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Have you cheated or been cheated on?
March 08 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been on the delivering and recieving end of cheating.....at the time its a rush because of the thrill of doing something you shouldnt be doing and the chance of being caught but the feeling the next day aint so flash...and the feeling u get when someone has cheated on you....well i dont know if there is anything worse than that Be good and dont cheat....or atleast dont let them find out xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Taipan.. you'd be surprised how many dungeons really do have bad mobile phone reception. It's not my fault! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
wouldn't wish it on anyone...friends or enemies...my wife fucked my best friend for 8 years...down the tube...2 for the price of 1...sometimes curiosity is not a good thing to have taipan?jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
This was before I got married to my wife, but one of my ex-girlfriends cheated on me. Didn't find out till I tried to reconcile the relationship - met her at a train station to head out somewhere else to discuss things. She showed up with her new squeeze. It went south real fast, so I buggered off before it got really nasty. Still, it was a knife in the guts. Not something I'd wish on anybody.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was with my boyfriend for about 6 months. Sort of always had an inkling that he was cheating,because he said he would be out of condoms and then when we went to have sex 1/4 to 1/2 the packet was gone already. sexyme21
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RHP User
16 years ago
My ex hubby did it......Found out when I was 7 months pregnant...he had been with her for 1 1/2 years..she was about 18 yrs his senior ( couldn't get an exact age outta him).. I asked him why ? He said ...Was easy cause I trusted him. To err is human...To forgive is devine... I forgave him and we are great friends who love our son and can go out dinners n drinks..shopping..whatever..without any dramas. Huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just for the suspicious out there.... some guys play with condoms when masturbating (who hasn't) so it's no conclusive evidence of cheating if there's fewer condoms in his condom pack than you remember him using....... having said that however I suggest you listen to your instincts. If you are feeling lke your relationship is insecure, then it probably is. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nothing beats coming home only to find your long term bf "6" years... Geez wasted youth!!.. Spooning your friend in front of the fire place, well naturally they both denied it.. And I did notice their clothes n undies all over the couch.. Hmmm maybe they were just cold.... Nah!!... Well I moved out that day n never heard anything from either of them.. Until I got a friend request a few months ago on facebook from him.. Yeah I rejected him n blocked both.. What can I say their married with a few kiddos all under 5 playing happy families.. And that's why I have trust issues...lol.. Pixie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh dear looks like I'm the only cheater. Why did I do it? It was an old high school friend that I hadn't seen in 32 years and it sounded like fun.... and it was. Unfortunately that started the Cheating Ball rolling. Found that occasionally having sex with someone different brought excitement into my life. I was doing things that my partner would never agree to. Then got caught on msn messenger. I then asked for an open marriage and he said no.... so I said goodbye. The rest is history. Do I regret it? I regret getting caught and the hurt that it caused but I don't regret the fantastic experiences I've had and continue to have. Sweet
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr Pup has been cheated on by his 1st true love. Mind you we were young and not meant to be and I was withdrawing away from the relationship. Still hurt heaps and took a few years to get my head straight - not due to the cheating just the loss of the true love stuff. I should be a Cranky Not-so-young Man but life is full of treats and tribulations to help us grow and hopefully end up as Contented Wise Old Men/Women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe five years ago, at the end of a sexless relationship into which I had absolutely poured my heart, I met an old girlfriend and ally. At midnight we went to a lonely cliff top overlooking the ocean. We stripped naked and lay on a blanket, chatting, drinking champagne. We had deeply satisfying sex! I took her to her home. I went home. My partner was in bed asleep. I realised I was entirely untroubled by my conscience. Just over a year ago, I had a very jealous girlfriend. She was so jealous she'd get mad if a girl in a short skirt walked by, even if I didn't even notice. She was so jealous, she went green-eyed because I had a female voice on my GPS. One day she dumped me. Weeks later I found a new GF. The jealous ex came round one night and caught me with my legitimate GF, and she loudly (and embarrassingly) accused me of infidelity. Maybe it is the legal training, but if there's one thing that cuts deep, its the pointed finger of accusation. I was innocent, but I was made to feel very guilty and ashamed indeed. Stupid, but I did... This Saturday, I went to my very first orgy. Six nice and normal seeming couples, all naked, all engaging in joyful, erotic sex together. All honest and above board. Every one of us left feeling happy and empowered. It seems to me that this is all about context. What's important is our honesty and our probity. Interestingly, this is a theme I touched upon in another string which was started by the Taipan (thank you, my brother). I respectfully submit that we can do what we like. I put it to you that if we don't have our integrity, we have nothing. Neill.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's an interesting and painful topic I've had the experience of being the other woman and being cheated on.... both sucked!!! Had a long term relationship with a man who never wanted to commit and i think was around for emotional support - at the six year mark he embarked on a long distance relationship with a much older woman overseas. I think it's the most devastating thing i've gone through - it affected my self esteen, my sexual confidence and trust. Can be hard to work out why things happen - but i can honestly say I'm glad in some aspects as his cheating helped me get out of a dead end relationship and find myself sexually and emotionally :) Would i wish it upon anyone - definitely not - better to get out gracefully, hold your head up high then move on!
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep sick of the same old position every time i wanna try new things and the other chick loves giving head which i never get
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well years ago my Brother slept with my Gf at the time so i slept with his as pay back, video taped it and played it at his 21st.- we don't talk much these days.also my ex Gf also got around the base when i was away with army, but thats okay i slept with everyone while i was away too.but now with my lovely partner, wouldn't touch another woman unless my girl is with me.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'sweet_desires' Oh dear looks like I'm the only cheater. Do I regret it? I regret getting caught and the hurt that it caused but I don't regret the fantastic experiences I've had and continue to have. You are not alone here. I have in all honesty never been a faithful person. Dopnt get me wrong I have tried but something/someone has been able to tempt me away. I admit that I do give in to my impulses and react on them and I know some would say that I shouldnt give in but why? I enjoy myself - selfish yes I know - and I do realise that I have noone else to blame but myself but hey! you only live once and I am going to enjoy myself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes and yes. through boredom and not getting attention at home, i cheated and usually with much younger men. he cheated on me,because i was ill and not putting out. end result still together but we now have an arrangement. We play discreetly with others, dont let it interfere with the marriage and are always honest with each other.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Oh Taipan.. you'd be surprised how many dungeons really do have bad mobile phone reception. It's not my fault! Hugs StalkyMy best freind did my ex wife. I remember the time we still spoke about problems in our realtionship and he said" He would tear down tall buildings to keep his marriage going: How if he was in my situation: He would do anything to keep he's girl. My Gawd! He only wanted me to stay with her so he didnt have to leave he's wife. Guys/mates can be dogs. A week after he left he's wife called to tell me the news!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have an old school friend that I would like to "cheat with" we are both married and the sexual tension between us is unbelievable. Any thoughts?
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