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Have men lost the art of verbal seduction????

January 29 2012

It's late at night I am wide awake and having just had a chat in private chat room with a rhp member I found myself pondering whether men have lost the art of verbal seduction. I am no prude and can talk dirty with the best of them and the use of profane language doesn't offend me, but sometimes a girl wants to be seduced with words as much as a body. Here are some of the gems I have been either emailed sent as chat in private chat room or via text: "I'd like to take you into my abbatoir and fuck you" lol I think he meant boudoir "I'd like to savour the smell of your cunt" a little too Silence of the Lambs for my liking "fancy a fuck" way too base and not likely to spark my interest lol "if I'm being a pain in the arse we can just add more lube" wtf Those are the few i can think of late at night so anyone got any more and what do women think about verbal seduction is it hot, is it needed or have we all become basic evolutionary creatures who just need to fullfil our animalistic needs without all the hoopla????????????? Thoughts please................

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RHP User

14 years ago

A sexy dialogue between lovers. How erotic to hear all those saucy little sentences, indulges your imagination, creates a scenario and mood that may lead you on delicious journey leading anywhere you would like. Creates fantasy and playfulness and all manner of other naughty thoughts. A big wet the knickers turn on! So yes, VERY hot and a much needed extension to any sexual encounter whether it's just for a good old flirt or between lovers. Just like to end with my favorite turn off line, can't believe any idiot would think this one would actually have the desired result- " I'll give you a $1000 to cum on your face" Aghhhh so sad!! MrsE X

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RHP User

14 years ago

Who are we kidding? It's women who do all the seducing. You make us feel like we're in control and all the while you're hair twirling and eye fluttering... We really don't stand a godamm chance. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

I think it is the same with most things, there are men who are good at verbal seduction and others who are either not very imaginative or just plain don't make the effort. as an example, was on holidays and there was a local guy hitting on any woman that was within reach, rather crude and not very imaginative. after talking to another local, mentioned the guy i had observed, was informed he treats it as a number game. If he hits up as many women as possible, law of averages he will get a yes. apparently it does work for him occasionally. Have babbled a little but in essence, there is some who are good at it or at least try and make an effort and others that aren't or don't make the effort.Dar X

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RHP User

14 years ago

Verbal seduction does not have to include obscenities if you have a good grasp of the language, know how to turn a woman on, what turns a woman on, but most importantly have actually taken a woman to a higher sexually spiritual level. Meaning, the difference between jumping aboard and going like a rabbit and making passionate, memorable love that leaves you tingling for a long time. Learn to address the mind and spirit long before you touch the body.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I guess some guys aint so creative...but also, i guess some women at the receiving end...aint so bright either.....

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RHP User

14 years ago

Just like actual art(which is open to interpretation), the art of verbal seduction comes in many forms! The examples given by redhotchick69 and MrsE are nothing more than graffiti scrawlled on a wall somewhere and the so called artist(BS perhaps!?!) is then trying to convince you he is one of the masters! I'm not a master, maybe accomplished at the most, but I may have occasionally scrawled graffiti once or twice. Sorry if I have! Xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

Courtesy of The Mighty Boosh:"I wanna pound you like yesterday's beef!"When it's gotta work first time, every time. To keep it poppin' try a falsetto! Results may vary. Also translates adequately into other languages.'Nuff said.TTFN!,Narc >;-p

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RHP User

14 years ago

But it's possible I'm extra picky. The whole 'seduction game' rubs me the wrong way when it's for the sole purpose of getting in my pants. How about you get to know me first? Have an interest in my mind, heart, spirit? How about you want to get in my pants because you like my mind, heart, spirit? Where's the charm, courtesy, chivalry ... the effort? I make an effort, why is it that so few men can be bothered these days, or even know how? A little bit of class goes a very, very long way when it comes to seduction.I know, I know. I'm generalising. And ranting. And I sound bitter. We all have our days when the opposite sex makes us feel especially fragile. I'm having one today, so be gentle, please :)

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RHP User

14 years ago

Dont let the secret out! Makes it easier for us guys who arent retarded at holding a conversation!

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RHP User

14 years ago

...is not lost though often perceived as more refined or subtle way to approach a new lover, yet that is not true at all. The words, written or spoken...may simply seek to touch you physically in hopes that you will find cause to justify them emotionally...that is not seduction at all but rather an invitation to a temporal feeding of your more carnal needs. The words of seduction will touch your emotions and set you free to express them physically...and whilst you will be left with a craving and perhaps an insatiable hunger for more, will become a part of you to keep forever in memories that you will never wish to forget. | In body, mind, thought and spirit the choice...is yours.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Not all men... and some (shock horror!) even know and appreciate the value of post seduction... a text message (or three ;p) the day after the night err morning... errr hours after... leaving no doubt you are still on his mind as much as he is on yours. The continuity of seduction can be a powerful thing.("Today's Helpful Tip" Don't read text messages at work that make your legs give way... while attempting to use a box cutter - especially when still basking in after glow!)

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RHP User

14 years ago

I love reading all this mystery bullshit. Gives me a little tingle to see keen minds at work. I love ruff guys. Dirty, filthy mouthed unconfused grunts with one thing on their minds. I'm sure if I can see the appeal in such a person, that at least some of you ladies can also. Seduction. Stop teasing us you evil bitches! It's confusing.HugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Some do, some don't. Seeker is right, on several occasions what I've said or written wasn't received well purely because the "receiving end wasn't so bright" hence requiring several explanations....kind of ruins the flow a little :-(I'll be eternally grateful that I have been gifted with the ability to write. I may be crap at repeating those same words aurally, usually with a lot of interspersed "ums and ers". The words do come out but there's never the same flow as I get when I'm writing. Dare I start an RHP version of Mills and Boon?

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'm sorry, I know men need romance and forplay too but what the hell is so wrong with "Why are your pants still on?" Boys seem to respond well to that in fact. Geez, it's not like I yell "hussle! hussle! hussle!" hehehehe

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RHP User

14 years ago

I do throw in a naughty little smirk and and a purr you know too

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RHP User

14 years ago

"Why are your pants still on" would so work me up into a lather of jizz.... take it easy bebe the day is yet young :pHugsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

I know... all this talk and I've had to duck out and fix myself an afternoon snack! Damn. I promised to be good. See what you've done!!HugsStalky Quoting 'ChasingChilli' We've given you a hard onChilli xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

good phone and txt sex is awesome foreplay, when you work away it becomes essential! amazing how well strung words build a mental movie better than any porno. time differences can be a problem, late night sexy texts can lead to distraction especially when working with warm vibrating equipment!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

The other side of verbal seduction Seduction, seen negatively, involves temptation and enticement, often sexual in nature, to lead someone astray into a behavioural choice they would not have made if they were not in a state of sexual arousal My father was a great seducer of women, very suave smooth as silk as slick as a rat with a gold tooth. I love the way people write, the seductive quill of a good writer is deliciously enticing . However its an illusion, like a good book, we make up the character of that person in our own mind. Smooth talkers, smooth text smooth articulate posts are, bait for the thinking pussy. I do not take the bait, though I do admire your IQ. Talk is cheap Text is cheap Whispering in my ear when your cock is so hard its going to burst is also nice but its just sexual play Its amazing how people get dumb as bat shit after the hunt is over and the dick is flaccid Fuck me by all means, but please do not piss in my pocket at the same time. And ladies that go , but he seemed to really want me bad and I thought he would come back. Just do not let the door hit the arse of the smooth talker as he heads out. Just enjoy the moment and throw the dictionary out and enjoy the dick.

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missangelina

14 years ago

I find your language very sexy Jamesnp & Stalky & othersYour comments are always funny and edgy and thought-provoking.That's why I enjoy reading the Forums topics.The Neanderthal approach does have its attraction at times but not often. lolAngelina

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