and fro to set up house. I wished someone, anyone, would have been kind enough to stop their car and offer me a ride because I felt like a beast of burden. On my umpteenth trip to the "nearest" supermarket and mall, which isn't all that near, I actually cried whilst lugging a bucket and mop and etc home.
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RHP User
9 years ago
have you ever punched your bf and given him a blood nose, while you're both asleep? I swear to God, I did exactly that haha I've never punched anyone in my life, and never would knowingly, but I swung my arm over in my sleep and connected with his face He woke up with a fright and wasn't too impressed, in fact from memory, I nearly got one back just kidding about that last bit, he just moaned and mumbled and told me off
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have, a big oops there, once only, although If it weren't for the age gap, there's a few I'd be wanting to take off the market The other guy, well discretion and all that, I can't talk about it, but I miss him so much, think I always will. You know you go through life and wonder whether partners are right, through your youth and marriage etc never really knowing if you fit with someone. Well this guy ticked all the boxes, turned me on beyond description, and I was so sure that he was the one. Wasn't to be. I apparently didn't tick all his boxes. I hope he's happy now, I'm sure he is. I was hurt, devastated. Do I regret, I don't know. I know I don't ever want to feel pain like that again, but it reminded me that I need to be careful of letting myself feel that way, and haven't since. Sex only now
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hitchiked....no..called out the wrong name during sex..no.....sent a text to the wrong person ..oops yes..fallen in love with a FB or FWB ..no ...have I ever said yes when I meant he'll no....unfortunately yes insightful responses ..Peachy,Betty.Peony you have all faced life changing challenges and Peony I had no idea how difficult your situation with the visa could be even after ten years.Hugs Q
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Hell yes. Fb to Fwb to GF. How did l handle it? We had an amazing journey. Few hiccups dealing with life in RHP but overall one the best experience of my life. The memory of that experience will last forever and certainly a yardstick for future fb/fwbs And we have decided to remain friends. My question.........Have you ever been caught masturbating?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, ran away from home for 2 nights but went back when I realised the grass wasn't greener. No, never sent a pic to the wrong person Yes, hitchhiked all the time in the 70's, a girlfriend and I were even picked up by the cops and dropped at the ice skating rink as per out request. Never said yes when I meant no - sexually but yes - non sexually. No, never fallen for a FWB. No, never called out the wrong name. Mine....... Have you ever been caught having sex by a family member????? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Run away from home: Yes, as a teenager and as an adult. I ran away as a teenager cos my dad was going to belt me. I ran away as an adult cos my husband hit me. Said yes when I meant definitely no: yes I've given a few sympathy head jobs throughout my life. Fallen for a FWB, FB whatever: yes and can't offer any suggestions on how you manage it as I know I manage that stuff badly. You have my sympathy. Have you ever loved two people at the same time and how did this work for you?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hitchhike - a lot in Australia, New Zealand and Ireland. I had one scary moment when I was 17, and one of the people who picked my friend and I up in Ireland was a bit creepy. We also met a couple of the funniest guys in Ireland who took us sightseeing but when they left us by the road again we'd only gone 8 klms. That was a hoot. I've picked up loads of hitch-hikers and never felt unsafe. I slow down and try to get a vibe before I stop. If I don't like or can't get a vibe, I don't stop. I've been caught having sex by one of my kids when he was little. He was most concerned that I was being squashed LOL. I haven't been caught masturbating yet.
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RHP User
9 years ago
1) But I used to hitchhike in my younger days and once while en route from Nhill to Ballarat got a ride from an elderly bloke whose greeting was " I'm pissed as a cricket but I take you there" . We weaved down the western highway for about 10 miles and then he stopped at the Kiata pub and wanted me to come in for a drink. I declined and luckily got another ride before he reappeared.2) And also in my younger days about seven years into my marriage, we were going through a rough patch and I was involved with another woman and on two separate occasions called each by the other's name. Something to be said for openness and honesty is that in both cases even though I was very red faced and embarassed luckily the only consequence was a playful slap. Hmmmm still can't believe the mistake I made or the reactions. Nothing else interesting to report or suggest.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I always love reading your posts,even the really long ones lol 🐞Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
To see you back Ms.Wild🐞Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
lol have I ever been caught masturbating? Yes I have at the beach, but it worked out okay, they joined in and my kids and friends would have heard me through the wall> bedroom-loungeroom. Our house was like a half way house with bodies everywhere in the morning, my son is very social, so my screams, there's no hiding that, I'm loud. I used to try to find moments when I was home alone, but gave up in the end, I was never alone and thought, stuff it, not missing out on my fun Does it count being caught masturbating when a play partner emerges from the shower after a session? He was showering to leave but stayed a little longer, told me to keep going and stroked himself watching me. That was really intimate, it was very hot I generally used to lock the door though at home so I didn't have to worry. Live alone now so happy days
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' Quoting 'Summersolstice' Mine: Have you ever called out the wrong name during sex? Yes. Terribly embarrassing! I call it the Mind-Heart-Groin disconnect. Don't you just hate unrequited love? Have you ever wished that your lover would play it rough(er)? omg yes to this last question, I only keep the rough ones
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'GypsyWildNT' I've been caught having sex by one of my kids when he was little. He was most concerned that I was being squashed LOL. I haven't been caught masturbating yet. I mean keep masturbating, ........you're bound to get caught one day.I have often been caught by my wife (inevitable really, I'm a big wanker??) and ridicuously I still get embarrassed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a PA that was not only extremely competent but also a very good friend...I also talk in my sleep. Never roll over and throw your arm around someone else and grumble out.. ''Nikki, I love you''. ...busted.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes. First time at 15, ambushed in the street by my parents and taken to the local police for a good talking to. second time at 16, hitchhiked with a girlfriend half way to Sydney, again found and sent back home. Finally left for good at 17. Sent a text to the wrong person....yes again Fallen for a fb. yes but hope I never let on to him.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Q - no never ran away Pepper - yeah accidentally uploaded it for my facebook friends to see :/ Midnight - So did you ever... say ''yes'' when you really and truly meant not only ''no'' but ''hell no''? ... all the time. I'm working on my ability to say no Peachy nope never hitchhiked betty - yes I have we were best friends before we became fwb and I told him I had fallen for him- he didnt feel the same but we are still best friends and the feelings are gone - all round a good outcome PP Have you ever had to suffer a gross injustice in silence? Yes Summer - : Have you ever called out the wrong name during sex? no, I like to use pet names or no names in the bedroom , I find christian names too formal PP Have you ever wished that your lover would play it rough(er)? Sure have My question - Have you ever told someone they have bad breath and if so, how?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Never said as much but.... If you're in a decent Italian restaurant it's not unthinkable to ask for a roasted garlic appetiser? More is always best! SH
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' I always love reading your posts,even the really long ones lol 🐞Q So sweet! I know it sounds kinda morbid and really eccentric, but I remember crying myself to bed at times when I felt lonely and overwhelmed in my first years here because I am all alone in a foreign land with no friends yet. I remember thinking, if I somehow died on my last day of work on a Friday night at home, and I'm not due back to work till after the weekend, then nobody will realise I'm dead until someone calls the police after I've been missing from work and uncontactable for at least 24 hours. And I remember thinking, "Gee, I hope I won't die on a balmy Summer Friday evening ... because the stench would have been unbearable by Tuesday!" I make myself laugh with cynical and dark humour even when I'm hurting up to the hilt. Weird, right? Often, when I cry buckets, I'll end up thinking of something outrageously comical that makes me LOL and one of my darling ex FWB used to look at me incredulously and say, "You are so amazing... you can even laugh amidst your sorrow and tears!" He was an amazing man... He was a real friend who stood by me through thick and thin. Such a hero! So yeah, I strongly believe that after the tears, laughter has to come because laughter is the harbinger of hope. I've cried ceaselessly before and known despair so dark I never want to go through that again and if one doesn't break the crying spell with something a bit twisted, the slippery slope becomes steeper and the descent into the pit becomes surer. I love the recent discoveries made with regards to neuropasticity and how our cognition and thought process can actually influence the physiological structures of our brain. I attended yet another talk on the topic this morning and to summarise, if we become entrapped in bleak, depressive thoughts, it changes our neural structures and actually alters our brain structures! And if we keep on wallowing in depression, it becomes harder and harder to get out of the fog. Conversely, if we undergo cognitive restructuring by reading and verbalising positive thoughts until we convince ourselves and actually believe it, the brain structure undergoes physiological changes! Our words and our thoughts truly have power! I believe the University of California is one of several institutions that participated in the research. So yeah... back to my trend of thought. I treat this forum as a sort of semi-blog sometimes. Should I one day perish, I think at least Annie might realise from the news especially if it's some morbid rotting body case of a person who died alone and at least, there is a digital footprint somewhere of my thought processes. I even told an ex bf about the unique bits about my denture just in case... body needs identification, etc. I love CSI and detective whodunnit shows, can you tell? LOL!!! I became an Aussie citizen about three years ago, Q. I breezed through the questions for the citizenship test, thanks to my penchant for watching Parliament proceedings and news programs. I can no longer afford FoxTel, I haven't figured out how to rig my TV to the internet and I don't exactly want to spend even more time in front of the TV anyway, and on rainy or windy days, I get blizzard on my TV with absolutely no reception. Thanks for being so sweet. Due to a series of unfortunate events, and a domino effect of bad, life-changing diagnosis that I received recently, my entire life has been turned upside down and flipped left side right. I was in denial for a very long time and I can't say that I've fully come to grips with the situation yet, but I am slowly but surely getting there. My pride and dignity gets me going and it's sad that too many Drs refuse to take me seriously when I reported my ailments and symptoms because I "don't look sick". Pardon me, but I'm the sort who will wear lip gloss and comb my hair even when I'm lying in the hospital bed and the fact that I refuse to succumb to my illness is a testimony of my determination to look decent in spite of and despite and it should never have been part of the physical assessment! So... part of the reason why this black sheep did another detour into previously forbidden territory and landed on RHP. I figured, I don't know when my life is going to end, but I definitely don't want to die chaste as a nun! I've done the celibacy thang until pussy probably developed cobwebs and the vajayjay probably re-virginised itself (LOL!!!) and I'm never going there again. But WTH... the men here are truly acting like little boys in a candy shop, eyeing every single container of sweets, not being able to settle on one FWB but all wanting to have their dicks in as many pussies as possible. Whatever happened to the gentleman? Whatever happened to a little bit of romance and relationship alongside the sex? Whilst I was being pampered by my ex's, the world has transformed into a much colder place. Fuck and dump. Hate that. I'm a person, not a sex vessel. What's wrong with taking the time to know your FWB a little more and becoming good friends? Maybe I should date men in their 50's and older... Apologies! Yet another post of epic length! LOL!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ooh, yessss!!! To answer my own HYE question, I've always wished the man would be rougher. I love my men very masculine and very dominant. I need to know that the men are made of sterner stuff than I am! I want a lion in bed, not a kitty cat.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Harder and rougher? Spanking or whipping? Restraint? Bring it on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've been caught masturbating a girl on the beach. Does that count??
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Told someone they have bad breath? Only in LTRs. People at work, to hard to tell them so i carry mints and hope the fuck they want some......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have you ever gone above and beyond what you thought you could achieve, personally or professionally?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Reading your last post, made me realise you've articulated why it's hard for us sexy, hot,wise older women to find decent FWBs. Oh goodness, men who can genuinely be rough in bed 🤗😍 Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sent a pic to the wrong person ; I left home as an adult ; called someone the wrong name during sex! I have had to tell someone they had bad breath (at work) and I have wished and then asked a lover to be rougher ( the result was fucking hot). Have you ever 'told or been told by a lover/FWB/FB, you love them/they love you, whilst in the heat of passion?' Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like you Ive run away sometimes, sadly only in my mind as Im sure Id come back to at least one mortally wounded person!! And in answer to your last "have you..." Yes Ive loved someone from here for several years. What have I done about it?? Absolutely nothing 😐 He reciprocates in his own damaged way and I sit and wait for whenever he needs me, in my own damaged way 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
and Personal Nope never run away - only in my head, but soooooo wanted to at timesYes have sent the wrong pic to the wrong person - handled awkwardlyHitchhiked- yep when younger, cause Gymea Bay is a long way from Gymea Railway StationConstantly have said yes when I so wanted to say no - I'm on probation at work, its a givenBeen caught masturbating - only by a lover who joined inCalled out a wrong name in the throes of passion - only if you consider "God" the wrong name, called out constantly Been caught by a family member having sex - nope car back seat for us Catholic girlsGone beyond what I thought I could achieve - Yes I did a Ph.D. and lost myself because of itFell in love with a FB - Yup married him, divorced him, life moved onLoved two people at the same time - No I never been in that position. I tend to be monogamous when it comes to love, sex is different Have I missed any ? My question Have you ever just totally spilt your guts to one about how you truly feel about them and been sorry or have you just shut up cause you didn't want to lose that person out of your life ? Or did you spill and it was the best thing you ever did ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have ,only professionally though..me and coupledom do not co -exist well 🐶🐶🐶fur babies ,I never thought that I would be a crazy old dog lady co-habiting with a crazy bird man..who da' thunk it 😈Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
I got caught having (solo) sex by my daughter My work had me getting up at an ungodly hour so I used to have a nana nap on a Friday arvo before having a few beers on a Friday evening. This time I put the ear plugs in a bit early, I used to have a wank to help me sleep, my wife tells me my daughter walked in on but I didn't realise. Poor girl was only 16 at the time, she doesn't know that I know about it.I've done lots of hitch hiking , In Australia, England, Ireland and NZ, mostly in the 70's and 80's
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah, your story touched me, shocking how vindictive people can be, and competitive in the workplace. So often they'll step on whoever to climb the ladder or make themselves look better, it sucks. And bosses being bullies, I've been there and they're assholes. Fortunately I've also had the opposite. I had a female boss who was absolutely amazing. If she reads this, she'll know I'm referring to her. She was younger than me but always treated me with respect and complete trust. I miss her and I've never found a boss like her since then. I'm my own boss now and even I don't measure up But for you to come out of it with dignity and strength, is perfect, and deserved. I hate when people are unprofessional, and jealous. Unfortunately it's women most of the time. They can't seem to just be happy for others around them. I really felt sorry that you had to go through that and be doubted, horrible situation to find yourself in. So your current happy, settled situation, makes me smile, good for you, you absolutely deserve it and you seem so happy For me, personally I exceeded what I thought I could achieve, by a long way, but professionally no, but I'm happy about that too now, I've come to realise personal happiness for me is far more important. Coupledom for me probably will never happen either lol I've said it before, I'd probably kill the poor guy haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Have you ever gone above and beyond what you thought you could achieve, personally or professionally? On four occasions my ex tried on suicide...no fuckin' way in the world someone is going to die on my watch and the ambos let me ride in to make sure. I've degrees that go well beyond EMT Emerg Ops so enough said. Quoting 'BooHooBoo' Have you ever just totally spilt your guts to one about how you truly feel about them and been sorry or have you just shut up cause you didn't want to lose that person out of your life ? Or did you spill and it was the best thing you ever did ? BHB...yes, I would rather go on instinct and make the mistake of letting someone know how very unique I feel they may be and somehow tied conjunctively to my life yet overlook just how I feel. This isn't a dress rehearsal and we all get one shot at it all. You...are simply lovely and I appreciate you for who you are. Next question for every/any one since I have a space on the floor...did you ever stand with or between life and death for someone or something you love?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not exactly life and death but a few years ago I came face to face with a girl who had tormented my daughter for years. It's never happened before or or since but I literally saw red.Fortunately I was able to control myself and walk away. That experience taught me a lot about what I was capable of as a parent and how protective I could be . Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Without going into details as the case is now long since closed...my very best friend back home (a State police officer) tossed me his handgun and said ''Don't let those bastards shoot my ass''. I didn't and they were indeed arrested on enough charges to write a book on the law. Shit happens...live life and love it, then just quietly move on.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Similar thing happened with one of my kids. The two boys involved, the bullies, I saw at the school one day and same, saw red. I was sick of it, the school did nothing, so I did what you're not supposed to do, take things into your own hands. I jumped out of the car and ambushed these kids, never touched them but wanted to. I did however get up close and tell them to leave my child alone, or I would come find them. I know it wasn't the right way to go about things, but they never went near him again. One of them though, shocked me with the cold way he looked at me, he seemed to look right through me, disturbing, he was 12 yrs old and I have no doubt will be in jail one day. He made the hair stand up on my neck, something chilling about his gaze. And at the ripe old age of 12. But yes, as a parent, It took everything I had not to do more that day. Worked out okay, and even better we left town shortly after, happy days 😃 can't stand bullies
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RHP User
9 years ago
@Boohooboo yes just about to... I just love Cure quotes, especially from Lullabye!!! Hitch hiked; no. Wrong name; only in bad dreams. Text; yes but it didn't matter. Fallen in love with a FB; always, but I keep a lid on it. Yes/ no; who hasn't?? Punched in sleep: no, it's been done to me. Gave a gf a nasty squeeze on her boob in my sleep whilst dreaming of jujitsu 😳 Rougher play; sometimes. Are we there yet? Mine: have you ever fucked in public?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ran away from home when 15 (step mother hitting me around the head with a 4x2, which was a big bigger than normal so thought bugger this), walked 7hrs to my mothers. A blessing as got to live with my mother for the next 2-years before leaving home for work (my parents split up when I was only 1). And yes, have also hitch hiked. No to the rest.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yesss just today actually and I have no idea where they landed. Oops really need to wear my glasses when typing in email addresses lol. Betty: yes I have fallen for a fb and while he was oblivious or at least I hope so I was shattered and really had to work at distancing myself. Now we are just friends nothing more. I like it that way but oh it's hard. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Ghost71' @Boohooboo yes just about to... I just love Cure quotes, especially from Lullabye!!! Hitch hiked; no. Wrong name; only in bad dreams. Text; yes but it didn't matter. Fallen in love with a FB; always, but I keep a lid on it. Yes/ no; who hasn't?? Punched in sleep: no, it's been done to me. Gave a gf a nasty squeeze on her boob in my sleep whilst dreaming of jujitsu 😳 Rougher play; sometimes. Are we there yet? Mine: have you ever fucked in public? of course, haven't you? I think I've fucked in public more than I have behind closed doors. Majorly turned on by it, I'm naughty. I'm meeting a guy on Friday and this is unheard of for me, meeting him for a coffee, gasp I don't usually do pre-meets, just go straight in lol I'm excited but scared, I'm not good at being that close to a guy, particularly one I'm potentially going to be intimate with, and not doing things to him haha I told him we better find somewhere with some level of privacy, I know I'll have to well you know I'm too horny, I don't like wasting time. I could be dead tomorrow
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