M50 F50
Have You Found What You Are Looking For?
July 06 2019
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ElectricDreamers
6 years ago
A sliver not silver... but yes should clarify I'm referring to sexy expectations...
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RHP User
6 years ago
The carpet is always greener under someone else’s bed. 💥😜😆
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RHP User
6 years ago
In abundance
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RHP User
6 years ago
Where to start.........Ive made lifelong friends on here, men and women. That was unexpected. I have a whole new social circle of wonderful people. Ive been very sexually experimental and have had the best sex of my life in the last 5 years. Ive met some amazing men that I still keep in touch with/see. I originally joined looking for a friend with benefits, but its been a hell of a ride since then. Ill have some very good memories when I eventually leave. ( who am I kidding! )
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Exactly what Koko states. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
I have met my soul mates here and travelled the world with them. Ms Foxy x
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
I haven't found all that I'm looking for but I am eternally grateful for what I have found. Does that make sense?
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Treborandevad
6 years ago
🎵🎶And we still haven't found what we're looking for!🎶🎵😀😀 Well, not entirely true! What started as a challenge from an FF couple has exceeded all expectations. The ladies and couples we have entertained have been delightful and great sex, good laughs and fun times have been delivered in abundance. Thanks to all. .😘😘
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RHP User
6 years ago
But I think I was looking for another me..and I have certainly found me :) Hugs Q
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Dickens works “It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair.”
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RHP User
6 years ago
Exceeded our expectations on some levels!
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SSExplorer
6 years ago
The universe has delivered us to each other against pretty amazing odds and we are eternally grateful for the chance to build a life together. Neither of us knew the kink we both harboured before we committed and still amazed at our compatibility. RHP has helped us learn but as yet our few practical experiences have come from other areas. We have potentially met a couple that could be our dreams and fantasies come true but with location distance it is a slow ride. We so yearn to indulge and bond with like individuals but know like most couples we already have each other and the commitments that go with that means rhp fun won’t be as regular as our bedroom discussions would like it to be!
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RHP User
6 years ago
We met each other through another dating app, we were both pretty much over the whole dating scene and we went there with great cynicism and no expectations. Chemistry did its work and we were pulled towards one another instantly. Second date ended with frantic wild sex and soon after that we moved in together. A year and a half passed since then and it’s been nothing but beautiful memories and wild experiences we explored together. As for RHP; we met some respectful and passionate single men who was very eager to please her, but with couples or single women nothing too deep or anything with substance as we intended when we joined this. She enjoys the occasional mischief where he is also present but she is losing interest nowadays as there is nothing more than “let’s meet and bang” approach. Our sex life is very satisfying so we are actually looking forward to meet people to build friendships with as there is only so much sex you can have.. It’d be lovely to meet likeminded people todo stuff with but getting laid seems to be easier than making friends nowadays : ) Strange world.
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
On a number of occasions. I also found people and experiences I didn't know I was looking for, and that has made life far more lively, enriching and interesting. 😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
We haven't found what we are looking for on RHP, and after a few rough weeks I, Xanthea, considered quitting and hid our profile for a few days. We have met two couple purely from messaging with RHP. Most people we have met through meet and greets and parties. We have made some friends but mostly without benefits. Our rough time consisted of going to a club where the men outnumbered the women by 15 to 1 and a larger girl abused me in the bathroom for being skinny and pretty. The following week we were stood up. In a community that prides itself with respect, I find it disturbing that most people don't reply to messages. I have seen this referred to as a job application. I am sorry. This is not a job. Am I the only one who replies to flirts and messages even if it is a no? Still wondering if this is right for me.
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RHP User
6 years ago
XantheaHunter; We have had similar experiences, including an attractive but very unstable female hitting on us then making up stories about serial suicides. Then we got approached by another female who threw a tantrum when things didn’t go her way, all we did was to tell her in a civilized manner that it was best for everyone to not pursue a sexual connection, she lost it and we started getting irrational messages. We disabled RHP for a while and focused on our relationship, staying away from dating etc in general, it was nice to have some peace and quiet, which made us question whether this is actually the right platform. There is an inherent difference between swinging scene and poly scene. By nature swinging scene is far more shallow than poly environment, and poly events attract very different kind of people that you can sit and talk about anything from current affairs to ancient history, education level is much higher there. Swinging scene revolves around sex so it attracts all kinds of people. Then it’s a trivia who you are going to meet. Some people have good experiences, but then we are both wired different sexually. We need some degree of intimacy to take pleasure from getting sexual with someone and that’s not what swinging is about so we don’t attend these events. You need to find your crowd. Swinging is not ours.
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Xanthea Which club ? The one in Seaford? If so, we had the same experience there .
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
In the context of RHP We have met a few really nice couples, single guys and single girls. Good people that we often socialise with and have, we feel, become good friends with. Our needs, wants , desires and “ what we are looking for “ have evolved /changed , and grown over the years on here. Often morphing into something different, as our moods & desires change. It has certainly been fun. It (RHP) however does not control our lives. It’s there when we are in the mood.
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RHP User
6 years ago
...what an interesting and close to my heart (and other body parts) topic at this moment in my life... ...I've had amazing experiences in the online dating and related lifestyle scene...the operative word being 'had'...the experiences of late haven't been as exciting nor met my expectations... ...I find the connections very loose, as Electric mentioned above, no depth...I don't know if it's because people don't know how to be real 'friends' any longer; or if it's because the minute 'sex' is included in a sentence, it turns even the most intelligent into bumbling idiots; or if people don't know how to navigate around or understand an 'open relationship'...who knows, but I am finding my current journey less memorable than I would like. ...no complaints in my life overall, I am not so consumed with the less than perfect interactions that I want to throw in the towel completely...I simply will continue to exercise patience and use my instincts and tips and tricks to ensuring my partners, lovers, and friends are truly worthy of my time and attention, and I of theirs, and all will be as it is meant to be...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes, DC, the club at Seaford on an Event night.
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RHP User
6 years ago
That club has a bad reputation. Clubs in general are motivated by profit so they will let single men in as long as they pay. They don’t care if they outnumber women. It turns the place into meat market where 10 to 20 men eyes one woman, and that’s when it stops being fun.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Monday nights is tricky during term so when we heard of the Event night run by the same people we jumped at the chance. The venue and entertainment were spectacular. The behavior of some of the women and the ratio were not. We are only relatively new and only learning about which clubs and parties are suitable for us. We aren't even really sure if we're poly or swingers. We both want a connection and play friends rather than a hookup.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Funny how the universe works sometimes. I have found someone outside RHP, in my back yard. Ms Foxy
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bonefide
6 years ago
Did u nurture it to grow bigger with tenderness????? Sorry could resist. Back to the forum
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Mask_007
6 years ago
I must make some words used at post as my own. " I have not found what I am looking for, but am extremely grateful by what all I got so far." Extremely amazing people.
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Xanthea We went to the Seaford club on an event night - Xmas themed party with both sides of the club open. We got chatting to a chap we knew from Bay City. He offered to give us a guided tour. We got up from our chairs downstairs near the bar, and as we did so, about 30 single males did the same and followed us upstairs. Our tour guide took us from room to room, with the predatory pack of meerkats breathing down our necks. At one point in time he told them to F off. On the way down the stairs, they tried to separate me from my husband, trying to solicit & grope me. It was not pleasant at all. We were the slimmest couple there. We have been to their sister club in Elsternwick, which is now couples / single females only every Saturday night. Management was telling us ( they also work @ Seaford ) how stressful it is to work at Seaford on the nights that single males are let in. That on these nights they have a lot of trouble & unpleasant things happening, lots of complaints etc. We have not been back to Seaford
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
Actually they fixed my irrigation. 😉 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
The problem with club at Seaford is that it’s located in a very rough area. So when single men are let in, lot of locals flood the place -why would anyone let single men in is beyond me- So you get a crowd who doesn’t fully understand the difference between a club and brothel, partly because they are not aware of the concepts lot of people here live around and partly because -let’s face it- the place attracts lot of uneducated, rough, misogynistic cavemen. So they see and treat few women who are unfortunate enough to go there as preys for their predatory behavior. How come the management overlooks this and still allows single bogans in is beyond me. I am very protective of mrs, and having worked at clubs long time ago i can smell trouble when single men are mentioned. Yes, there are lot of reasons why men can be single but you let hordes of people who can’t even manage to grab a fwb to an event, you are setting the stage for conflict.
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RHP User
6 years ago
No unfortunately but
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Hinted to, l found myself as well. I found a lot of other things along the way that l had in my fuckit bucket and now my bucket is empty. The ride has been spectacular, rocky and very fast. I found a lot of things that cant be unseen or forgotten nor would l want to. Its been an eye opener to say the least. But it was a journey that fulfilled my life, filled my life with friends that l would not have had otherwise. I found myself again after 40 years of being lost in the blah world of conformity. Living my life to everyone elses expectations and needs. I've met beautiful people , I've met and played with psychos but l survived.....Just.I'm maybe getting to old, the upcoming meet and greet may be my last but if do have the courage to exit the rear door of RHP, rest assured, l did find what l was not looking for
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RHP User
6 years ago
...I ever have found what I am looking for then I have become complacent. It's not that I would want more or bigger or better or faster or or or... but as on goal is reached then another will always surface. It's inevitable and I would not change that. So in the sense of reaching an ideal of non-fulfillment, I am there!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I find it amusing that all the married couples who slag off all single guys forget one thing. Hubby was once a "single" guy, shock horror. Dont be smug now that you have found your lady. You were once one of those guys that you are dissing now.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Kokoflamingo; Except there was never unwanted advances or herd mentality from myself. You are forgetting that we are talking about disturbing behavior from single men here. Like 30 males following a couple around.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not yet to find a fit but only new and working out the world to online fun
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RHP User
6 years ago
" Im not one of the lowlife" mentality is also disturbing. Still, obviously your Mrs found what she was looking for so all good
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Mask_007
6 years ago
MaenadandCentaur. "why would anyone let single men in is beyond me" Very big generalization. I am Single guy, and can tell you not part of that stereotype at all. Is very har for us, "well behaved guy" to do/participate in anything as people having that tipe of attitude. Everyone have been single before, but some people choose to forget, make big generalization and just paint everyone with the same brush. Just really hope for people change those tipes of judgements. Nothing against anyone. At the end of the day is not my lost, missing the opportunity to meet some amazing people.
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BungCpl
6 years ago
We like parties that allow Single Males to attend within reason and actually miss the Saturday night parties at Elsternwick, never found them all that bad and never really had to say too much more than No, not interested. Agree that a ratio of 15 to 1 is bad management though and can understand how that would be uncomfortable, although I would assume that experience was possibly not as bad as a female attacking another female in the toilets because of size / looks? It’s interesting that everyone seems to have skipped that part of Xanthea’s comment and gone straight after the throat of all single males that go to parties. Say’s a lot in my opinion. Xanthea - Sorry you had a bad experience, it is good to hear you have worked through it and haven’t let it affect you too much.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Kokoflamingo Standing up against sexual harassment is disturbing? I am a male who is vocal about misogynistic behavior from other men, what’s wrong about this? I am confused, enlighten me.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
In an Adult Club. Sorry but I find it very hard to believe your statement "Like 30 males following a couple around." Really, 30 males?? I highly doubt it considering there are other people there. What scent or behaviour is this couple giving off. What's the secret? Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Clubs Ive been to dont allow that sort of behaviour, and I havent seen it myself. If you mean 30 guys who went to the same adult club were acting aggressively and wouldnt leave you two alone then I suggest you report that behaviour to the owners. I agree with Foxxxy. I doubt you had 30 guys on your tail all night. Ive been approached politely by one or 2 men at a club, there was no bad behaviour. Maybe the clubs in Perth are different?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Im starting another post on single men. Good to see so many people who are happy with the outcome of joining the site x
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Having been to said club and seeing it, l can support the 30 males syndrome. On a quiet night with few couples, l saw a pack of a dozen or so following a couple so a busier night is quite possible. Having said that, the pack was a respectable lot. I saw no inappropriate behaviour and were obviously happy with a perve through the perve window of the showroom..... So whilst a pack of thirty may be daunting, I'm sure safety was never compromised and it would tick the box if you were an exhibitionist
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RHP User
6 years ago
We have met only one person from here and have formed a friendship. We are looking for more and reaching out via message but most go unreplied. For those that do reply some are just looking for naughty pics while others go cold or stand us up. Pretty disappointed with our experience here to be honest.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have made some amazing friends here of which I am so grateful but I haven't found the one person for me. Given up on Mr Right but a Mr Right now would be nice lol. That's ok though as I'm happy in my own skin and have found myself 😊
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
I get that as exhibitionist. Fair to say and yes I agree tick the box. However I took the statement as them not being exhibitionists, due to the fact 30 men following them. Exhibitionists wouldn't make a statement like that. In fact they would get a real kick out of it. I took their statement about 30 men being degrotery and creepy towards them and a put down of single men. I have actually met some single gents at clubs. They actually are great fun. Look at "G" who you met in Adelaide. How cool was he. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
Funny. I’ve had 5 of those fictitious flirts this morning and only one profile is still In existence. Ironically three of them state their home town as a place 10km from where I grew up. Not only is this a tiny town in a rural area, of maybe one hundred people but I know everyone who lives there; so it just confirms the ‘bullshit’ profile status.
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RHP User
6 years ago
We entered just after the club opened with a few females and a number of males. Some of the males and one of the females started talking with Hunter and me. They were all nice and respectful. As the club filled up, we noticed the ratio, but most men just stared. That made me feel uncomfortable but not one man was rude to either of us while we were there and no single man other that the stripper tried to touch me. The stripper was wise enough to know what he could get away with and quickly found another girl. Two single women were rude to us that night. One tried to push Hunter away from me and told him she just wanted me. We moved away from her quickly, I went to the bathroom and was abused by the girl I mentioned earlier. The entire experience left me feeling flat but it was other things that happened afterwards that made me wonder if this lifestyle is the right choice for me. It definitely has made us more selective about what events we go to. I hope this clears things up. Quoting 'NewVicCpl' We like parties that allow Single Males to attend within reason and actually miss the Saturday night parties at Elsternwick, never found them all that bad and never really had to say too much more than No, not interested. Agree that a ratio of 15 to 1 is bad management though and can understand how that would be uncomfortable, although I would assume that experience was possibly not as bad as a female attacking another female in the toilets because of size / looks? It’s interesting that everyone seems to have skipped that part of Xanthea’s comment and gone straight after the throat of all single males that go to parties. Say’s a lot in my opinion. Xanthea - Sorry you had a bad experience, it is good to hear you have worked through it and haven’t let it affect you too much.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I get that as exhibitionist. Fair to say and yes I agree tick the box. However I took the statement as them not being exhibitionists, due to the fact 30 men following them. Exhibitionists wouldn't make a statement like that. In fact they would get a real kick out of it. I took their statement about 30 men being degrotery and creepy towards them and a put down of single men. I have actually met some single gents at clubs. They actually are great fun. Look at "G" who you met in Adelaide. How cool was he. Ms Foxy Yes 'G' was great, as was everyone else that attended Adelaide.And in general 95% of single guys are great. Just like the 95% of attached women. And 95% of attached men.I'd go as far as to say that 5% attached women cause more problens than single men.Insecurity, a few champagne and the ability to manipulate the crowd. A perfect example shown above.I get that many would be intimidated by roving packs of males and big ratios are not good. These large packs would probably be self disciplining, the respectful guys calling out shit behaviour of their own
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RHP User
6 years ago
I joined the site looking for some interesting conversations and broadened horizons. I found the love of my life and some very dear friends. I'm not around on here much any more - my visit today was prompted by a post on FB from an RHP friend, which reminded me I haven't been on for a while!
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RHP User
6 years ago
I've found nothing here at RHP, as nobody responded. The rest is ok :)
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’ve met a handful of people on RHP. All great. Happy memories. Thank you all. However in the end I’m finding myself. Like Q said. Onward and upward!
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
Quoting 'MaenadandCentaur' Yes, there are lot of reasons why men can be single but you let hordes of people who can’t even manage to grab a fwb to an event, I actually understand and empathise somewhat with the problems you have described (bogan/disrespectful behaviour etc). Maybe a slightly different wording you really meant, but on this sentence in particular, I think it is not all quite fair to group anyone based on one's ability or inability to gain a FWB or similar (female) partner to go to an event with. Which happens to be one of the things I am still looking for one this (or any other) site. (Right on the OPs topic haha, and if all goes well would result in the deletion of all my vanilla dating site profiles...) (More correctly FYI, I do have an interstate FWB and a FWB in the form of a couple, such events though would require a local, single/solo FWB or female partner for a male to attend with. I hope for more events to attend as a single for the benefit of meeting a FWB there, and not in advance per se).
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RHP User
6 years ago
I can honestly say the swinging world killed our marriage so NO didn’t find what we were looking for.
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RHP User
6 years ago
As much as I would like to say yes, I can’t as being a single male has made it a lot more difficult than I thought. Being newish to Melbourne and not really into the club, pub scene as a single I thought this would be a good way to meet people for anything from friendship, dinner and drinks friends to relaxing day at the beach type of connection and if anything further happened then great. If not still great as would at least have met people to socialise with. Maybe one day
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Innocentfun' I can honestly say the swinging world killed our marriage so NO didn’t find what we were looking forThis is the most interesting answer on here, and I personally would like to know more about how/why etc.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Innocentfun' I can honestly say the swinging world killed our marriage so NO didn’t find what we were looking for.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have recently - and finally - found an amazing couple that are everything I've been looking for, and it seems I them as we are planning further. It has taken a few years, plenty of patience and keeping a civil tongue in my head (mostly) with the time-wasters and fakers - of which there are plenty. I will add to what others have said when the old ''single men are shit'' topics appear on here (as they seem to regularly) - couples can be just as bad. But hey, mind totally blown (among other things) of recent and proof positive that patience, and just being yourself, is the key.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Well done. As the old adage goes, "it won't happen overnight, but it will happen". Makes 1 wonder how many overnights it takes....100....300....1200..?
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RHP User
6 years ago
countrytouch82 Actually, I was referring to one particular place and location in my comments and how it was managed, but as the discussion got heated, it started to revolve around single men in general and I believe it ended up at some place I did not intend to, neither anticipate. Now I have no intention to put all single men in one group, or any gender and people of certain marital status in such group, I was strictly speaking about bad management and how -in my opinion- certain events should be reserved for certain ratios or kept to certain standards -if I am going somewhere with missus both of us all dressed up and such, people going in there -single men or not- should not just walk in in high vis still visibly covered by dirt from work. Now I am sure someone will jump in and this time accuse me of looking down on blue collars, concreteers, plumbers etc. but I want to enjoy some class and I want to know people put some effort when they attend these events. I don’t care what anyone does for a living, as long as it’s honest work but leave your work attire at work man... As for “single men who can’t manage to bring a fwb to an event”; again, I used to work at clubs for years, we would try to control the ratio of people in the club, men would often try to get in with all kinds of excuses; “Missus got sick, my partner will arrive by herself, I am just here to look for a mate etc : )” Yes I was single myself at some point, honestly I didnt attend events as single man, I just didn’t see the point. Once I got in with invitation, there were just lot of dudes hanging around, trying to look cool, hoping to get some action. I just went “yeah, I am not doing this” I simply created a profile at tinder and other sites and went to dates. Many of them were just hit and miss but I met lot more people than I possibly could at clubs. Now this whole “single men” argument is out of control and I believe it’s just a matter of being lost in translation. If people actually went back in my comments they could see that my first positive comment about people we met here was about single men. I dont think anyone found it convenient to mention that one : ) Further to that, our only negative experiences from this site were with single women, which I also mentioned earlier. Again, that went entirely unnoticed. I’ll just say it’s misunderstanding and move on.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes ! Although it's like playing that battle ships game hahaha
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Well done. As the old adage goes, "it won't happen overnight, but it will happen". Makes 1 wonder how many overnights it takes....100....300....1200..? It was roughly 1200 overnights Annie.
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RHP User
6 years ago
it killed your marriage, Innocent Fun
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compressor
6 years ago
If I was a member it would be easier. My fingers are crossed lol. Just being honest
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RHP User
6 years ago
We are still looking for that elusive unicorn... the only two ladies that showed any interest turned out to be fake 😒 disappointed so far but still hopeful 😘
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RHP User
6 years ago
Truthfully no
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have found a few lovers, and I think I may well have found what I was looking for, but I guess I'll find out in due course if I really have. I've had a couple of women who were dead set serious about taking me away from Wifey and that's not going to happen. One took very little time to demand I left Wifey for her, another was beginning what I saw as a devious attempt to lure me away from her. If, I mean IF I leave Wifey it will be because she is telling me to fuck off or by my own choice. Women that respect my marriage are pretty much guaranteed my respect in return. I had dinner with a new lady friend last night and I will be seeing her again, she's aware that Wifey's a keeper. I haven't actually found a lover through RHP but I have made some friends and perhaps an enemy. I actually found my first lover on a free site despite wasting my money elsewhere. The woman I met last night was on my first day on a new site, it was an expensive site that I had baulked at joining so I took a trial membership for less than two bucks and within a few hours we were exchanging phone texts. 😁 Nowadays I'm happy to be here for the forums and the banter, as well as hopefully getting along to another social meet and greet. I was going to ride my bike down to the Bunbury lunch a few years ago but someone invoked Murphy's Law and I had a bloody sore back at the time. I don't know about the happily ever after but I do find that I agree with some of the women around my age that we should definitely live for the moment. Life is great but it has a use by date... CARPE DIEM 😜👍💋
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RHP User
6 years ago
Was definitely an eye opener and was full of new experiences. It was what I needed in many ways. Made some great friends along the way. The past year has shown me that you still need to meet people while out and about. As online we are a throw away commodity. Majority just looking for a hook up or an exchange of pics and sex text. Give me the real live people face to face conversation. So much can be lost via media communication. But upside reading the forums over morning coffee is always good. So still here but losing interest quickly think I won't be renewing my membership.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Next question? 😁
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RHP User
6 years ago
I recently went to Shed 16 also on a Saturday night and didn’t realise it was open to so many single men either...felt like a piece of meat and they would follow us everywhere we went. I still had fun with a girl there...even though the guys were banging on the door to join us. I’ve heard Friday nights at Shed 16 are the best as no single guys are allowed...only couples and single girls. I’ve had many amazing experiences - some with couples that I’d never see again, but then there are the few that you connect with and catch up to play or even just hang out. Don’t give up x
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RHP User
6 years ago
No i haven't i think because one my age 2 i travel and live in my motorhome Finding friendship along the way would be great A glass of red a nice meal good conversation all under the stars and around a camp fire were ever i am I think im asking for to much
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Sawadee
6 years ago
Someone who''s reason for being here are as simple as mine. Im here to link up with a fun loving female who likes mutual respect as much as the benefits that come with it. A fwb would be nice ..Simple right ? In reality No.? I put that down to ppl putting too many demands ... My thoughts , lighten up, show some respect and there's sure to be more lovin..
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RHP User
6 years ago
No
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RHP User
6 years ago
Not. Even. Close.
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RHP User
6 years ago
to many fake profiles on here man acting as females Not. Even. Close.
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RHP User
6 years ago
In a word.... no All ive found here is men who are either lying to me or their wives. If society hadnt eroded to the point where unless you spell out what youre after online, you dont meet anyone new, because theyre all at home on the internet... id not even be on this site. I constantly am driven to wonder why i am on here.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'ummidontknow' In a word.... no All ive found here is men who are either lying to me or their wives. If society hadnt eroded to the point where unless you spell out what youre after online, you dont meet anyone new, because theyre all at home on the internet... id not even be on this site. I constantly am driven to wonder why i am on here. You sound pretty peeved with life and society in general. There are good people out there and you will meet them, just takes time.
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RHP User
6 years ago
This really does hinge greatly on the definition of success... For my view, I’ve met some incredible people, I’ve socialised and connected with dozens more.... To me that IS success....but my focus isn’t on the sex as it appears a lot of others are....
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RHP User
6 years ago
that a membership should translate to sex on tap for so many men. Anti you have the right attitude, always seeing the positive. It's very endearing. Men need to realise that this isn't that much different to real life. How do they fair in RL? If the answer is not a hope, well unfortunately here or any other online platform won't be a lot different. I'm sure they think we're free hookers ready and waiting to fulfil their every desire 😏
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RHP User
6 years ago
And what did you expect you would get for your 'money' mate? That's called a brothel
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
No haven't found it quite yet
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RHP User
6 years ago
I have been on here 2 months with no luck so I'm not sure what we are doin wrong.anyone got any advice
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RHP User
6 years ago
It just looks like a guy's profile to me. Just saying how it looks. Are you a couple of a single?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Hey I want you now. Text me 0466673659 so we can make a time and place.
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AKAHunk
6 years ago
I've found RHP has really fulfilled everything I was looking for on here, and more. I've had some amazing encounters of all sorts, attended parties, hosted some pretty successful gatherings, and made some great friends, both for fun and just as friends. The only thing left on my list now (that wasn't on it when I first joined) is to find something long term, something I originally didn't consider looking for on RHP. To the guys out there saying they aren't having success, a couple of tips: never assume you'll "score", either when meeting for a drink or at a party/club whatever....people will sense that and stay away in droves. Put some time into writing a proper profile, but some decent photos up, don't bullshit (women have pretty finely tuned bullshit detectors after being on RHP for a bit), and just be a decent human....it'll get you a lot further than lying about your age, putting up old photos etc.
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